I was doing OK with my pregnancy, but my fiance jokes so much about delivery that it makes me so scared. I am only 14 weeks along, but this already affects me in a bad way.
He is taking an EMT course and tells me how disgusting the process is, that all newborns are ugly, that my body will never be the same. Mostly he jokes about my genitalia, telling I should get a C-section. Then he tells me about complications... etc.
When I tell him that I am scared, he jokes saying maybe you should have gotten an abortion.
I know that he is joking and trying to be a pain. I know that delivery is hard and anything is possible, but when I have my baby, I do not want to think that my husbands is disgusted by us. I just won't be able to have him in delivery room and I am not sure if I want him in the hospital at all.
This is a big joke for him. How do I ignore him and have a healthy pregnancy?
2007-07-15
06:42:53
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