My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year or more, and we are planning for our wedding. For the past few weeks he said he wants to have a child soon as we can, and that we should start trying. He also keeps telling me his destiny is to be a good father. He's a good guy, so it’s no doubt he wouldn’t be. I’m not ready, and I have tired to tell him this, but he tells me I'm just scared that we will fail as parents.
I have just a year left to get my B.A. He supports me, and make sure I do good in school. I don’t know how to get threw to him that, I’m not ready, without hurting his feelings... Could it also be because he’s adopted? We just found out his real parents and family, and it didn’t go to well. They basically told him he was mistake and that he was never wanted. Or maybe because he is older than me. He’s about 7 to 8 years older than me. Age never matter to us. I really do love him. We also have a very honest and good relationship.
2006-08-17
20:15:21
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Samantha
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