Adolescent - February 2007

my b-day is march16 its in spring break me and my brother hav the same b-day but in diffrent years u knoe? anyway ever scince i started to hav parties we always had conflict cause u knoe he wants to invite 12 peps and i want to invite 12 peps. so we always just invite 3 people each. But in the summer of 2006 i made a tons of friends. but im not allowed to invite them all beacuse of the cost.but she said i can hav a house party.
but my ex said he was gonna throw a spring break party and all my friends all lik him better so i knoe where there gonna go. they said they cant go to 2 parties in da same week cause they dont hav a ride. and i kno he isnt gonna invite me. I've been goin to dis new school for 2 years now and i havnt made one friend.
i dont hav a best friend infact i've never had a best friend. so i just canceled my party yesterday and cried my self to sleep
im 13 and the world hates me!
wat should i do!?

2007-02-15 12:23:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what the deal with valtine day what the point

2007-02-15 12:10:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am am going out w/ this and well he is new prolly a week in my skool and my friend asked him out 4 me well he rides my bus and i sit w/ him but i don't think he likes me :( we hug every time we see each other in the hallway cuz he has a diffrent lunch and i only have one class w/ him.well we talk but we have very ackward siliences often and i try to stop them but i run out of stuff and i don't know wat to do!!plz help me plz!!!

2007-02-15 11:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by sad 3

How can I get a boyfriend??
p.s. Im gay

2007-02-15 11:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Jesse♥ 2

I'm 13 years old and I havent had my period yet...I'm not sure if that is wierd or what...My little sister has already, she is 12, whats wrong with me?

2007-02-15 11:29:31 · 44 answers · asked by Elise. 2

I'm really good at math and have had issues paying attention all year, but over the past month or two I've been doing sudoku puzzles instead. Now my mind is beginning to wonder places it shouldn't be. I wonder if i should get in trouble to get out of math class or listen to my mp3 player during class. I am REALLY having issues with this. I've already done what i can, too. I've told the teacher and the guidence counceler that I'm not challenged and even had my dad talk to the teacher. I don't know how long I'll last, but i know it won't be long. The wall and ceiling can only stay intersting for so long after sudoku.

2007-02-15 11:26:33 · 9 answers · asked by i ♥ sarcasm 4

well i've been dating this guy for lik 2mo but i've known him scine forever literly. i was @ his house yesterday for v-day we were in his room and i was on top of him kissing him on his bed well he was about to tak my shirt off i put him off and said "no wat if someone walks in" he said his mom and his dad was out of town and i said wat about ur sister as soon as i said that his thirteen yr old sister walked in.
she was lik ewwwwww the worst part was dat his hand was in my shirt
now im lik avoiding her embarissing huh? anyone can relate?

2007-02-15 10:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Math class. A nice time for me.

So I got up, walked over to the pencill sharpener (didn't have to sharpen since I had a pen), and saw this one girl. I greeted her by a light punch on the shoulder (I seem to do that a lot).

Now, we talked for about twenty-five seconds, then returned to our seats.

I haven't talked to her a lot, just only at dances. Julia (the girl whom I talked to) seems really nice, and I helped her out in math a couple of times.

So should I be more of a friend to her then move from there?

2007-02-15 10:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by Sean 3

She thinks that she is soooooo ugly! Is she??
http://i77.photobucket.com/albums/j49/horsebookworm/2006_08_11Megan.jpg

2007-02-15 10:00:13 · 4 answers · asked by Unknown. 3

Well first off, I'm thirteen years old and have had my period since I was eleven almost twevle. My period was regular for a while up until about 3 mouths ago, I have been getting my period for longer and closer together. And now I am late compared to my new? cycle by 2 week? I am very nervous! Should I go to my doctor about it? And also I am to nervous to talk to my mom about it and to shedule an appointment just for this, so should I just shedule an appointment for something else and during it ask about this? I also havent been stressed, havent lost/gained weight, or haven't been doing excess exercising. I am fit and I dont know what could be wrong! Any advice besides answering the question? Thanks in advance!

2007-02-15 09:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by ツV3GG!E4L!F3☮ 5

im going out with this guy his name is jon but hes skater/almost emo and he asked me out and we were always friends and now that i said yes all of my frinds are like why did u say yes !! im a preppy/athlitic i play travel softball my team is going to nationals soon and all my frends are teling me to barke up with him and i dont know wat to dooo i like him but i dont really like him im soo confused o and im 14 and plez dont say im to young thats not wat im looking for as a answer and im still a virgen and no i dont plan on loosing my virginaty any time soonhe also asked me out on valintins day
help marissa

2007-02-15 09:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a teenager, but I think that I'm a lot different from all of my friends and all other teenagers I know. I'm not into all the rap and hip hop and the music that my friends listen to. I love the old movies, the old music and almost everything about the 50s and 60s. I really don't want anything to do with the stuff that's around today, I just think so much of it is so stupid. I have yet to find someone that's the same way. I'm not asking to "meet" anyone, I'm just wondering is anyone else like this?

2007-02-15 08:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 1

Okay, don't think I'm a freak, but i have a MAJOR fear of baloons. And I mean major.

I've had this phobia of baloons ever since I can remember. Whenever I go to parties that i'm invited to, they always hide the baloons because they know i'm afraid.

I stopped being friends with this one girl because she popped a baloon in my face. OMG, I had a panic attack and had to leave school, I literally cried the rest of the day and couldn't sleep.

One time, me and some of my friends decided to help me overcome the fear. I tried to touch a baloon, but as soon as I touched it, it popped!!! I was so scared that I ran out of my house and down the block crying. Just writing this makes me shiver.

I'm even scared of pictures of baloons, even cartoon ones.

Does anyone know how to get over this fear (I already go to a phsychiatrist, but that isn't helping).

2007-02-15 08:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guys, i'm askin again.
so there's this girl at school who's been here for a week and 1/2, and I want to become her friend (mabye ask her out, I don't know.)
most people at my school don't like me or don't prefer me over others, so i'm sorta cautious about this.
i know you guys are the type to ask, so:
how do I get to be her friend, without accidentaly stalking her?

p.s. please, don't insult the stalking prob, it's not my fault, and I acually try not to do stalk people. it just happens. every time I'm someone's friend for a few weeks, and then it all goes downhill because i'm bored one day!!

2007-02-15 08:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Russly F 3

I have an 18 year old son who is a senior this year. Of late I have been getting notes from teachers that he is not doing assignments, and then today I get a call from his little part time job that he was lat coming in to work yestereday saying that he did kno he was on the schedule and that when he was there, he just stood and let the other people do the work. This is a really good kid, not concerned about drugs or anything and nothing going on his home life. Very active in missions work with church. Just not sure how to handle him. Is he too old for me to tighten the reigns on? Any suggestions on how to help him with developing better habits and responsibility?

2007-02-15 08:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by dsjnix 1

2007-02-15 08:34:16 · 26 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5

So our class won this academic competition thing in the states and now we get to go to the nationals in DC and we have to go there and stay in a hotel and a lot of the parents come and stay in a different hotel. But the thing is I have a medical thing which made me have a big surgery years ago that forces me to use catheters at certain points in the day and the thing is I could get a seperate room so I wouldnt have to be with any of the kids and it could be private but the thing is my mom wants me to just go to her hotel. She is a wonderful person who has understandably tried to help me but I think has tried a little too hard because I know she has always gone on field trips to help me that I dont really think she really needed to go on I could do it on my own or just have the school nurse come along if I needed anything. Its been like this forever. But I mean now Im 18 and self-sufficient but I think with her always tagging along it has made the other kids think Im immature and hate having this reputation. And I didnt really think about it too much becuase I thought I could just slip out or whatever before they went back to the hotel but I found out they do a lot of little parties at night there and Im going to miss out on all that. And I want to spend more time with them before schools over and this will be one of my last chances. But I mean I could have my own room in the student hotel, do my medical thing, and then go to the parties. But I Idont know if its selfish and dont want to hurt my mom. At one point when I Iseemed uinhappy with the idea she impied I didnt have to room with her but she wouldnt be happy about it but I kind of folded and implied I agreed. Nothings set in stone yet with money and it wouldnt cost any more or less but I dont want to hurt her and dont know if Im being selfish.

2007-02-15 08:19:34 · 26 answers · asked by leena 4

My daughter is 8 (9 in september) and is sooooooo moody, grumpy and cheeky. She stormed round the house tonight slamming doors and saying she hated everyone when she was told she couldnt do something!! NIGHTMARE!! I just feel she is a bit young for this? She was really upset afterwards (she got a huge row!) and realises she has upset everyone.

2007-02-15 08:13:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was supposed to be at work 3 hours ago and i just woke up, my boss has called every half hour since the time i was supposed to be awake and i haven't answered or returned his calls. it's especially bad since they just transferred me to his store because he requested it... what do i do?

2007-02-15 07:41:36 · 27 answers · asked by lynn 5

Some parents take away privalages to ensure good behavior. I once read a story about an older woman raising her 13 year old grandson. She disciplinied him by putting a male chastity belt on him for weeks at a time to prevent him from masterbating. It worked really well. Would you consider this a disciplining tool?

2007-02-15 07:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am considering letting her ONLY if she goes to public places or he comes to our house to see her. I don't think I would let them go out together alone (he drives), but maybe with another friend of hers who is dating his friend. He seems like a nice boy and she is a responsible child, but I'm not naive. That is why I'm asking this question... would you let your daughter date a 16 year old in public places (like movies, school events, restaurants)???

2007-02-15 07:18:49 · 50 answers · asked by wanderingthru 1

OK one of my really good friends had "dry sex". She didn't have any protection. Is it possible for her to be pregnant? Or is that even possible. Thank you for answering my question.

2007-02-15 06:02:32 · 19 answers · asked by bec 1

what was your favorite and which one should i use? i have to write on how they are violent and how they affect us.

2007-02-15 05:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

I, as a teenager, nearly 18, don't think that grounding works. It makes me spiteful and has never changedmein the least. I recently read a resed question that asked if they thought grounding their children to his/her rooms when hsher grade fell below a C. This idea seems ridiculous to me because I know that I've taken classes to push me, to make me think, and i certainly knew I wouldn't be getting any sort of A in that class. I did end up with D+ and i was happy because on paper it said that I hadn't learned squat but I knew, personally that I took more in that class than any class I have ever taken. My mom understood this, and she didn't ground me. And yes, she normally would ground me if I did have B- or worst. I us want to hera some reasoning behind this. Somehow it just makes more sense to me to give them a list of chores to doit with them while thye do thier homework, or at least to check on them than go online and only see the paper that shows nothing.

2007-02-15 05:32:35 · 22 answers · asked by ifoundapennyonheads 2

Ok im home sick from school today. Im 13. What are some ideas of what to do. Im sick of watching TV and surfing the internet. All my friends are at school. And my parents are at work. So I need some ideas of things to do by myself.

2007-02-15 04:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My feet haven't grown in like 3yrs,
I'm only 13,
Is this like normal???

2007-02-15 03:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by Scooby_Doo 1

My 13 yr old daughter keeps lying to me. From big things like homework which of course is hurting her grades, she lies to me about using the phone, and little things like closing the box of cereal. I have talked to her about it. I have taken things away from her like her cellphone, the use of the home phone, using the computer. I am at a loss. To me she just don't care. It hurts me to keep taking things away from her and seeing her so unhappy. I am not sure whatelse I can do. I have explained to her how it makes me feel and how I can not trust her word because she lies so much. I have two other daughters one 12 and the other one 8. I don't want them to pick this up. Help!!!

2007-02-15 01:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Letty & Pablo G 1

I'm not talking physically, but emotionally. Like what do they want?

2007-02-15 01:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by K 3

My friend Danielle was going out with her boyfriend Paul for 2 months and was so in love with him. She says she could picture them getting married and having kids. She also liked Matt while she was dating Paul. She would call Matt hot in front on Paul which is totally wrong. My friend Victoria likes Matt. Victoria is also friends with Danielle. Danielle knew she liked Matt but proceeds to crap on Victorias heart! The two had made a deal that they wouldnt go after him but Danielle proceeds to. I know Victoria must be upset even though she told Danielle it was fine. Danielle had said she would have to wait for Victoria to get over Matt and date him then dump him for Paul. Shes really crossed the line. Shes such a slut and she crapped on our friends heart. I'm really pissed. What should I do?

2007-02-15 00:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 15 years old, getting on my last nerve with this whole "im so in love with a bum" situation. It is like she is trying her best to ruin her life.
She recently had an abortion because she thought she was oh so grown up but when i told her to move out and play house on her own she knew she couldn't so she had an abortion and i made sure she got on birth control.
I am a working mom and she has a 2 hour window until i come home so what am i going to do with her? How to get rid of the boyfriend too?
Thanks

2007-02-14 22:08:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous