Mental Health - July 2007

my great grandma has cancer. she doesnt have much longer to live. the cancer she has can not be cured. i dont know how to feel. sha is rather mean she worked for some bad people i dont want to list.

i trulry dont feel anything is this what it is like i never had a death in my family

2007-07-26 10:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by x c 1

I will be perfectly happen one moment and the next I feel as if my entire body has been shattered and torn. Nothing traumatic has happened in my life that could effect me like this and I'm not sure what's wrong. I often have urges to starve myself or just shut myself off from the world. I refuse people's touches, and I feel like I could never possible feel like the old me again. This is really ruining my life and I have no idea what is wrong. Have any of you ever felt like this? What did you do? What should I do?

2007-07-26 10:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by Mask 1

why do i always feel like i cant breathe and when i start thinking about it i cant breathe but when i dont think of it and i'm doing loads of things i can breathe properly. what shall i do?!

2007-07-26 10:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by BOOOOM.chuh 2

my mother used to hear voices, she has never been diagnosed with anything... my youngest aunt has body image problem (make a loan to have transplants while having no money to raise her child) and is very suspicious of others... she also sees things sometimes i think... and whenever she passes by a cemetery she would act like shes possessed and scare everyone in the family (jumping on the ground, screaming, fainting etc)
suppose they have some illness, what are the chances of me having it as well...? is it true that going out a lot and make acquaintance with a lot of people will help keep me healthy and why?

2007-07-26 10:41:40 · 5 answers · asked by azu 1

yes what is the percent of cases at the hearing level of ssi/ssdi, and how much could someone get if they got just enough credit in and applied for both ssi/ssdi, about range.

2007-07-26 10:31:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been really down and depressed the last couple of days and need a boost. Please and thank you.

(oh yeah, already on meds so don't need more of that)

2007-07-26 10:21:11 · 16 answers · asked by DC 3

I've been on meds for my problem for a few yrs and it has really helped me. For the best week, I have been really worried again. I don't know what I'm worrying about is something real, or not. I finally decided to make an appt with my internist. I would like some opinions from other people. Thank you.

2007-07-26 10:14:14 · 6 answers · asked by mickey 4

Serious answers only! Thanks!

2007-07-26 10:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7

My dad died suddenly in his sleep about 7 weeks ago.

I'm beginning to get out of the "funk" that I've been in finally.

But everytime I see a picture of him it brings back memories and makes me sad.

I'd rather forget and move on. Is this normal or am I strange?

I'd rather not be reminded of him. Because that just makes me sad and makes me cry.

I know everyone handles death differently, but most people I know of have pictures of their loved one in the house or at work. I'd rather not be reminded of him being gone.

Am I still in denial?

2007-07-26 09:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 08:51:22 · 3 answers · asked by geyamala 7

a girl hurting herself cause her mum was in hospital.. hurts herself if something really sad happens e.g if ur dad died (not me)

2007-07-26 08:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what causes a person with borderline personality disorder to love you to death and then leave you multiple times? My soon to be ex wife has done this on multiple occassions. This last time she was in the hating stage because she had an abortion and it was all my fault that she had one (her choice). That was just enough drama that broke the camels back with me. I am now divorcing her and giving her what she wants. She wanted to leave and got a lawyer. When she moved out she took all our wedding and family pictures, ripped them up, and put them all over my car and in the garage. I don't understand borderline. This is what she wanted....to leave and be divorced. I haven't had any contact with her in 3 months now and I feel like I got hit by a truck in this last year with her rage and verbal-physical attacks and all the drama between us and between her and her family. Now she's telling everyone I'm borderline and dangerous. I was so patient with her. How should i treat her now she's gone?

2007-07-26 08:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by survivor 1

If everyone has a unique personality then in what sense can there be a personality disorder?

2007-07-26 08:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by cprime17 2

because you dont feel good enough or worthy of them, and you think ultimatly theyll reject you..?
i have very low self esteem, if any at all..im so scared of rejection im always scared to approach someone to try to make friends, because i think they wouldnt accept or want me...so i often destroy potential frienships without wanting to...
ive survived a very hard life, with alot of victimization, abuse and trauma....i have bpd, and dont think anyone will want me now..im 30 now

2007-07-26 07:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work , near by . ( just part time ) although i have an engineerin degree (got it 7 mos ago), i don't have any motivation to find a job in that field yet ( since it was imposed upon me , when i wanted to do something related to music ) .
i don't know what's there to do after coming back from work . I have some friends , but i am going thru some shi##t right now i can't even think straight . After getting out from work at 6.30 i feel so sad and bored and depressed , i go for a ride myself somewhere . i just got out from a relationship ,Why it hurts so much is because i didn't want anyone till i was atleast a litle more older. But i trusted her to be there forever and she left ( cuz of family problems ) . Now i feel so alone . what are some things that i can do or you do , after work to cheer you up ?

please don't tell me to come home . because there is noone home i can really talk to . or do anything with . We don't talk .

What can i do to forget everything , atleast for a while?

2007-07-26 06:48:26 · 6 answers · asked by sum142121 1

too many kids are on meds for ADHD. yes some truly have ADHD but the vast majority of kids given meds are kids whose parents are never or seldom around. the kids act as they do all day and then the parents come home and wonder why the kids don't act the way they want them to act, so they put them on meds and claim their kids have ADHD. these parents need to spend more time with their kids, teaching them how to behave, demonstrating to them how to behave. Instead the parents come home after a long days work and expect peace and quiet. They get their P's and Q's by giving unnecessary meds. Parents need to be better parents!

2007-07-26 06:45:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

bitter, and resentfull at those who you see who are happy and who have had an easy life, who have got their needs met, things have come easy to them and you see them with huge grins from ear to ear, revealing glistening gums amd shiny teeth, you see them wearing huge smiles....you see it everywhere...myspace profiles, when you browse myspace.....when i have to go out i see that......when i turn on the tv.....when i open a magazine.......torturous for me, as you could probally imagine...and to me it seems damn unfair to and it makes me very angry and bitter.....when all i can look back on is, victimization, trauma, bullying, prologed suffering and hardship..ive never had my needs met...ive never had a girlfriend or made any friends.....was bullied throughout high school, sexually abused twice at 3 years old..
now im 30 and have bpd...waiting for therapy..
can anyone see how id be really angry and bitter and think its really unfair and unjust theway my lifes gone?

2007-07-26 06:07:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without taking drugs, or doing meditation?
They both tend to happen at once. I feel very stressed, and start going crazy. Then depression kicks in, and I just kinda sit there for no reason at all for a while.

I have a lot on my mind that I cant help to stop thinking about. Eg. Anxiety, work, etc.

Are there any ways to help control this?

Thanks in Advance.

2007-07-26 06:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter has ADHD and the medication (Adderal) is not working. She has been having rage issues for a little while. I have 2 boys (5 and 1 1/2) and she is 11. She will smack my 5 year old in the face for no reason. She has been very hurtful to them. Last night, she was in a fight with a boy on our street (I can't get her to tell me anything!) and she left deep scratches on his back and arms. She has been fighting with all the kids on my street and he was her last friend. I am so embarrassed and I feel like it's my fault. I just don't know what to do. I have been reading about bipolar and it is linked to ADHD and sometimes misdiagnosed. I am taking her to the doctor tomorrow, but I am sick over this. Can someone please give me some ideas as to what could be wrong?

2007-07-26 05:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by dawn_rene 1

i can't believe i am in this stage again . She left me cuz of her family . Ofcource the reasons were, cuz i didn't trust her enough .
She's under the control of her parents . Emotional abuse , what not . i found all that out . she's 21 . i m 25 . Now i feel so ******* alone . She was my everything .
I don't know . I LOOK outside , and i see the sunniest day ever . i look inside there is no body home here. i don't know where my parents went . i haven't talked to them in a year ( in a normal fashion ) . Me and my cousin and planning to move out in 2 months . But i have no motivation to move out .
We are discretely planning to move out because we both had been abused ( mentally and him , more physically ) when we were young , when we raised our voices . We were called crazy , he was put in a mental institution , and as for me ,my bro called the cops on me cuz he said he's so scared to live with me , and my parents

2007-07-26 05:36:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm trying to get ssi while taking abilify

2007-07-26 05:35:09 · 3 answers · asked by YOSUGABABY4LIFE 2

2007-07-26 04:48:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am very much frustreated....i feel to do suiside all the time....whom should i go, a Psychologist or a Scycriatist?
my some friends r teeling, u should go for Scycriatist, he will both council and give medicine, and some friends r saying dont go near Scycriatis they will make u depend on drugs.

in case of Psychologist i feel they will only council - but, logically i too do understand my all problems,what will happen with his councilling? do u think, they r smart enough to help people playing with Psychology?

2007-07-26 04:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 04:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and if they decide to wear underware, its usually a little thong that goes all the way up her booty and disappers! help me! im scared!

2007-07-26 03:40:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 01:47:30 · 15 answers · asked by greg m 1

i have read that if someone have hallucinations or delusions more than twice it must be checked by a doctor is that true ?!!
I have been experiencing it since 5 months i think and i'm too scared to talk with any about it

2007-07-26 01:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 00:05:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 23:59:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong to want to cease to exist. I don't want to kill myself or anything, but sometimes I just want fall asleep forever. Is that thought bad? Sometimes life and emotions just get to intense to handle. How can you get through it without thinking this way? I want to be able to get through the hard times, not just give up when things get tough.

2007-07-25 21:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous