Singles & Dating - 13 December 2007

I told my boyfriend his friend said he was cheating.

He got really mad and said- Can I call you back in a minute??

So he called his friend and said that his friend thought was cheating but he wasn't. My boyfriend seemed less mad after that but still was a little. He said he'd do anything to prove he wasn't cheating. I found it all a little queer... what do you think???
P.S. His friend hits on me a lot....

2007-12-13 10:37:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and w always thought we were meant for eachother. When we met it was like we already knew eachother, there was never an awkward 'getting to know you' stage with us. We're both only seventeen, and we're still in highschool. Last year he got sick with mono and stopped coming to school for a while because he was so sick, and ever since then he hasn't been coming to school at all. It's been almost 8 monthes since he's come to school. He used to be a very good student and i don't know what happened. He pretty much shows no interest in anything anymore except video games. He doesn't even seem to feel motivated to talk to me at all. If we ever do anything its always me calling him. I try to do nice things for him all the time, but i get nothig in return. I feel like i don't really want to be with him anymore but I really do still like him and i see his potential. It makes me really sad. Do you think I should move on? How?

2007-12-13 10:37:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have loved a guy for almost two years. He cheated on me because we "didn't see each other enough" and left me for someone he's only known for a few months. Of course he's an idiot because I love him to death! Do I just go on? I can't just forget about him. Your advice please. . .

2007-12-13 10:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by mamasbaby 3

When you chatting on MySpace?
Thanks x

2007-12-13 10:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with my boyfriend n it ended up being the biggest mistake of my life... he is mad at me now... how do i get him back ... how do i make him want me again?

please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! : (

2007-12-13 10:34:18 · 1 answers · asked by Mandeexrox 1

like im not going to post any pictures of myself but i am 15yrs old . and i just want to know like what most girls do to "beautify" themself. i would like to try some of their "tricks".

2007-12-13 10:34:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, yeah, it's a does he like me question, so I'll make it quick. There is this guy I like, and I don't know if he likes me, because he is in a higher social class than I am. I still have a lot of friends, but in a different group. Anyway, yesterday, he sat down next to me in class, which suprised me, and then today though, someone else was sitting next to me. She moved to sit somewhere else though, and then the next thing I knew, the guy I like sat right next to me! We didn't really talk, so I don't know. Please help!
thanx

2007-12-13 10:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so do you guys (guys only plz) like girls who wear no panties anywhere or what

2007-12-13 10:30:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 15 and i wanna do something romantic for my girlfriend
I dont know what to do
Please help me?

2007-12-13 10:30:42 · 5 answers · asked by Lee 2

2007-12-13 10:29:54 · 10 answers · asked by chicken lover 2

two weeks ago he broke up with me after a year because he suddenly didnt know if he loved me anymore and was tired. I was so upset and I cried so much (I still am upset). I saw him two days after and he had cut marks on his wirsts. we're 21 so its not a phase or anything. I got him to talk to me about it and he said he wanted to die now that we arent together. I asked him if he wanted to go back out and he said no, not now.

well then he started calling me a lot for about a week and now he hasnt called at all. he promised he'd call last night and never did.

hes acting crazy and I dont know what to do. because I dont want him to do anything to hurt himself but it was his choice to breakup! I did not want to at all.

2007-12-13 10:29:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet a guy over the weekend last saturday at a club.
He approached me we talked. We hit it off. danced,
My one male friend that was out partying with us. Approached the guy that asked me out, and pretty much gave him a playful hard time. he gave him the "this is my best friend... be nice to her or ill hurt you" speech. Both boys laughed at it.
I found it great that he continued to talk to me even though my overly muscled friend gave him the third degree. Most guys dont. At the end of the night we swapped numbers.
He called me the next day(sunday), and the day after that. and on wednesday asked me out, for a coffee on thursday(today)
So today. I get a phone call from him today.
"telling me he wants to be straight with me, and has BUNCH of family drama happening, and has to deal with it. and will call me in a few days to re-schedule..."
IS buddy full of crap? Do guys actually take girls seriously that they pick up in a club?

2007-12-13 10:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by DreaDEA 1

i mean today everything seemed so great. (kinda like him). We'd hang out, laugh at each others jokes. He hangs out with me the most. Sometimes we just look into each others eyes. And i really have this vibe, like we really like each other but im not sure. But we're friends. But most of the time people will keep asking us do we like each other. And finally today they asked us for the millionth time and he said that he sweard that he did not like me like that. And i said the same (as usaul) but this time when i said this he looked me and said are you sure. And i was like yeah i dont like you and he was like ok yea right. then right after that he starts acting like how i just told you. I would think he's playing around but why would he waste almost every minute of the day with me???? (he makes me sooo confused plz help me!)

2007-12-13 10:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1

If you loved the person your with would you ever get there name tattooed on you? People always say no because you wont be with tht person 4ever and when u break up you will be pissed at yourself and feel stupid, but i feel like if i did it, and me and my dude broke up, i wouldnt be mad cuz thts how i felt at tht time! Now wut do u think?

2007-12-13 10:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Sham 1

We've been dating pretty seriously for almost year now. We're both 18 years old, and I have a car so transportation isn't a problem. But here IS the problem.. I'm putting myself through school so cash is really tight.

Our one year anniversary and christmas is just a week apart, and I obviously can't afford something for both occassions, so I want to do something really special for him. What is something that would just melt his heart?

I want responses from guys who are genuine and true because that's the kind of man HE is. So boys, if you are affectionate and honest, what is something that she does that drives you wild?

Please help.. I need this in just the next couple days!!!

2007-12-13 10:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love bbw i find their shape and their curves very sexy
to me that is far more appealing than some of the wafer thin girls you have to be these days to fit in, iknow a lot of guys who find them attractive after a gutful of beer yet are ashamed when they are sober, i'm proud to be a chubbychaser why can't others?

2007-12-13 10:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by shu9861 2

I have a family member that is always doing something great. At least they make it look like that. They always brag about their great adventures and how well their life is going. Then after they do that they look at me and ask me a question, i answer and they just look at me with this blank look on their face and say 'oh'. Are they really trying to make it look like their life is wonderful and mine sucks or am i just insecure because I dont measure up?

2007-12-13 10:23:07 · 2 answers · asked by nik 1

I just want to know does size matter is small better is big better or does it even matter?

2007-12-13 10:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by ICU2007 2

alright, boys.......... you have a lot of girlfriends right (and when i say that i mean you have friends that are girls) how do you decided if you like them or not, do you get to caught up with them being girls so you start liking them, or are you just friends? and how do you notice when a girl likes you. and how do you deal with the situation

pleaaaaase help, boys are so confusing
and if you think girls are confusing please tell me why you think that!
HELPP!

2007-12-13 10:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by asilla_davies 1

i like this girl name...."Emerald Rush"....i have already dated her and ended it i have multiple personalities disorder so i ended it with her so she wouldn't get hurt but she wouldn't get over me so ignored her until she hated me...today she confronted me after i asked if it was to late to apololgize i know that she has moved on. she's dating my best friend and they have had some altercations too but i realized i still like her should i tell her in hopes of getting her back?

2007-12-13 10:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by chicken lover 2

It would be great if you could tell me how to control men better.

2007-12-13 10:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Danielle M 2

ive been really hurt in the past by ex boyfriends and friends.
Now that im single again im scared to go on dates... ive been on a few and they have turned out so badly.. Now when i get asked out, if i like the guy ill tell him yes... then a few days will go by and ill end up telling im at the last minute i cant go... i get scared... and really nervous.. How am i suppose to get over this?

2007-12-13 10:03:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Obviously women are different and we'd prefer something probably a little more romantic or sappy. What do you like, sports even, a meal, then sex? Why do I even ask...

2007-12-13 09:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah 3

i love him and everything but sometimes i just cant get turned on...

he obviously has no problem so whats wrong with me?

2007-12-13 09:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy 2 years ago on an internet dating site. We haven't met yet, but I fell like I know him so well. We talk a few time a week. He wants to meet me. Go on a date with some friends so I feel more comfortable.
I just don't know what I should do. He's told me that he really care about me even though he doesn't know me as well as he wishes he could. We also talk on the phone. We talked for 5 hours the day before I had a plane flight, I was leaving town for Christmas. He leaves me cute messages, and calls me his girl. I'm happy when I talk to him, on the computer or the phone.
I'm worried that I may like him too much though. If i do meet him, I don't even know what I'd say. I'm scared, I feel so close to him. He told me he knew he was falling for me. It was sweet.
I'm just a little confused with what I should do about it.
I just want to know what you would tell me to do if you were my friend.

2007-12-13 09:58:16 · 1 answers · asked by Giving in to the Feeling 4

I am still with this man who is in Iraq. He sends tons of message that how much he loves me, he wants to spend life with me, stuff like that. I am also 4months pregnant. He said he is very happy and he is planning to have his leave in Jan and come see me.
BUT,I just found out that some websites that he goes to and never told me. In myspace He did put there as "divorced", he has divorced from couple of his marriages. Although he never mentioning about relationship with me there. He once told me he has to go to Iraq to save money for me and baby. He wrote he had to go Iraq because he has to support his 12year old son, nothing else about me and baby.
Also, I saw his profile at Adultfriendfinder.com. I had to sign up to see his profile.he was wanting to meet some woman who match with his type or sex life. He did not put any naked/sexual pictures himself there, just one face picture with his army uniform. he wants no long distance relationship. I live in NY and he lives in GA.

2007-12-13 09:55:14 · 35 answers · asked by Momoiro 1

I like this guy named Jacob, and I'm pretty sure he has no idea i exist. He is quiet, and he has drama right before I do. He has black hair, and he is japanese, and I used to live in japan. All of his friends tell me i should just go up to him and say hey but i get shy and i need another alternative. i dont know what to do. i changed my complete style to get his attention. i want to just go up to him and be like hii i'm brianna. but omgggg i cant do that. i have never met a guy that has given my butterflies, but he does, major major butterflies. i will be walking down the hall and he looks at me but i dont know what he is thinking about me, and when i do make eye contact with him i get butterflies and i bite the edge of my lip and look down at the ground. i dont know what to do to get his attention without totally embarrassing myself, help?

2007-12-13 09:55:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like him. but its usless so, how do i get over him?

2007-12-13 09:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by that girl 2

My ex and his brother are completely opposites. I've always been cool with his brother and never had feelings for him. He would check up on me to see how I was doing and sometimes I would check in on him and his daughter (this is while I was dating my ex). Yesterday I went to see my ex's brother at his job. I hung out at his store then afterwards we went out for drinks. Were TOTALLY on the same page with a lot of things and I like that, it's a good feeling. When leaving we hugged (a close hug) and I don't know what he was feeling, but I wanted to kiss him, but it's like I almost knew better and just couldn't, he's my ex's brother.

What should I do? I know that I have feelings for him, like something could be there. Him and my ex have each others back when it comes down to it, but they don't really talk.

When is this boundary okay to cross, if it is? If it isn't please explain why.

Thanks so much!

2007-12-13 09:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im only young...

and i have a girlfriend

and i just want to get more intimate, but not sex or any of that kind of stuff, we kiss and stuff, what else can i do, i really like her.

thanks

2007-12-13 09:44:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous