i slept with a guy, and the condom busted. exactly 2 weeks later i had a period...is it possible for him to be the father of the child im having?
2006-08-17 20:18:53 · 17 answers · asked by bobbyjane 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
IT IS POSSIBLE TO HAVE PERIOD WHILE PREGNANT! I know someone who's having period while pregnant and she didnt know that she is until her tummy is getting bigger and confirmed by the doctor that she really is. Women are not all the same although having period while pregnant is very rare.
You can type on search engine "Pregnant with periods "or any that sounds like and it will show you some informations on this.
On the question above, it sounds like that it is not only one person that you slept with otherwise you wouldn't ask if he is the possible father. If you have regular period and you know when you ovulated then you would have the idea who is the father of your child in your tummy. But the best to check is through DNA test.
2006-08-17 23:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, this is what happens when you have multiple relationships at or about the same time. You wind up questioning who the father might be.
Odds are irrelevant. The answer is you cannot eliminate this guy from the realm of possible fathers. You are going to have to wait a while and hopefully your obstetrician can give you an aproximation on the date of conception, not that it will help. If it does great, if not you are looking at a paternity test. You can do it before the baby is delivered using the ambiotic fluid but you will need a sample from the potential fathers, and by that time they will definitely know you are pregnant. So, it might not help you out relationshipwise.
There is another consideration here and that is the health o the baby. You can do the test after the baby is born and that will help you to map out possible hereditary illnesses in the child. Still the guys will know something is up.
Morally you should come clean and tell everyone you are pregnat and they might be the father just to see how they react. This is like Solomon splitting the baby. He told these two women fighting over the same baby that he would cut it in two and give half to each to see who thought more of the baby and who thought more of themself. A true parent would think more of the child. In this case a true lover would think more of the opportunity and less of who had sex with who and when. Try not to worry about that. It is possible that neither guy is marrying material. It is possible they both are marrying material. You have to tell them the truth to know for sure.
Good Luck.
2006-08-17 22:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the period was very light and only necessitated a pantyliner, then yeh, there might be a possibility. But if it was at any point heavy enough to need a tampon or maxi pad, then it was just a regular period, and no, there's no way it could be his.
When you get your ultrasound done. they'll be able to give you an exact estimate of how far along you are. So, you'll be able to tell exactly when you got pregnant then. They usually do your first ultrasound on your first or second visit to your OB/GYN.
Oh, and people will say that they 'know someone who had their period throughout their pregnancy.' The fact is, that it's not possible, and your doctor will tell you so. A menstrual period is when your uterus sheds it's lining and empties the blood out and disposes of the old egg. Then it fills back up and gets ready to be fertilized. That is what your body does every month. So, how can you have a period through your entire pregnancy unless you have 2 uterus?? It doesn't happen. Don't let ignorance fool you.
Not to be rude...I just get tired of seeing people give wrong answers as if they were right.
2006-08-17 20:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly my advise would be to use good condom which does not burst during the course.Once you had the period after you slept with him in myn opinion that guy can not be the father of the child you are carrying.
2006-08-17 22:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely rare to have a full menstrual period after conception, but it can happen. The only sure way to identify the father is by comparing the genetic patterns of the baby with the genetic patterns of the possible fathers.
2006-08-17 20:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sailcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have your period through pregnancy, Cy - my sister had 3 before they stopped, and my nephew is 3. Don't rule it out until you know the facts. Everyone is different. As for the question, it is possible, but I doubt it unless the period was light and lasted only a day or so.
2006-08-17 21:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by c.grinnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had your period 2 weeks later, I seriously doubt he's the father of the child.
2006-08-17 20:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by kath68142 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible but you should get a dna test done to make sure. Also if he is the only guy you slept with then its his.
2006-08-17 22:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cannot be possible as you had your periods unless they were just spots and very light. He cannot be the father of your child.
2006-08-17 22:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, some people get periods all through their pregnancy's. I hope you haven't had un-protected sex with that many people that it's a mystery as to who your child's father is! Condom's never work for me, they always break...im married now so thankfully no need for them. All the best :)
2006-08-17 20:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by seasunsky 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋