A year ago she, who used to be a good girl, got jealous of her lil bro, disrespectful and did bad stuff like drinking and joining bad crowds. She apologized and showed regret but was grounded for a month and didn't rebel. When the grounding ended she told us she was very sad cause she felt we didn't trust her. We, especially me, were still upset and were extremely harsh, probaly a mistake. I ended up telling the girl maybe I would never trust her again, I was really harsh though she was in despair. She got depressed, her grades dropped, lost weight, quit sports. My mom tried to help, told me without accusing we 'd been cruel and suggested the girl spend some time with her. She accepted and mom gave her what she neded most, trust, and she's been with her for a year. She like started living again, resumed swimming, great greats, a brand new and wonderful girl. Incredible how she got mature in 1 year. But she doesnt want to come back home, now it's her who doesnt trust us, shes scared
2007-03-14
03:23:05
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Lynda
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