ok i am am going out w/ this and well he is new prolly a week in my skool and my friend asked him out 4 me well he rides my bus and i sit w/ him but i don't think he likes me :( we hug every time we see each other in the hallway cuz he has a diffrent lunch and i only have one class w/ him.well we talk but we have very ackward siliences often and i try to stop them but i run out of stuff and i don't know wat to do!!plz help me plz!!!
2007-02-15 11:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by sad 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
o yea i started going out w/ him on the 13th of this month
2007-02-15 11:50:09 · update #1
btw we have been going out since Tuesday
2007-02-15 11:58:35 · update #2
im 14 and when i was 13 i had a bf who used to do that.. it was really wierd ! lol but i never found a way to stop it ! Oh and BTW he was a complete asshole unfortunate riight ? Maybe he does like you but he's to nervous around u and has nothing to say. it sucks that he's not in any of your classes.. and try talking to him on the phone more often too and if theres akward silence when u talk on the phone (that happened to me too! ) be like u know ... that akward silence is soo annoying lets talk about random things ! that's what i always used to do and plus you learn new things about him .. like what's his favorite color and stuff... lol
Good Luck with that akward silence problem I hope i helped a little = ]
2007-02-15 13:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by cookydo12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say in a joking way, "wow.. awkward silence!" And say "evertime theres an awkward silence I'm singing this song" Think of some random song, and it will become an inside joke between the two of you.
Also, try including other people on the bus into your conversations. If you hang out after school at all, do it in groups until you are comfortable with each other. Soon silences won't be "awkward" but comfortable. My boyfriend and I are SO comfortable around each other we have silences but they're comfortable.
2007-02-15 11:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break the guy is probably shy. After awhile he'll probably come around but on the bus isn't exactly the place. Do something with it just being you two and no other people around and i'm sure he'll feel more at ease with being himself.
2007-02-15 12:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ace of Blackness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET THOSE OTHER PPL! i think that ackward silences are great. if you two both have a real relationship, after those ackward silences will be filled with great happiness and u wont be even sayibg a word!
2007-02-15 11:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. You shouldn't of gone out with him in the first place if you barely knew him.
2007-02-15 14:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Symbiotic Harmony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have awkward silences, if they are long enough say the first thing that pops into your head like quack and hell probably laugh and you can talk from that or if your close enough kiss him on the cheek.
~good luck~
2007-02-15 13:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by anime_manga_geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone that has more things in common with you that way you dont have to think of what to say, you could just talk about what you both like. Or just lie and say you like everything he likes, I think thats what my wife does.
2007-02-15 11:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by jr321 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you talk with him, find something you both enjoy. This will lead to other mutual interests and other conversations.
2007-02-15 11:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u like him then look him straight in the face and soflty smile. he should smile back. and then say somthin like. i love the way you smile.
2007-02-15 13:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by sambucca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha your avatar fits ur question
anywho this happened to me before and the guy dumped me cuz i was too shy excuse me but he never ever approched me!
2007-02-15 11:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋