ok my little brother needs new friends because his friends are mean to him and and his friends use him for his x box and his money and that makes me mad so what do i do??????????????
2006-08-18 09:21:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
okay why would you post this question under trying to conceive?
2006-08-18 09:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweetiepi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to new people.
Is he a member of a Cub Scout or Boy Scout Troop that is a good place to start? Does your church have an activity group for people his age? Is he a member of a sport team, is he interested in sports?
Find out what his interests are and appeal to him that way. Does he like comic books or science fiction, does he play Magic The Gathering, does he collect baseball cards? There are conventions for these things and you can meet a lot of people there. There are also stores that sell them and he can meet new people there.
What are his hobbies? Find one and see if there is someway for him to meet new people. The Internet is loaded with forums on almost every topic. Find one, besides porn, that he would be interested in and encourage him to join the forum.
If he meets people in the wider world, even if it is only on the Internet, then he will learn about other people and how they behave; if he does that then he may realize that his current crop of friends aren't that good. He can find people that are more like he is and develop friendships. Even if he meets adults they may have children his age, or they could lead him to some.
The world is a wide place with a lot to do and explore. Help him get out there and find a part that he likes.
2006-08-18 09:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick those little boys arses... Okay not really... I do have a neice though who hangs out with these little kids that tease her and are very mean to her, she is three and doesnt understand that these little kids are making fun of her.. I confronted them (because they are older) and told them they need to back off her, its not fair that she has to be taken inside when they are hitting her!!!! So i say, confront his friends or him and let them know they need to stop using him. Or tell him he really needs to watch his back when with them. Tell him not to be a push over and always give in to what they say to him. Because if he always gives in, they will think its okay to use him
2006-08-18 09:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about his friends, reasib with him so that you anf him can be happy. Or just be the bossy sister type and get rid of his mean friends and get him new ones or give him no choice, but to looks for new ones. Good luck :).
2006-08-18 09:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try introducing him to your friends younger brothers. Or offer to take him to the park to meet new friends. Find an arcade nearby and go see who's there. And try to support his new friendships.
2006-08-18 09:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you sound like my neice Amber. She is having the same problem with her older brother. I wish I could help you but until he realizes there using him and bullying him there really isnt much you can do. Ill pray for you both though.
2006-08-22 06:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if one of your friends have a little brother his age
2006-08-18 09:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure he's being used, his friends dont have an x box or ps2 unimaginable in this day and age for kids not to have a games machine. all boys use each other ask your bro does he go round to their mums houses and play.
2006-08-18 09:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother to never borrow their things to people that want his friendship only for that, tell him to make friends first, and the share those things with them.
2006-08-18 09:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be gentle with him and wait for him to approach you about it. He probably thinks those are his friends. The best thing you can do is wait for him to ask your advice. Then tell him he is better than that and that he does not need friends who use him.
2006-08-18 09:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by katethefabulous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOU DEMAND HIM TO GET NEW FRIENDS! they arent his friends the ones who use him. i know this is a different situation but my ex treated me like that hed always use me to get what he wanted it didnt work so i know how it feels to be used in any way...try to get to know some people his age and the ones you think would be his true friends..introduce them to each other..maybe he will come around and make new friends who treat him better
2006-08-18 09:29:04 · answer #11 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋