Pregnant Women .........?

Question

I am 26 weeks pregnant and I feel absolutely horrible about myself! I feel huge!... and ugly! I am miserable and to the point it is already hard to put socks and shoes on, and I'm hungry all the time. I know I'm just gonna keep getting bigger....and it scares me to death. Do other pregnant women feel this way or is it just me?

Answer 1

Most pregnant females feel the same way. Just remember, the bigger you get, the bigger the baby gets. You do want a healthy baby, not an underweight baby. I started wearing slippers to work during my second trimester because my feet were so swollen that nothing fit. You'll definately feel hungry all the time because the baby takes up a lot of energy as he grows. You'll also feel sleepy too. Try to take as much naps as you can. When I became 32 weeks pregnant, I felt miserable. My thighs were huge and I had trouble driving. By 36 weeks, I wanted the baby to come out as soon as possible. A couple days later, the baby arrived. When you see that precious baby of yours, you'll feel that the pain you've suffered is worth it.

Answer 2

No, you're not alone there! My first pregnancy was great. I had no morning sickness or any problems. Until delivery, that is. I'm almost 23 weeks now and there are days that I feel absolutely horrible. Sometimes just getting out of bed is more of an effort than I would like to make. Some women feel great during their pregnancy, others don't feel so up to par. You just have to think of that little one that you'll be bringing into this world and how all the weight and pain are worth it for them.

I'm always hungry, too! Keep an eye on your weight though, because excessive weight gain can cause problems. My doctor has already told me that if I gain as much weight this time as I did with my son (almost 60 pounds!), that I'll need to start seeing a dietician.

Congratulations! And just remember you won't always feel this way!

Answer 3

Okay...first of all...any pregnant women should never feel big and ugly. Pregnancy is one of the most beautiful times in life and you should enjoy despite your size. It's all getting hard for me to put my socks on...but hey that's only like for 5 seconds. I like it how I get attention...when people ask me how far along I am, or what I'm having. I think you should feel good about yourself because you're going to bring another human being into the world. Be happy...not miserable.

Answer 4

During pregnancy, body image is of particular concern to many women. Some women welcome their pregnant bodies, while others feel ashamed and out of control.
-Everyday, find at least one thing you like about your body.
Accentuate this one thing, and you will feel a whole lot better.
-Concentrate on your baby. Your body is changing in order to help your baby grow and develop. It is a natural process.
-Express your feelings. Talk with your partner, family, or friends about how you are feeling. Keeping your feelings bottled up will only make you feel worse.
-Try to get out for some enjoyable exercise. A light swim or walk can help you clear your mind and get the focus off your body.
-Take up prenatal yoga. Yoga focuses not on how your body looks, but on the link between your body and your mind.
Hang in there, it is almost over. Go get a pedicure or a manicure to help you feel better. Thats what I always did. Go out for a romatic dinner with your husband/significant other. Do something special before the baby comes. Start a scrap book of pcitures of being pregnant and continue it after the baby comes. You are feeling the norm of what all pregnant woman feel. It is just a phase. Keep it up!

Answer 5

I guess every woman has a different experience with pregnancy. I loved being pregnant. I couldn't wait for my belly to grow. However my friend is pregnant right now and she is feeling the same as you. It is totally normal for you to be feeling this way. Some woman get depressed when they are expecting. My friend is. She will not go out in public unless she absolutely has to (Dr. Appointments). She feels that everyone is staring at her protruding belly. Don't feel bad, everyone has a different experience with pregnancy. And trust me it will get worse towards the end. Not to make you feel worse but it will. You are probably already prepared for that. Sometimes retaining fluid will make it worse. Cut out any salts and caffiene...that might help with retaining fluid and swelling.

Good Luck :)

Answer 6

Hunny, probably every pregnant woman has felt that way. It might be nice to treat yourself to a pedicure or spa. Some pampering might help you feel better. I've always though (and have heard most men believe this) that pregnant women are beautiful. It's amazing that we get to carry a child for 9months (granted the pain in the end) but it's a miracle. Bask in it. Your tummy might be getting bigger, but not very much of that is fat. It's your blessing, your baby, and the fluids that are protecting him/her. I hope you feel better about yourself and try not to worry too much. You're beautiful!

Answer 7

I felt that way around that time too. I am now 29 weeks pregnant and even bigger but you will start to feel better about yourself. Pregnant woman have a beautiful shape and you are in no way ugly.

Answer 8

I feel the exact same way. Just remember your hormones will play a large part in how you think and react at this point in time. Plus it's not like your gaining the weight for the heck of it, your carrying your beautiful child. The most precious gift you ever could receive. Whenever I'm down I think about what it will be like to hold my baby in my arms.

Answer 9

No it's not just you. I feel the same way. I'm 28 weeks and I'm so uncomfortable, I'm miserable. I'm huge, tired, my back hurts, I can't hardly tie my shoes but I'm trying to be patient I know January will be here before I know it and the baby will be here.

Answer 10

Thats everyone. Don't feel so bad. Think about this. Isnt all that pain worth ur child. Ur still a beautiful women. When that baby comes out u will be so happy. ur not huge. its just the sweet adorable baby inside