I have HSV and fairly new to dating w/ herpes. I dated 1 other guy since I got it (after my relationship I was in when diagnosed ended) whom I told before sex, and even though he didn't have herpes, we had a careful sexual relationship. Last weekend I met a guy. I had never slept w/ a guy on the 1st night and didn't get the vibe from him that we'd end up doing it (I thought maybe we'd just make out). 1 thing led to another, we had sex; I couldn't get the words "I have herpes" out of my mouth. We used a condom & I have no symptoms, nor have had a full outbreak since diagnosed over a year (which I remained w/ the partner I had when I got it for most of that year) ago. I went to the guy the next day & told him of my herpes. He is not happy & feels deceived & scared. I,ve been beating myself up all week. I didn't not tell him w/ intentional intent to cause harm, I didn't know what to say since I didn't know him & then it was too late. I am really stressed & feel horrible. Please advise.
2006-12-22
02:17:46
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