no judgements will be made, this is just for curiosity sake
Just out of interest, whether you were on the birth control or not, did you want to be pregnant so bad that you plotted your pregnancy without your partner knowing and then acted completely shocked when you told your partner??
2007-07-26 22:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by momma-to-morgan 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
oi listen here, im asking those who did this. i dont want useless opion about how you think its dispicable and ****! i no its not right i just want to know who has done it. answer other questions if you not gonna answer my question properly
2007-07-26 23:08:15 · update #1
I just wanna see if people out there are conceted enough to tell others that they have done this yet have not told their partner.
2007-07-27 01:30:27 · update #2
I am thinking about doing that right now.
We want kids anyway, but he wants to wait a little longer. But we dont use condoms or the pill, so it could happen anytime anyway....
2007-07-26 22:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by proud airforce wife 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
With my first, I didn't exactly plan it but I knew that I was taking a chance by not using protection, We had talked about having a baby but I think we were just to scared to actually "try" so we just said whatever happens, happens. So in a way she was planned and in a way not.
My second daughter was planned. I was on the depo for 4 and a half years and went off of that and got on birth control for about 6 months, My husband wanted another one when my daughter was about 2 years old but I was always too scared. When I was ready I asked him if he wanted to start trying and he was all excited that I said that because he had wanted another one for years and my daughter wanted a little brother or sister, so when I was ready, I went off birth control all together and within about 3 months I was pregnant.
2007-07-27 05:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mom22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow? What would even prompt someone to ask a question like this, unless they were actually considering doing it themselves, and wanted to see if they werent alone in the matter, that way they dont have to feel so bad when they do it because "the other chick from yahoo answers did it!" No. never had too. would never even consider puposely making a guy a father when he is not ready. I think guys should have the option to sue for misrepresentation if they find this happened to them. I think its a blatent violation of their rights. If you want to have a baby, and your guy dont, then find a guy to be with who shares your opinion and readiness.
2007-07-27 07:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i didnt "fall pregnant on purpose", i just think that is sick and demented because in the long run its going to be you and the baby stranded because the daddy didn't want this baby but you tried to keep him in your life so you tricked him into pregnancy! The audacity of some women huh? I have seen it happen many times in relationships and I always tell myself I would never do such a thing, its really unfair for everyone in the relationship you,the baby and the father.....
My dear hubby and i discussed it many times, he wanted a baby so bad and ofcourse I objected, i kept on taking the pills, then one day I said to hell with it, I want a baby so i came off the pills had a regular cycle and the next mth we tried i was so supprised that I got pregnant later on that month because people say it might take a while seeing that i was on the pills for quite a while...But God knew what he was doing, everyday I thank him for blessing me....
6weeks pregnant!!!
2007-07-27 06:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha b 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not making judgments, but what is this "fall pregnant" stuff? Nobody falls into pregnancy, for God's Sake. I really don't know what is happening to our language and grammar.
Okay, that rant over. No, never, and I think it is despicable. So you wanted to be a mother...maybe the guy didn't want to be a father. Women who play this silly game are the ones who are hoping to bind some guy to them, and when the guy cuts and runs, they haul him into court hollering for child support. And guys, you don't get off light, either. If you are not ready, willing, and able to support a child, then maybe you better take birth control into your own hands and avoid situations like this. It wouldn't hurt men to start thinking about birth control being their responsibility, too.
2007-07-27 05:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Ladies... first of all "fall pregnant" is the expression used in Europe. Americans say "get pregnant"...Europeans say "fall pregnant". You say tomayto, I say tomuhto.....
As for the question, that's pretty low class. Let's start off a major, life changing event under lies and deceit, shall we?? No thanks. I wouldn't want my man to be there because now he feels he HAS to. I would want him in on it from day ONE. My first pregnancy was a joint decision and so is the one we're currently working on.
Good luck.
2007-07-27 06:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by ღ†Rocker Wife†ღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just down right being selfish in a one sided attempt to keep someone. Anyone who does that will obviously have to deal with those consequences on their own.
2007-07-27 07:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Princessa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've never "fell on pregnancy" on purpose. my babies were planned. i don't think a woman should trick a man into being a daddy if he doesn't want to.
it's only going to be heart ache in the end, especially for the child.
2007-07-27 05:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋