my mother was my best friend. im only 22, she was a MAJOR part of my everyday life. we lived no more than 20 min from each other, & were always calling. one night i happened to be at her house, spending the night, & she took a bath & was having trouble getting dressed. i tried to help her & she collapsed in my arms. called an ambulance & went to the er. she was in the hospital for 4 days. she had 2 strokes, supposedly caused by an aneurysm, they did all the tests, & couldnt find it to seal up, & said it was too deep within her brain. it ended up clotting, they said it was a good thing. but her brain wouldnt stop swelling. no matter what they did. they did brain surgery to remove the clot in hopes it would relieve pressure, it didnt help. she had 1 more stroke, they ended up pronouncing her brain dead... she was my absolute everything in life. how do i deal with such a loss?? she was 43, and very healthy. this was soo unexpected. i dont think i can go on, i miss her soo much. HOW?
2007-02-22
04:36:00
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