i can't believe i am in this stage again . She left me cuz of her family . Ofcource the reasons were, cuz i didn't trust her enough .
She's under the control of her parents . Emotional abuse , what not . i found all that out . she's 21 . i m 25 . Now i feel so ******* alone . She was my everything .
I don't know . I LOOK outside , and i see the sunniest day ever . i look inside there is no body home here. i don't know where my parents went . i haven't talked to them in a year ( in a normal fashion ) . Me and my cousin and planning to move out in 2 months . But i have no motivation to move out .
We are discretely planning to move out because we both had been abused ( mentally and him , more physically ) when we were young , when we raised our voices . We were called crazy , he was put in a mental institution , and as for me ,my bro called the cops on me cuz he said he's so scared to live with me , and my parents
2007-07-26 05:36:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
they just stood there watching .
if only i could move out of this hell i will be even a little bit peaceful . But for that i need a job . for a job i need to forget everything and start applying . I can't seem to move on , and everyday i am getting more and more depressed since she left
what can i do ?
2007-07-26 05:37:06 · update #1
First, understand that you cannot control anyone but yourself. She left, for whatever reason, but it was her decision. You can still feel sad about it while functioning everyday - Write out a list of what you need right now- a new job, an apartment, etc. This cannot be done at the same time - you need to take steps.
Force yourself to spend some time each day applying for jobs. It's hard to get up and dressed and motivated because you miss her. But YOU HAVE TO DO IT. Your life sucks right now, and it's not gonna stop sucking until you start to take some action. Promise yourself you'll spend 1 hr online looking for job opportunities. See how it goes.
I can almost guarantee you that if you fix one area of your life and make it more positive, than all the other pieces will start to fall into place. Take it step by step.
2007-07-26 12:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fruit Loops 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-26 13:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jamz1010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, forget the God BS, there is no God. You probably need long term therapy for the abuse you endured, and I can't believe a mental health professional would be unethical enough to allow someone to be committed for raising their voice.
2007-07-28 18:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by mattgo64 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Every person has a hole in their heart. However, this hole can only be truly filled by God.
2. I don't want to sound shallow, but I have found that in my own life, Jesus has helped me deal with many VERY difficult issues. I have had peace literally flood the grief I was having & fill me with peace and rest. I have dealt with anxiety & have asked for His help & he has taken it away.
3. God has designed you to have a relationship with Him & you will never be fulfilled until you do so. Keep reading if you want to know more:
A. Because we sin-live our lives without obeying God, we are seperate from God.
B. Because God wants a relationship with us, he sent his son Jesus to die for our sin. But he didn't leave Jesus in the ground, he rose Jesus from the dead to conquer it.
C. If we admit to God that we have been ignoring him & have lived seperate from him & accept Jesus as our savior, we begin an intimate relationship with God.
D. This relationship not only gives us eternal life, but believe me, it gives us great purpose, focus, joy, and help in this life too.
Your choice. Feel free to email me any thoughts you have.
Hang in there man...I know how it is.
2007-07-26 13:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff- <3 God <3 people 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God loves you, and you are precious to Him. Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven. Just come to Jesus with genuine repentance and faith, and you will find peace, hope and meaning for your life. There will be no room for depression.
Never keep grudge in your heart, be forgiving as God forgives you. Heaven is wonderful beyond descriptions. Read Bible and know truth.
2007-07-26 13:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋