i love him and everything but sometimes i just cant get turned on...
he obviously has no problem so whats wrong with me?
2007-12-13 09:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you care for him emotionally doesn't mean you will be physically attracted to him. Are you sure it's him? Is there anything else going on in your life, stress, depression? Many women have to be relaxed, they need foreplay, then they're ready. Many guys, all it takes is a a few seconds to think about having sex and they're ready. If this is not the case, and you're not attracted to him, you might not want to waste any more time. If you marry someone you love like a brother instead of a lover you will BOTH have an unsatisfying sexual relationship and may end up cheating on each other.
2007-12-13 10:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you, only because you love him dosent mean you have to get turn on. first dont go jumping into sex, play for a while let your body relax and tell him to do stuff for you like give you head that allways turn-un girls but dont feel bad its normal and it takes time for you and him to know your body but remeber sex is not suppoed to be painful much less for only his pleasure.
2007-12-13 10:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gaara_Babe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is something wrong with you. You need to see a doctor. He won't be your bf long if you don't get help.
2007-12-13 10:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try massaging with eachother and experimenting with feathers, blindfolds, ice cubes and squirty cream can be a lot of fun!
2007-12-13 11:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't truely love him. or it's just cheesey. or u need to see a doctor.
2007-12-13 10:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by bakedbean100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a thing --- guys are sooooo easy --- ladies need more --- affection tenderness so he needs to look to your needs rather than his ---- best wishes
2007-12-13 10:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got me hanging!
2007-12-13 10:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋