so my husband, me & our 1 yr old son were driving home from dinner last night when the conversation came up about people having gay kids & my hubby says that its in the way they grow up, meaning that they can be brought up gay or not brought up gay. I sternly disagree & tell him that it has nothing to do with that, just because he is a macho man who is into hunting, fishing etc.. doesnt mean that our son wouldnt have the POSSIBILITY of being gay. Then he proceeds to tell me that its wrong & he would let him know that its wrong. So I say "would you disown him?" and he says not totally but he wouldnt be allowed to bring a boyfriend over, he wouldnt go to his wedding, wouldnt be there if they were to adopt a child. Now I understand that this is all just a scenario but what I took out of it is that my hubby has "conditional" love for our son, meaning if he isnt exactly what he considers normal he wont be there for him, we havent spoken since & I am really upset. am i taking this too far?
2006-06-13
02:48:46
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