Mental Health - November 2007

I'm in love with a girl.

We were high school sweethearts and been together for 5 years I hope I get to spend the rest of my life with her.
She has some issues (who doesn't) but I'm tired of seeing her sad about stuff. One of the main things is when we have sex, she can't orgasm. Sometimes, she'll think she's about to and she will end up urinating on me (I'm not mad about it, in fact it makes me feel bad for her). When she does that she starts crying saying how unattractive and "broken" she is. I keep trying to reassure her that it's fine I'm not with her for sexual reasons it's much deeper than that.

I just want to know if there's anything I can do, have you ever heard of a girl urinating when she thinks she's about to climax? Please help, I can't bear to see anymore tears come from her eyes.

2007-11-23 09:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in university with a iq of 134 and people tell me that im smart
but isn't it stupid to eat bacteria infested food?
i got a lot of stomach aches because of that and also stress with mental problems
i thought that the food is ok as long as it's in the refrigerator
isn't it?
i also ate some food that was out of it and ate it some time later in order to melt it

2007-11-23 09:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 09:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 09:09:44 · 16 answers · asked by The Doctor 4

2007-11-23 09:03:05 · 3 answers · asked by Scratch 1

2007-11-23 08:48:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did it once and I want back.

2007-11-23 08:19:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I have dual personalities? (Split personality disorder?)

It's not major but I think I might...

Sometimes I think stuff like:
- nobody likes me
- I should be alone forever
- I'll never find anyone
- I like being alone all the time in dark places
- I hate everyone/I want to hurt people
- {Other negative things... just a slew of negative thoughts one after the other}

But then other times, completely random change in mood/thoughts:
- I want to go out and meet everyone
- I want to do well in life
- Today is a great day
- Everything is good.
- {Other positive thoughts}

Do I have dual personalities or bi-polar disorder do you think? I just took a first year psychology course and my symptoms seem similar to those of split personality/bi-polar patients. Once I finished the course, I realized that I may have some kind of condition like this. Any thoughts? Thanks in advance. :)

2007-11-23 08:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by void.flower 2

I have anger issues, I can go from zero to boiling mad in a matter of seconds.
It's affecting my work, love life (or lask of), social life (or lack of) and I don't seem to be able to stop.
I have a good heart, I genuinly care about people but when it hits the fan no-one is safe.
I get over it just as quickly as I got mad in the first place but it's pushing everyone away from me.
I don't want to be lonly anymore....

2007-11-23 08:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by english_sweetie2001 3

Is this some type of disorder im going through???
Do I need to seek professional help???
im 14 yrs old..and im a total wreck.....i am struggling to get st8 A's...i have a very bad low self esteem problem...im a big pessimist, i absolutely hate everything about myself!!! i cant eat or sleep right i hate my acne on my face!!!! what should i do??? i talked to my dad about it and he says that i need to see a physcologist!! should i???? please im desperate..help!!!???

2007-11-23 08:10:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is way (and I mean way) old enough to move out. He has Autism since an early age and many social workers come visit him. He can do things for himself, but his behaviour is rather strange. However he is always denying himself that he has a mental problem and then laughs like a lunatic afterwards.
Anyway. Can the season affect his behaviour? It seems to be around winter that his behaviour goes over the top. He will not talk to you, and if he does, he talks in an angry tone. He goes REALLY crazy after an injection. He repeatedly listen to children music. He blames everything to his parents for not buying him books to learn (???) when really he has learning difficulties. Now he says he will cancel the internet (my parents can't pay), every year he says this & he says he wants to save electricity bills & starts turning every plug off! When he is in a good mood, he would always pat me almost everywhere nonstop. Both sides annoys me!

Can anything be done to control him?

2007-11-23 07:51:19 · 25 answers · asked by midofo 1

is complex post traumatic stress disorder a worse diagonses than post traumatic stress disorder? what is the differences?

2007-11-23 07:22:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my exams are approaching.....i am into engineering.i know whats right and wrong for me .its all in the mind.but inspite of deciding that i will not masturbate and just study the whole day ........i still fall in for it. Then ........may be due to my mindset or due to some assumptions,i feel i have cheated myself,i feel guitly,i feel sad and sorry for myself,i feel like a loser..........a complete loser,which messes my whole mood of studing and results in a negative way.this happens everyday......no control over myself inspite of trying my best to convince.what can i do in this case dear respected readers...........i beg before u to gime ur opinions.i have thought over it to an over the limit extend and am totally confused.please help me readers..this could be the question of my career!
may god bless u'all..
nsa.

2007-11-23 06:15:08 · 25 answers · asked by naveen k 1

I dont wanna limit myself but somehow i can only imagine myself being attracted to a certain category of guys. i hope it's not a fetish. some people might think it's different or weird or whatever.
i like dark skinned guys. i m hispanic. (oh and by the way i m also confused. i do like dark guys yet somehow i dont wanna be with a hispanic guy) i like black guys, native american guys, and arab guys. it's really unique.
the question is: why m i attracted to them?


u might think this q belongs in the relationships section but i want a psychological prespective.

2007-11-23 06:04:17 · 17 answers · asked by diva 4

I'm almost 14, 8th grade, 5'6", 120 range. I have never been called fat before, but I just feel fat. Am I??? Help!!!

2007-11-23 05:39:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been taking Wellbutrin xl for 6 months now. It helped at first, but pooped out on me in a BIG way. Im back to sleeping all the time, mising appointments, locking myself up in my apartment, not answering my phone or returning phone calls. I have no motivation, and I dont want to be touched or have sex at all. These are the things that I was doing during my many severe bouts of depression. Where is the energy and refreshed feeling that I keep hearing about? After doing soem research on the internet I came across some information that stated that although in theory Wellbutrin sr and xl are supposed to be exactly the same, according to majority of people who tried both, the sr version worked much better than the xl. I was switched to the sr version today, and I am keeping my fingers crossed that it works better. Im getting desperate. I think it has to do with the fact that the sr is released over 12 hours as opposed to the xl 24 hours. more in blood stream at one time.

2007-11-23 05:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,guys!Does anybody knows what's suicide?If you have any information or links for that topic please sand me.Thanks!!!

2007-11-23 05:19:59 · 33 answers · asked by Val K 2

2007-11-23 04:46:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

can a person who gets disability check apply for a loan at a bank or at the auto dealer to get a automobile?

2007-11-23 03:45:48 · 5 answers · asked by debbigeri 3

If a group of people were shown a specific color and then asked to select that color from a set of related colors, it is safe to assume that different people will select different colors. What does this tell us about our memory and recollection of our color experiences?

2007-11-22 23:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 18:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by moderation 2

I'm not overweight, and im not bad looking.
but i can't seem to get any self confidence. I'm always putting myself down and douting myself.

Is there anything that can help me?
..Anything i can do?

2007-11-22 17:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by Noodle♥ 1

he always tells me how life sucks he doesnt believe in god, he thinks anything is better than living and i honestly think he'll try it. he's 16 but he's depressed and i don't understand why

2007-11-22 14:37:35 · 48 answers · asked by nowayjose67 3

2007-11-22 14:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by Janina 1

Relapsed, and now thinks she can control it and have a drink once in a while. have allready started to see the insanity start where it left off. She is also a super enabler/ Co. trying to fix our daughters alcoholism. Also takes care of a sister who refuses to quit. Obviously the enviroment she provides does nothing for her own recovery. She has the usual remorse and guilt. I know something of the disease being in recovery 16yrs. I know I cant fix her. What can I possibly suggest to her she doesnt already know...she think disipline and logic will enable her to control it..we all know thats not the case. 12 step and meetings were not her thing for the 3yrs she was clean. Any suggestions?? We were married 18yrs. And still very close.

2007-11-22 13:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by tagmn 1

I have suffered with depression for many years. I have never been diagnosed by a doctor as (in my opinion) it is something that I need to deal with and I refuse to put zombie drugs and chemicals into my body. For years I have managed to control my feelings as best as possible and hide my emotions from all those around me but I am finding this increasingly difficult. I do not see how I can escape the situation I am in. Work full time, have a partner who has a child, have 2 dogs. There is literally no time for me to take a moment away so how do I handle the way I am feeling and manage to control myself? Some days at work I go into the toilets just to cry quietly. Please help and no stupid answers please.

2007-11-22 13:17:39 · 3 answers · asked by RenBunny25 2

I am sad all the time. I dont like to do anything i used to do... or anything at all i dont even want to skateboard and a few months ago it was all i ever did and i am allways turning down invitations to hang out with my friends cause im never it the mood to hang out. I am having to force myself to eat cause im never wanting any food and when i do eat i get even more depressed. I am allways puting myself down i cant think of any good things about myself (probably cause there is nothing). I allways feel like life is pointless and most of the time i just wish i was dead. I cant pay attention in school and i fail a class for the first time. please i really want to know why im feeling like this.

2007-11-22 12:44:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

At the middle of work today, I felt like taking my work blade out and slicing my neck.
The thought came out of the blue.

and I was having a good day today.

2007-11-22 10:42:39 · 33 answers · asked by minkoala 2

2007-11-22 10:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by Robert A 1

Can u go to sleep as a happy kid and become depressed the next day for no reason? Or can u snap out of it and be normal and then fall back into it again? This has been happening to me, i dont think im depressed im probably just feeling anxiety about somethin bad that i did. Can you guys help me?

2007-11-22 10:22:45 · 10 answers · asked by yousuf535 1