I know on babycenter this question got heated, but why are second baby showers so bad??? I know some say well different gender is okay, or if there is a time lapse. But i am talking about genuine people who have consecutive showers, but don't register for pack n plays, high chairs, strollers, but more just a party. If someone really didn't think 2nd showers were right, couldn't you just show up with something personal for the baby? A book, a letter, a scrapbook of mom and you? Does it have to be 'bought"?? And if you do get gifts that you don't need, why not donate them to a shelter, needy, etc??? I guess for the people that are opposed to them, why not just show up with a personal gift and not a registry gift. If the mom to be gets mad, doesn't that say something about her values? I just dont think it has to be about gifts like that, but is that what you think??
My point i guess, is why does everyone feel so pressured
2006-11-03
06:23:51
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3rdtimesacharm
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