ive been really hurt in the past by ex boyfriends and friends.
Now that im single again im scared to go on dates... ive been on a few and they have turned out so badly.. Now when i get asked out, if i like the guy ill tell him yes... then a few days will go by and ill end up telling im at the last minute i cant go... i get scared... and really nervous.. How am i suppose to get over this?
2007-12-13 10:03:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP DATING!!! Your not a merry-go-round!!! You should just pray, trust GOD, and allow the person your hoping for come to you in good time. You'll know when you meet him because there'll be absolutely no doubt in your heart.
For now allow friendships, but avoid those that are obviously out to get things quickly.
2007-12-13 22:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by chapel247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry there is no way you can even look at starting a relationship until you accept that you must (both of you must) make yourself vulnerable and there is the possibility that you will be hurt again ---- there is a piece of graffiti that really says it so well ---- learn to love like you have never been hurt before --- if you hold back expecting to get hurt then you will because you wont be able to really open up and let the caring and affection dominate --- best wishes
2007-12-13 10:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to meet better guys. Don't say yes to dates just because you get asked - say yes because you want to go.
2007-12-13 10:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some nicer friends and if you wanna go out with em', ask
2007-12-14 06:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need to do is to go out with me
2007-12-13 10:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by ADM™ is back! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋