my exams are approaching.....i am into engineering.i know whats right and wrong for me .its all in the mind.but inspite of deciding that i will not masturbate and just study the whole day ........i still fall in for it. Then ........may be due to my mindset or due to some assumptions,i feel i have cheated myself,i feel guitly,i feel sad and sorry for myself,i feel like a loser..........a complete loser,which messes my whole mood of studing and results in a negative way.this happens everyday......no control over myself inspite of trying my best to convince.what can i do in this case dear respected readers...........i beg before u to gime ur opinions.i have thought over it to an over the limit extend and am totally confused.please help me readers..this could be the question of my career!
may god bless u'all..
nsa.
2007-11-23 06:15:08 · 25 answers · asked by naveen k 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
how do u relate studies with masterbation?!
A masterbation could take 10 minutes max, so you will still have lots of time for studying.
Remember, when you feel horny to masterbat, it means that your body is not balanced and needs sex or masterbation to set it back to balance. There is nothing to be ashamed of it in here.
Everybody does that and everybody has to do that.
And besides, if you resist doing it, it will keep your mind all busy and you won't be able to continue on studying.
So, whenever u feel horny, just do it fast and release it to be able to continue on your studies..
Good luck.
2007-11-23 06:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mike P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well masturbation shouldnt affect studies unless you do it every 5 seconds; and if you do - you really need to get laid
but there's nothing wrong with masturbating sparatically throughout the day or week or month w/e.
you definitely have a problem.
i dont think masturbation isnt the ONLY thing keeping you away from studying ; so spill!
feeling guilty about masturbating is your problem
2007-11-23 06:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by [ x y z ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,it doesnt.
as long as you have the will power to study,you can do it.
you can try to rid your mind of all thoughts by playing some music while studying(of course not those sexy songs)
besides,if i interpreted ur question correctly,you've already begun so now,its time to divert your attention like maybe during the day&you can continue your guilty pleasure in the night.
2007-11-23 06:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by pop_princess0520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing about it! You shouldn't feel guilty for masturbating. Go for it & then leave it behind & get to your studies. It's totally normal to masturbate, but not to let it control you & your life. Sometimes waiting a little longer makes it better, just like sex.
2007-11-23 06:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by lacopperphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to masturbate when studying. It releases endorphins which relax you and stimulate your performance. Have fun and enjoy. Remember jerk for a an A.
2007-11-23 06:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by hoobadooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah! it does affect your studies..try to see a psychiatrist...He/she can really help you. if you really want to get out in that mess...if you really want to learn control over your desire of masturbating which is not anymore proper because your making it as a hobby...
Don't be confused. Everything will be fine. Just see a Psych.
2007-11-23 06:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nail.xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself emo kid. Have a toss when you feel the need and then get back to study. Don't such a crybaby. You have needs, how does satisfying these needs show weakness? GODDAMMIT! GROW UP!
2007-11-23 06:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by damo_mc_legend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to school for engineering. I would switch and go for some writing degree because your exaggeration of your dilemma is written very nicely, You might be able to write for Harlequin someday.
2007-11-23 06:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Liz A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can make the pages of your books stick together.
(Were you raised religious? Exposure to RELIGIOUS GUILT is not the answer. There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus [Romans 8:1]. If it's become a compulsion, seek counseling).
2007-11-23 06:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by bbcranks 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are spending way too much time on this, and it's taking time away from your studying.
Get your studying done, then you won't have to worry about ti.
2007-11-23 06:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋