every time it has put me in a soup which ever option i take.........
2006-07-18 22:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by greeksun 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Again, not understanding. Contrary to pop belief, we are social beings. Most of the knowledge we have was aquired through other people-for example look at the language we use to think. So, not understanding excludes us from one more source of info.
Also, out of pure self interest, not understanding leaves us unable to predict what they will do and how they could assists us in getting what we want, since their response to our behavior is unknown and we can't plan around it.
Without more specific about how you get in "soup", I wonder if you are spending a lot of effort empathising with others, to the point of losing some of the logic that you had and having it filled with whomever's you are listening to at the moment. Maybe if you could work on some critical listening, the other folks would also be burdened with working towards the point of view you had put together.
Good luck, some folks never even try to see the other pov, and some take everyones never having their own.
2006-07-21 14:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by bizsmithy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to take on anyone's opinion
That is why you put yourself in the soup lol
You have your own beliefs and your own opinions
You can listen to what people have to say but you don't have to do what they say.
We are all different and we all come on our own journey of life
We all have our own lessons to learn no one can learn them for us.
People can guide you support you but they just can't do it for you.
Do what you feels right in your heart.
And if it is wrong learn from your mistakes ok
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-07-19 05:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not understanding is always the down fall...
WHY?
If you know what is going on you can make an informed decision.
If you don't know what's going on you could be mislead...
2006-07-19 08:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋