So should i do it......?

Question

so I'm 16 male and I've known this chick since my sophomore year i tried to go out with her i got rejected twice and now my junior year i talk to her but we ain't going out and she wants to have sex with me i don't know if i should I'm a little nervous what do u people think i should do

Answer 1

one word ~~~ NO ! come on , hers your chance to show her that you've got more self respect and dignity then her at least !! I'm not telling you to get back at her for rejecting you but , step out and look at this scene like you weren't in it , then you'll realize what i mean ! why does she not want to go out with you but still have sex ?? it seems to me either shes a s*ut , someone dared her to this or shes trying to use you !! so go turn her down and have more class then her !! hope she'll learn something from you !

Answer 2

I would say no. Sex is the ultimate expression of love between two people, and from what you said, neither of you are in love with the other. If you do decide to have sex with her though, make sure you know the reasons why. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship with this girl, then having sex with her will not get you there. If you want to be friends with benefits, make sure she feels the same and isnt just using you for a one night stand. Another thing to think about is that sometimes girls want to have their first time with someone they know and are familiar with.

Answer 3

Well thats strictly depends on the morals of the person...

I personally wouldn't or at least not yet. I would fool around if you catch my drift but if you say no and she doesn't stick around long then shes looking for a fling.

I'm in to deep relationship stuff...

P.S.
Thats just my thinking I never met this girl your talking about. I'm just saying watch your self. And ask your self do I want to get laid with THIS girl.

Answer 4

Nervous says you're not ready for sex, certainly not for this game-playing chick. She's been doing you a favor by avoiding you all this time. Return the favor and RUN!

Answer 5

if you asked her out twice, and she said no the first two times, why is she suddenly having a change of heart that you are good enough to have sex with, but not date.

Answer 6

Don't - it's not good on several levels; let me count the ways:
You're too young, she may get pregnant, you may get a disease, neither of you are looking for a relationship; she does not care for you, you don't respect her since you call her a 'chick' and are even considering this.

Answer 7

NO, NO, AND NO. Yes, you like the girl but do not have sex with her. Sex is only used when two people are deeply in love and are married.

Answer 8

Wait 4 Marriage Man....believe me so many teens and young men make this stupid mistake all the time and then when you finally get married you feel like a SLUT and wonder why you did what you did....PLUS babies are a big factor in any sexual experience.....please if you do something with this CHICK your talking about be wise and safe like 6 condoms instead of one because i know as a mother as much advice that i do give someone and they really are mnd set on what they wanted before even asking then there is no sense on trying to stop them so if you do then please THINK it over and say to yourself well if i get this CHICK pregnant then 1st that's means i ahve to get a job take care of this girl while she is pregnant, dr's every month 2 and 3 times a month sometimes and then be there in delivery, taking baby home to where? her moms house or your moms house?
THINK
THINK
THINK......
then taking baby to dr. every month untill 4 months
OH and when baby gets sick or just colicy OMG whatcha gonna do?
oH and you gotta worry about this CHICK no wanting nothing else to do with you because things are not working out!
well there goes you not seeing your child and then paying for child support even though your not around baby....
THINK
THINK
THINK......
that is 18 yrs of your life dedicated to this little one depending on you as a father figure and role model.
So if you really want to start a family and not be married to the one you will spend the rest of your life with and watch your children grow and be there in their times of need then back up reverse and THINK man!
as a mother of 5 girls i know if there is any man out there that is MAN enough to do something like this he will do his duty as a father and role model for them 18+ years you hear me!
to much children running the streets with no life, no mother, no father, and see where they end up....JAIL - PRISON
so that is all i want you to think about and all the money you will have to shed without a trade. finish highschool , college and then think about ladies!
But yourself First and for most....get a car, nice job, and home
then start your life because without all this these days your gonna just struggle pay to pay! i hope you listened to every word i am talking because me i know from experience and don't know of anyone else that would like to go through life without like some inmature and non-thinking fools.
god bless and take care of your life

Answer 9

Wow.........That's sick I try not to condone underage sex but this is pathetic.........she doesn't want to be seen with you but she's horny enough to have sex with you. Quite sad.......So if your smart you'll know there are much more classy women out there. And she's not worth it shes just one horny ***** that wants you to give her a good time so tell her to SHOVE IT and go to the next asshole that wants to **** her!

Answer 10

YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION. YOU ASKED HER OUT TWICE, SHE REJECTED YOU, NOW YOU GUYS DON'T GO OUT BUT YOU TALK. NOW SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.... DO YOU SEE THE PICTURE? IF NOT HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF HIT IT AND QUIT IT?? USUALLY GUYS DO THIS TO GIRLS, BUT NOW GIRLS ARE CALLING IT FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. SO IT ALL DEPENDS ON IF YOU WANT TO SHARE OR NOT, CAUSE THEY ALSO SAY SHARING IS CARING.