My wife and I have been together for 5 years.
My wife is 23 years old.
She has mentioned to her parents the idea of us having a baby.
Her father was happy, her mother was not.
After a lot of mean comments from her mother, my wife confronted her.
Her mom said she felt my wife had no patience for a child and would “snap” at her children when she was frustrated.
She said my wife would not be a good mother until she has “worked” on herself.
I was stunned because my wife is patient, kind, loving, etc. and is a good wife and “mother” to our dog.
My wife said she is never good enough for her mother.
My wife has a college degree, a house & cars paid off, and a happy life and her mother is still not happy for her.
My wife cut her mother off for 6 months and went to a therapist because of her mother.
We are now seeing her parents twice a month, but they don’t know we are trying to conceive.
How do we deal with her mother when she finds out?
2006-08-25
09:05:19
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HappyHippo
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