I have huge bright stretch marks on my breasts, hips, thighs, and arms. I dont have them on my stomach, but my breasts are the ones I am most worried about. In my school club, we have to wear a tanktop which is lowcut and a medium jean skirt. Its a club my friends started and I want to be in it but I dont want to tell them that I can wear the shirts because of my hidious boobs! My friends can wear them because they dont seem to have them but I do and I just wanted to know how to get rid of them. They are wide, long and really bright purplish red. I have a boyfriend and he is my bff's brother and im scared that if I tell her why I cant wear the shirt then she will tell him and he wont want to date me anymore because we have been dating for about 3 years and we love eachother and we have been talking about having sex, but im really self concious about them and im scared he will not want to do it and he will make fun of me and break up with me. Most of the boys I know are like that.
2007-12-13 11:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stretch marks dont go away but they fade in colour they go a grayish sliver colour so dont worry 2 much they will dissapear in time its just where u are growing into a woman thats all
2007-12-13 11:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by in love and its great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you have stretchmarks. But everyone gets them. It takes quite a long time to fade. But you should use cocoa butter and other cremes and lotions to help for stretchmarks. Check your local drug store or something to help that. Also, you say you've been dating that guy for 3 years? And you aren't comfortable enough with your flaws to let him know about them? If he cares about you, and loves you like you say he does, then it's likely he will look past the whole stretchmark thing. But if he makes fun of you and breaks up with you then that just shows what kind of boy he really is. Too bad that most boys you know are like that. That says something to you doesn't it?
You're not the only girl with this problem, and I'm sorry you have to go through it. But if the issue with your school club and what you have to wear isn't working out, and it makes you insecure, maybe you should consider not being in it anymore.
2007-12-13 19:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, calm down. This is not the end of the world. Perhaps some make-up could help this, and if this girl really is your bff, she won't tell him. Is the club this important? If it is, then either don't be ashamed, or cover it up non-chalantly. I probably haven't told you anything you haven't heard before, but this is just to reiterate the point. Good Luck!
2007-12-13 19:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by TheMan123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get something called bio oil, you can get it from most chemists, it does help to improve the appearance of scares and stretch marks and dulls down the deep colouring of them, but to be quite honest your boyfriend has been with you for 3 years, he must love you and except you for who you are so i am sure he will love you for what you see as imperfections and if he doesn't then he is not worthy of a girl as great as you, hope it all goes well.
2007-12-13 19:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are oils and lotions that pregnant women use to help reduce their stretch marks, try out some of these. And I'm sure they aren't as bad as all that! It sounds like you lost a lot of weight in a short time.
2007-12-13 19:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen go see adoctor about you stretch marks but tell your friends that you don't feel comfortable weraring a revealing top like that. and if they ask why just say you don't feel comfortable showing that much skin if they are your friends they will understand
and don't worry if your bf really loves you he won't care trust me when a guy likes you then they will disregard any flaws that you have
im not saying that is a flaw but he loves you then i tshouldn't matter
2007-12-13 19:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by colrz123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny one you have to get over that scars are bad things yes but a guy should want to be with you because you make him happy and he loves you if he would freak out over that then he is not the right guy and ask for the other people you just have to flant it act like it is not there if they say something say 'dont sweat it'
2007-12-13 19:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by truelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys like boobs. even fracked up ones. and if we like you, we don't giva ratsass about minor chit like this, despite what you have been led to believe. with the right girl, even no boobs doesnt matter- r u the rite girl? (retorical question) i guess it would look dopey to wear a t shirt under the tank? Who cares anyway, we all have our own personal defects, so get used to yours- your lover will, i gaurantee it.
2007-12-13 19:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by davetheguitarplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Most of the boys I know are like that." which is probably the last person you should be doing such things with IF he is that immature..
2007-12-13 19:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom and go to the doctor.
2007-12-13 19:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋