We've been married 4.5 years, have an almost 3 year old, and I desperately want to be pregant again. I'm almost 30, and I want two more kids before I'm done. My husband's insecure about our financial situation, but I'm confident it will turn around in the next 6 months (we own two businesses). I know it's wrong to trick, I know we should be in agreement about kids, but I think he's being unreasonable. Our first son was an accident, and I want to have another 'accident'. If I push him on the issue, he WILL submit and let me get pregnant, I'm pretty sure. However, I know he'll hold this child over me if there is a medical issue, a behavioral issue, etc. Like "He/she was your idea, I never wanted them in the first place, this is your fault" type of thing. So, I don't want to push it, I just want to have another 'accident'. Thoughts on this? Please don't be mean to me:).
We use rhythm/pull out birth control. 'Tricking' would mean I would tell him it is safe to *** inside me.
2006-11-05
04:29:42
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Margie
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