I'm 4 month pregnant and was due to get married to my fiance who is 28 (I'm 36) in August this changed to October now he wants December-when i'm about to give birth!We don't live together but plan to when we marry.He works and studies hard-studying to be an accountant and works as a carer which involves 1-3 sleepovers a week. up to now I have had to go to first scan and antenatals alone, which i didn't want to do, but he was 'busy'. I have an antenatal appt next week where he was needed to give blood *** I have an antibody which puts baby at high risk. His blood type could mean that the baby is protected but he can't make it...expects me to rearrange it. Even though this baby was planned I feel like a single parent. I'm the one planning, getting baby stuff together, buying it too etc and he only seems interested in himself, his studies, how it affects him and his dreams, even when i feel ill with sickness etc I get no sympathy I get told to get on with it, Am I stupid to stay?
2007-07-26
23:15:39
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