im 16 and never had it?

Question

how does it work what goes on how does s3x feel the first time

Answer 1

Trust me, you're not missing much. Wait until you're older. Until then, get yourself off...it feels the same and there's no worry of getting pregnant or being dumped.

Answer 2

I had sex for the first time when I was 16, Im 22 now. The first guy I had sex with, I was lucky enough to marry 6 1/2 years later! :) It honestly all depends on your body. It may hurt a little because you will get stretched out down there. This may sound funny, but it also depends on how big the guy is, the bigger, the more painful.

You will also most likely have a light bleeding after the first time. But it feels great :)

The big "O" is obviously the best part, and hopefully your man can last long enough to get you there lol. Men tend to orgasim MUCH faster than women.

Lisa
12 weeks 1 day pregnant with baby #1!

Answer 3

Ok, first of all, this wait until your married thing is nothing but a bunch of sanctimonious morons preaching from high hourses and trying to force a archaic practice that was based on religious beliefs of people who really cared. Realistic-use a condum, the first time will hurt, after that it will be better, take it slow, get warmed up and lubricated first, if hes doing it right it should feel great...if not id give you tips, but im pretty sure id get in trouble for that----real advice

Answer 4

Hun, if you can't say sex, then you shouldn't be asking.
It's not comfortable, not until you're a little older. I don't know why young girls have sex so soon. I did it for the first time when I was 16. I wish I had of waited longer. The love of my life got a taste of what sex was all about and left me after 6 months. I didnt do it again until I was 20. My body, my choice. I didn't want to ruin a good thing with a deserving partner. Not to mention I didn't want to get pregnant.

Answer 5

Keep it that way for at least two more years. Thats so awesome that you have yet to do it in a society where so many girls become sexually active before they even finish developing. Plus is hurts LIKE HELL not only the first time, but for the first 3-4 times. It's not really that great unless you do it with someone you really care about.

Answer 6

It feels very uncomfortable the first time, you honostly dont feel like its going to fit and since your nervous odds are your body isnt gonna produce enough lubricant. Most girls bleed the first time, but dont worry its not a ton and you dont need a tampon and he wont notice or care. When your ready just be calm and let it happen, and make sure he takes it slow so it doesnt hurt, and use protection ;)

Answer 7

There are alot of factors. Primary one is the hymen of course. If you regularly use tampons or been fingered then your hymen may not be in tact (if minimal), this translates into no pain (or less pain if its still somewhat intact). If your hymen is fully intact (never used tampons or had fingers or objects up there) then yes it'll hurt cuz you'd be tearing the hymen for the first time. Don't forget it's also about how your feeling, if your relaxed then it'd be much less painful then if you were uncomfortable and clenched then it could hurt. Once again it depends on these variables...Good luck

Answer 8

Wait until you are in love first of all....

First time is a little painful, need to be with someone who understands that and can be very gentle with you. Sometimes you bleed, sometimes not. If it's done sensually it's pretty good, gets better with age though. Try to wait though, virginity is something that once given away, you can NEVER get back!

Answer 9

Hey don't do it wait until you are married it hurts and it is only fun after about the 20th time so you are going to be disappointed if you don't wait for the right time.

Answer 10

Don't rush in to having sex bcuz everybody else around u is doing it. Its better to wait until ur ready the have sex. wants its gone u cant get it back, and if have a bf or sumone special in ur life and they say there goin to leave u if u dont have sex wit them, or they keep on askin for sex and ur not ready to have sex then let them dump them. bcuz he just want sex and if u give him wat he wants then after he gets it he goin to leave u. Its better to wait do go rushin into sumthin u not ready for. And I'm 21 male and a virgin an im waitin for the rite woman to come it to my life or until i get married which ever one comes first.

Answer 11

First of all...TAKE YOUR TIME!!!! You only have one first time...So make sure he's special. I wasn't reday until I was 19...
Yes...It hurts and does not feel good until about the third time. make sure he's gentle! You will also bleed a little bit for the first few times. Don't rush...Once it's gone, you can't get it back!