My really close friend has been trying to conceive for three long years. She tried to adopt once and the birth mother changed her mind last minute and broke her heart. Doctors told her that she couldn't have kids but she proved them wrong and got pregnant. She then lost her baby. She's miserable and cries alot. I know she can't get over it. But how can I help her cope? She lost the baby over a year ago. It's killing me to see her this way. I love her like a sister. It's against her religion to use fertility drugs.
She also made a site for the baby she lost. Take a look if you'd like:
http://www.freewebs.com/kaciejo/index.htm
2006-11-05 06:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hi
send u friend my regards as i know how hard it is to lost a baby that u want, i was told after i lost my twins i could never have anymore kids as my tubes where both scared badly but against all odds i fell pregnant this year and i am now nearly 30 weeks(tomorrow i will be 30 weeks) all i can say is tell her u love her and to keep tryin, may i make a suggestion if she wants a baby that much and u love so much y dont u offer to carry a baby for her if u think that is something u could do,
good luck and best wishes xx
ps if she wants someone to talk to or u need to talk to someone feel free to email me at poppie_paris@hotmail.com
2006-11-05 06:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult, as hard as it is, TRY to get her to see the positive, which is she CAN concieve, right now she is in a fog of depression and the "why me".. I know it took me close to a year to get over my miscarriage ( I was 16 1/2 weeks) I had to get councelling, it helped but it was a slow progress, but it worked. Time will ultimatly help..and a true friend like yourself. When she does become pregnant again, she will be sooo worried the whole 9 months.. you will need to help her through that too.
2006-11-05 14:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebeingamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so terrible and sad/ I am so sorry for all that your friend has gone through. Are all drugs against her religon? You are just going to have to continue to be there for her- and pray for her. If she wants a baby as bad as it seems she does, one way or another it will happen for her.
2006-11-05 14:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Amy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to take comfort in the fact she concieved naturally after being told she couldn't.If it happened once it could happen again.She just needs to keep trying.
2006-11-05 14:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can really do is be ther for her. I know that it has to be tough but you have to do it just to help her make it through another day.
2006-11-05 14:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl. I know this was for me. Thank you so much. I love you too. I feel bad knowing I made you feel bad. I'm sorry. We need a girl's day. Just you and me. Thanks for being there for me.
2006-11-05 16:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by *Kacie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so terrible. the only thing you can do is be there for her to talk to and lean on when she needs someone. this will help her more than anything.
2006-11-05 14:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie and Jacobs mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋