We have been trying for almost 3 years now it is not going good! What should I try or do. I have a son he is 5 so I don't think that it is me.
2006-08-17 22:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I was in the same boat as you. My son will be 4 on Monday. Hubby and I tried for 2 years and nothig worked. I heard through a friend that her doctor suggested an herbal medication for her and her husband. She said anyone who she told about it was pregnant within months. I thought what the heck I have tried everything else. We went online did the research and bought 3 months worth of the male and female pills. And a month and a half later I was pregnant. I am living proof this stuff works. I am 9 1/2 weeks along and tell everyone I come across this is the reason why.
Go online and get Ovulex and Amberoz. It really works
2006-08-18 07:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..I know how u feel...U will have to seek the guidence of a good gyno. The treatment will be decided based on ur age as well.
But if age is not a barrier yet ,try to go natural...
I am 35Y & have a son 13Y (1st marriage)out of sheer desire to have another child (with my present husband) I treid IUI & IVF both(also naturally) cause my husbands sprem count is low but so far failed.
IUI is a easy treatment comparing to IVF. If u browse the internet u will get much more details about it.
when it goes out of the hand from new science...it is in GODs hand.
But belive "everything happens for a reason" but try every possible way (when the possibilities are there)so u will have no regrets even if u fail.Best of luck!!
2006-08-18 06:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by nicky d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple of weeks or so until you are ovulating and he has not had sex for a while. Shove a pillow under your tail bone and or get into the pretzel position legs behind shoulder and have sex. After wards try and stay in that position for a while and or use a vibrator to try and push the sperm deposit further down in side you. The pretzel position is used to shorten wour canal and increase the chance he can stimulate you as well as the chance that he can impregnate you. The Pillow is to try and get the deposit to flow deeper iside you and stay there. Viagara might help him to get erect. Estrogen might help you. Testosterone might help him. In sort, plan out your next big night and give it your all. If it doesn't work go to a urologist and a gyneocologist ahve yourselves checked out and then go to a fertility clinic and see what they suggest. Good Luck.
2006-08-18 05:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this - not to try to concieve for at least 3 months - to make sure this is in your system
Try Agnus Castus - can get from good health stores - Holland and Barratt
Take everyday for 3 / 4 months as well as folic acid - get your partner to take multi-vitamins too
In study of 100 people with infertility problems, in 3/4 months 70 became pregnant 1st time.
I used this to help me concieve my son, and after 12 months of trying I am using it again to see if I can get pregnant again.
You have only 'wasted' 3 months of your time - surely its worth it!!!
Can always ask for dr referral too - but in the mean time......
It is all natural so dont panic - it is a dried fruit from the med counteries and central asia
2006-08-18 06:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Dr. to see if you are ovulating. He might put you on Clomid or you might want to get your husbands sperm count checked out. It's 5 years since you got pregnant. The good news is you know you can have kids. This time you just may need some medical way of getting there. best of luck
2006-08-18 08:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tammy, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-08-18 08:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been that long and you have tried using ovulation kits/monitors and have been having sex at the right times to be pregnant its time to see a specialist. You both will need to be tested for fertility. They will ask him to go into the office to masterbate and test his sperm..so prepare him. And if you have not done so you will need a basal thermometer and and ovulation kit to track when you ovulate and such, plus countless hormone tests and sonograms. Ive been through it myself but its worth it to figure out a plan to be pregnant.
2006-08-18 06:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by ladysakari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should both get checked out to see whats up and then determine from there
2006-08-18 06:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are doctors and fertility clinics that can examine the both of you and see whats wrong.....
2006-08-18 05:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋