Okay, well my boyfriend has issues with anger - he gets angry all the time over the littlest things. Once he gets angry, he usually has a very difficult time getting "un-angry" and seems to turn into a completely different person. He is never violent, he is just mean and says nasty things. He also blames his anger on me a lot, and says he wouldn't be angry if I hadn't done this or that. However, I am usually trying my hardest NOT to make him angry. He won't go see a therapist, I have tried to convince him several times but he doesn't think he can afford it (he has no medical insurance). Usually the only thing that calms him down is smoking pot, but he is trying to quit so he can pass a drug test to get a job. Without the pot, his anger is even more out of control.
Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with him when he is like this or ways to help him regulate his emotions?
I am 22 and he is 23, we have been together for 5 years, and we live together.
2007-02-11
15:00:19
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~Christine~
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