Math class. A nice time for me.
So I got up, walked over to the pencill sharpener (didn't have to sharpen since I had a pen), and saw this one girl. I greeted her by a light punch on the shoulder (I seem to do that a lot).
Now, we talked for about twenty-five seconds, then returned to our seats.
I haven't talked to her a lot, just only at dances. Julia (the girl whom I talked to) seems really nice, and I helped her out in math a couple of times.
So should I be more of a friend to her then move from there?
2007-02-15 10:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by Sean 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You didn't give any indication that she showed real interest in you. So how can you be more of a friend? Keep your contact with her low-key and see if she gives you any kind of positive response like talking to you more on her own.
Help her out in math more and find out what she does outside of class to have fun and relax. Then tell her you like those things too (if you do) - see if she invites you to share some activities in an informal (non-dating) kind of way. As time goes on, she and you will have more opportunities to give each other clues about how you feel while you are sharing activities that are kind of neutral activities.
2007-02-19 01:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be vary wary of the friend line. Someone already said it, but once you become good friends with a girl, it can be hard to move into a serious relationship. One thing someone told me about was the ladder theory - Yahoo! it. Its funny, but also very true. Make sure you do look this up - its helpful, and gives insight into the dark depths of the female mind.
Ah, nevermind, here's the link: www.laddertheory.com Simple enough
2007-02-15 19:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by milan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a danger of once you enter the 'friend' zone, it's very hard to escape. Be careful of that! How old are you? You shouldn't be really dating until you are like 16 or 17 anyway. If you're younger than that, just stay on the friend level. Trust me.
2007-02-15 18:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Margie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for people to tell people what to do these days, if you think you should be some one friend then do it, if you dont think that way then follow your mind, but instead of a light punch, how about just saying Hi.
2007-02-15 18:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by maria fkun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a girl speaking, BE A FRIEND FIRST. I would seriously love it if I could be friends with a guy then decide to go out. & since you dont know her well, asking her out is just more of a hook up.. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-15 18:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya u should b more of a friend and then move from there. if she likes u great, if she doesn't just stay friends.
2007-02-15 18:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by notreading1345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since ur good in math (im guessing) and u ever hear her say "this is sooo hard i dont get it" say "i get it i can tutor u" if she says yes she likes you then once u get close to her like 3 tutor sensions ask her out
2007-02-15 18:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say like hey wanna go 2 movies on sat or somethin. or when theres a dance go w/ her. thats how id want it and i am a girl. but thats just me
2007-02-15 18:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ ♫ lauren ♫ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..... depends..... if u just go up to her say "want to go out?" she might say no cause she doesnt know u..... but if u become a friend she may "want to stay friends" or "see u as a brother"..... i personally (if i was a guy) i would become her friend first but both options have their risks....
2007-02-15 20:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be more a friend to her, then move from there.
2007-02-15 22:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by coasterman1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋