2006-07-14 02:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by Haha 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I am talking of women out there interested in having lovers much more younger than themselves.
2006-07-14 02:51:45 · update #1
No thanks. I find the older ones are better...
2006-07-14 02:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the other way around. There are more young men who are interested in much older mature women. On the other hand, if the woman (30 and above) is married, she probably wouldn't mind having a much younger lover... just a lover, not a life partner. In my opinion, if the age gap is not too wide, and the lover is mature for his young age, then, the relationship might just work.
2006-07-26 05:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's need's are different. We out grow sleeping around. I wouldn't see anything wrong with being with a younger man ( my husband is almost 5 years my junior ), but I would want more than a lover. Sex gets old without meaning. If a man in his 20's could challenge a woman mentally,please her in bed and be a friend it's all good.
2006-07-22 17:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6 years late to this post. How I got to it is that I have a friend who is struggling with things he found out after marrying a woman he thought was honest, fun, loving and a perfect match as a life partner. Like Michael, his woman volunteered personal relationship info to him. This seemed to vindicate his initial assessment of her as his perfect match, after all she could have kept this information secret. He loved her more for the confession. To him she was just an unfortunate victim of naivety and deceitful men. So, when she later hinted and pressed for marriage, he didn't hesitate to oblige even though they had dated for only a short time. After all he loved her - what would be the point of delaying. So they got married and as often happens in marriage due to the nature of the relationship, things just pop up here and there, uninvited. He later discovered that although she had volunteered info about having had 3 sexual partners, she had actually had 15 before him, he was actually number 16 instead of number 4. This is of cause counting just the ones that popped up. He may actually not even be number 16. Not only had the number of partners suddenly multiplied 5 times, it also turned out that she had had 4 failed pregnancies by different men from those past relationships. It is not known how many of the failed pregnancies failed through abortion and how many through miscarriage. As if that were not enough to deal with, it turns out that a good number of the exes remain in her life as 'friends". HE IS DEVASTATED to say the least. Did I mention that 11 of these sexual partners were over a period of just 3 years? As with Michael's girlfriend, her (known) magic number is also 16 at 30 years of age. If I had caught Michael's post in time, I would have asked Michael to be wary of volunteered information about a partners past when that information is not flattering. Michael should have probably multiplied 16 by five to get close to the actual number. I remember reading somewhere that when volunteering bad information, women usually proportionally edit the facts to what they feel would be more acceptable or tolerable compared to the actual fact. Therefore if Michael's girlfriend volunteered 16 as her acceptable magic number, I would say this is way too much - she's now (then) in slut territory.
2016-03-27 04:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The expression 'Get them young, train them right' comes to mind. The sex with a young man can be very invigorating...but one can't live on sex 24 hours a day. Personally, I want more than a junior caveman. He has to be able to THINK and TALK...hopefully about more than 'me want more'. Does he keep up on current news, what's going on in the world? Is he a few years ones junior? or a whole lot younger? I thought my husband was considerably older, and he thought I was a lot younger. Turns out I was older than he. Perhaps, it's all in the perceived relevance. Or maybe, just the non-chemistry time.
2006-07-26 06:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Gran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. A man -- or woman in their 20's needs to experience life... A person in their 30's pretty much has learned from these experiences already and does not need to play teacher.
Unless, of course, you're into that sort of thing with the whole school uniform bit....
2006-07-27 05:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that.
It has good points and bad points. I had to explain too much - there was too much about my life and times that he didn't understand.
We had different senses of humor - found VERY different things funny.
We had different ideas of what to do for fun.
The age difference between 24 and 30 isn't all that much, though.
2006-07-27 09:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by lrad1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a white woman age 58 and my fiancee is 34. We are very happy together -- he takes me everywhere and by the way he is the one with the money not me..
2006-07-26 13:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by whenwhalesfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, my husband is 8 years older than me and I love it that way. He is more mature, responsible, loving, and very trustworthy.
2006-07-27 19:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are looking for them just for one night stands, they enjoy the sex, but not the company and the conversation...
2006-07-14 03:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya
I'm 31, and I don't really think of myself as a 'Matured Woman' yet.
I think that description sounds like something you would use for cheese.
I've only just stopped being a kid, thanks!
2006-07-14 02:53:41 · answer #11 · answered by wee_bumble_bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋