Singles & Dating - 13 December 2007

Okay, so my manager at work and i are super tight...and there is this lady that comes by like every day and mad flirts with my manager...they are both married, but i can tell that they like each other.....and we like talk about it....he was like asking me if i thought she liked him and i told him the truth., i think she does....now he is thinking about asking her out to coffee....i kind of said that i think she would say yes and they would have a good time.....but i really dont want him to break up their marrages.....i really feel bad...what should i do....i really just want him to be happy

2007-12-13 11:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my partner of 4yrs has been getting progressively sicker over the last 2 yrs. throughout the entire time I have been there to help and care for her. In the last month they finally found the cause of her illnesses and operated two days ago...three days before the operation she asked me stay with her until she was recovered from her operation then 2hrs later she tells me to get out of her life she does not want my help anymore.
The coincidence maybe is in that time she found out her best friend had split with her fiance cos he had cheated on her... our relationship was open strong and honest and still very sexual.. so I dont understand... Maybe someone out there can help explain it, she certainly wont.. I am very confused on this issue..

2007-12-13 11:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by boxa 1

he's talking to someone else and says, "he's totally in love with her... unfortunately"
and somehow you hear about it... What would be your reaction? Why do you think he added "unfortunately" at the end?

2007-12-13 11:32:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl I really like but before I ask her out I need to know if she likes me. Someone please help me. We are friends. Not like best friends but we talk a lot. What do girls do when they like a guy? What are some signals? How can I tell if she likes me.

2007-12-13 11:27:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Going to try to make this easy and quick to understand. Ok, was seeing this guy for like 6 months, nothing serious at first but became extremely close.Together everyday, phones calls, txts, smiles, songs, late nights you get the picture.I know that he had feelings for me as well as I did for him. Well we started getting distant cause he got jealous that I was friends with his cousin. Nothing was going on between us. He flippes out about it and stopped talking to me and ignored his cousin for awhile. It wasnt till he wasnt around for me to realize how much I liked him, I fell in love with him. He saw me walking the other day and called me and than showed up at my work we talked about bs and then he came over..He told me he missed me and missed being here. I havent seen or talked to him since, I dont think it was about sex cause he wouldnt have to butter me up for that he knew how i felt. Why did he just leave me hanging again? Is he just a jerk or does he care and is scared

2007-12-13 11:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by kesselchic 2

i liked this guy and he knows i like him, when i was asking his friend out for my friend he got all mad and didn't talk to me. i made my friends tell him that i was asking the guy out for a friend. later i went up to him and asked if he was mad and y he was ignoring me he said he was getting ready for a game and going throgh emotional changes. lol.... after that day he is ignoring me like crazy and he flirts with my friend maria vera.. he flirts with her a lot even in front of me... he already is engaged....

what should i do???? I want to get back at him please tell me what to do. And don't be mean plesae be helpful

and don't write comments like revange is bad

2007-12-13 11:25:48 · 2 answers · asked by HELP 2

What if a girl you don't know came up to you in a bar and quietly explained to you that you suspect your boyfriend of cheating and he is in the very same bar. And then she asked that you test him by going up to flirt with him, would you help her out?

2007-12-13 11:25:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mary 1

How should I turn guys down when they ask me out (without being rude)?

2007-12-13 11:24:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story, short: friend, ended long relationship, I like him a lot, he started dating girl in class, says he likes her (b/c "attractive & fun"). But gives me confusing msgs. Usually very attentive to me. Flirty. Comfortable. Notices little things. Gives me hard time to "get a rxn out of me." I've been acting kinda distant lately (dunno why) & he makes an effort to come talk to me (more than to other girls except her). Noticed I was being dif after I found out about said girl. Aware of when I'm around. Feels like mutual attraction. Might know I like him (tried to get me to admit it when drunk). But trumps girl over me. Doesn't like to mention her unless I bring it up.
I haven't told him I like him yet b/c timing doesn't seem right, esp b/c he tells me he likes other girl. How can he be so attentive & flirty & sweet & have fun w/ me, but like this girl? I can't put the pieces together & can't stop thinking about it.
Am I being the dumb 1? Or is he just confused? What can I do?

2007-12-13 11:20:43 · 1 answers · asked by laughterisnaturescure 1

hey, im 18 and trying to get over this girl, but dont the problem is i dont want to. its silly as i know i will neva get over her if i dont want to. wots holding me back besides me still liking her, is the fact that i feel that im missing out. not missing out on her but missing out in a relationship as a teen. for sum reason im worried that i will neva find another girl??..will i or is it just me?

2007-12-13 11:20:28 · 5 answers · asked by laxem 3

do you think once a cheater allways a cheater or do u think they will change when they meet the wright person ?

2007-12-13 11:18:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry about the repost, but the original wasn't getting hits..

I've been talking to this girl for a while. We are both really into each other, and I like her a lot. We are both young adults, and we have both had sex before. I have only been with 1 girl, whom I really cared about. We are both trying to be completely honest with each other. She recently told me that since her last serious relationship, she has done more things with more guys than she is proud of (possibly due to depression/self-esteem issues). It really bothers me, and I don't really know how to react, or how to handle the situation. She is well aware that I have a problem with it. I think part of my problem with it may be my own insecurities. I think I'm worried about "stepping up to the bar" in bed, so to speak. (Both anatomically and physically.) How should I feel about this and what should I do? Serious answers only please!!!

2007-12-13 11:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by mike 2

I have huge bright stretch marks on my breasts, hips, thighs, and arms. I dont have them on my stomach, but my breasts are the ones I am most worried about. In my school club, we have to wear a tanktop which is lowcut and a medium jean skirt. Its a club my friends started and I want to be in it but I dont want to tell them that I can wear the shirts because of my hidious boobs! My friends can wear them because they dont seem to have them but I do and I just wanted to know how to get rid of them. They are wide, long and really bright purplish red. I have a boyfriend and he is my bff's brother and im scared that if I tell her why I cant wear the shirt then she will tell him and he wont want to date me anymore because we have been dating for about 3 years and we love eachother and we have been talking about having sex, but im really self concious about them and im scared he will not want to do it and he will make fun of me and break up with me. Most of the boys I know are like that.

2007-12-13 11:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so ive had this crush on this girl. So i deicided to write a note about this inside joke we had.

Then i put the note inside her backpack...

5 hours later her friend tells me that i wrote a emotional love letter to her!!
I couldnt believe it!!...but it seems that i put the wrong piece of paper in her backpack..

insead of puting a note..i put a love note...which i wrote a week ago when i was bored...

now she knows how i emotionaly feel about her. In this love note i go into detail by using poetry and stuff. Its very profound. But i had no intention of showing her...

now i have to see her tomorrow...and i dont know what to say..

2007-12-13 11:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months and he keep pressuring me to have sex I finally said yes we did it 4 times but I don't really like it. I'm tiny 5'5'' and only 72 lbs he 5'7'' probably like 140 he's not fat he just has muscle. It hurts every time I do it cause I am so small and hes so much bigger than me. What do I do?

2007-12-13 11:10:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

All right tommrow my high school goes on winter break. There is a girl i want to ask out and i know she is interested. Problem is I have been waiting for an oppurtunity that may never come. She is always around other people and I have been thinking that I should start some dialog before I actually ask her out. Problem is I dont really want to spend 2 weeks on break without her. What should I do to get her? Should i just ask her out or try to get her phone number so we can talk more. BTW I am almost 100% sure that she really likes me I have been just shy in the past. Tommorow though I am definitely gonna do it. Oh, and what can I do to get her away from her friends so it is less indimadating? Any extra info or ideas would be appreciated. Oh and just as a reminder I only have 1 shot to do this before break.

Thanks a lot in advance

2007-12-13 11:09:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. be married to a guy who is really really good in bed (i'm talkin stamina) a total playboy....and has large hard equipment ......... but ur not convinced that he loves u and u think that u may get a divorce in the future....u also feel that can't trust him what so ever.

or

2. Be married to a guy who has a small softer penis.......is a min man and is bad when it comes to sex.....but he absoultley adores you and is loyal and u can tell because u feel it in ur heart and he always protects u and buys u things..

both have the same job and make the same amount of $.

2007-12-13 11:08:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

thanx -tom

2007-12-13 11:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-13 10:59:55 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous

we went on a couple of outings together "dates". but this one time i told him i was embarased 2 be seen with him. i told him i was just playing. but he was really sad that i said it. but we wud play like that..he didnt talk to me for like 2 days. a few days later everything was back 2 normal. we were laughin a nd stuff. then 2 weeks later he said he was going with a girl who worked with us, a mutual friend. i talked 2 this girl she knew i liked him. he knew i liked him i think..& i cant b mad B-c we r just friends. so i wasnt b-c we said we were just friends. then he tells me he loves me , but hes getting a tattoo of this girl name.( i think he did it just to make me jealous). it worked. he didnt know. then one night he was drunk and he tells me he loves me &hes mad we arent together. i laughed it off. i didnt know if he was serious. he constantly puts me over his Gf . she will call &he will lie 2 stay on the fone with me.(smiling) i told him y arent we together .he said i dnt like u.Y

2007-12-13 10:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by annie 1

I didn't talk to this girl in my class that I had a crush on all semester. Would it be weird if I emailed her to ask her if she wants to study with me for the final?

2007-12-13 10:57:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. What makes a girl hot?

2. What makes a girl pretty?

2007-12-13 10:57:45 · 30 answers · asked by Alycia [♥] 3

2007-12-13 10:56:45 · 63 answers · asked by ~~♥♥♥~~ 2

Okay so this guy he always looks at me and smiles and looks into my eyes Even when he is talking to other ppl he will still look at me When Im around he will look at me for like a second and look away each time People always catch him looking at me When i'm around him he is always laughing and smiling at me When we talk to eachother we will both move closer to eachother each time we talk when im around him i am so comfortable When ppl ask him something he wll go like " ask her she is smarter" and smile at me. But today my friend asked him who he liked and he said no one. But he found out that someone liked him. He kept on asking me who it was there was a bunch of girls around him. He kept on asking me who lliked him. I was like idunoo. Each time he asked me he would have the biggest smile on his face When i walk behind him he would just keep on looking back at me smiling we played games together before and he let me win a bunch of times i think he is just shy guy He never had a gf befo

2007-12-13 10:54:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you look for in a girl when you are wanting a relationship? What turns you off and what turns you on. Im a single gal and I would like to hear from all you single guys out there. Thanks.

2007-12-13 10:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just a regular girl, i think i know what i want but when it boils down to it i really have no idea. I have a boyfriend that i've been with for over a year. I'd say he's my first 'love' --as corny as that sounds. anyways he became a huge slacker over the course of our relationship and i'm not sure that i really like that about him, and the thing is, theres this other guy that i sort of developed a bit of a 'crush' on for lack of a better word. The other guy actually goes to school and gets good marks, and i like. At the same time, i still see a huge amount of potential in my boyfriend and i live his easy-going personality, its just that sometimes he annoys the hell out of me and he has terrible habbits and a bad work ethic. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do about this?

2007-12-13 10:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is such a sweet heart he treats me so good but my mom doesn't know that i'm dateing him should i let him tell her because he really wants to or wait until the right time

2007-12-13 10:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 17 year old christian and my problem is that my brother's x girlfriends whom is (34) stalking me at church its not only her that's doing it she has her roomate looking at me and her roomates cousin. Now I know what you're thinkin may she just wants your brother back, no she doesnt the way she looks at me I can tell she doesnt. I mean either she's looking at me smiling or she's looking at me with a straight face, now I'm not gay at all, I even had my mother to talk to her, but she denied everything, she just got worser now she loves to intimidate me. What does she want from me could someone please tell me someone told me that she was a bi-sexual, but I'm trying not to think that lol. I mean i tried sitting behind her but she rodes her head back every 5 minutes to see if I'm still their.Why are these grown women doing this to me, I m not gay this has been going on for 5 years and she still isnt changing. I mean she looks at me so deep within my eyes. I need help

2007-12-13 10:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 or 4 weeks now, but before then we were really good friends for 4 months before we started dating each other. The whole time we were friends we liked each other. So today i told him "i think i love you" and he said "i love you too".. After that i told him that he doesn't have to say that if he doesn't mean it because it won't hurt my feelings. And he said "no i do love you". Today he told me that 3 times.
Should i believe him?
Do you think he i just saying that so he can get some?

2007-12-13 10:40:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here is the story, there is a boy that likes me but i kind of like another boy, the boy that i like now i turned him down when i was younger (9) now he is friends with the boy that likes me. The boy that likes me asked me out but i dont know what to do, i dont want to say no because then people will be all up in my face asking me why and again most of the people in my school if you ask them they will say yes but unless they really dont like you. If i say yes (which i dont want to because it dont want to go out with him) i would be lying to myself and him but i dont want to break his heart. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! Oh and the boy i like im not sure if he likes me but sometimes he shows a hint of jealousy, so does these other 3 boys te he. And i still want to be friends with him he is still funny. And please dont say anyhing about "peer pressure".

2007-12-13 10:40:07 · 14 answers · asked by scorpiomimikins 1