Singles & Dating - 1 December 2007

and he and this other guy make fun of the white girls who are in either grade (he is i think 14 and is friend 15) and I'm 13 and in 7th grade they haven't said anything mean to me but still and yesterday he asked me " do you feel left out because your not Hispanic?" i really like him but i don't really think he would like me because I'm white but i don't act like the other girls I'm not addicted to Hollister or Hot Topic or anything like that I've never been to any of those places! i like rap and hip hop which i don't think they know about. he talks to me a bit but he can more relate to my friend because she is Hispanic his friend doesn't really talk to me but he talks to my friend and i do feel left out sometimes i'm not bothered by it but i thin he might be and i only see him on the school bus because of the age different and the fact my school is huge there are 1,700 kids! and i just realized i started going off topic! O_o PLZ HELP!! thx in advance:D

2007-12-01 04:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by ~♥~Blue~Eyed~Girl~♥~ 1

This guy I really liked and he really liked me asked me out. When we were going out, he made me feel so special, unlike anything any other guy had. He wrote me songs and poetry and the like. But then one day he said while sometimes he felt I was like a gf to him, other times I acted more like a best friend. So we broke it off and I acted like I didn't care but really I do and none of my friends understand and they can't help me. That was only a week ago. So last night he was telling me about this really amazing girl he found and everything, and he was talking to me about her the way he used to talk about me and it really hurt so I started yelling at him. And he apologized but I just couldn't stop myself. Because he had been doing it a lot lately. And now he won't talk to me and I feel really really bad because not only have I lost a bf, but a best friend too. And there's this guy that I like but I messed things up with him too because I was mad at my ex. What should I do now?

2007-12-01 04:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Afton 2

Hokay so.... there’s this girl that quite frankly, I believe I love. Can’t stop thinking about her and she is, at this time in my life, one of the few things that can actually make me smile. I am a sophomore in high school and she is a junior. At the beginning of the school year, I had known her for a year and I liked her during the previous year but I made no attempt to get closer. This year that has changed and I am doing everything in my ability to get to the point where I can ask her out. after about three months of getting closer to her I asked my best friend (he had been friends with her since he was young) out of desperation, to call her up, ask if she thought I liked her and what she thought of me (he pretended he had no idea). She said she thought I did like her and that at that time she only liked me as a friend. Now, a month later, I have been talking to her pretty much every day. Both in person (on the bus everyday) and on aim. She has been opening up much more to me and every once in a while she will bring up the fact that she thinks that she is fat. Now, I know that this is a big load of bull so I always just explain to her why she isn't and I just try and comfort her. Recently on the bus she has seemed to become much more shy. I normally have to keep the conversation going, but recently it has been like pulling teeth, not to mention that I am shy on my own and find it extremely difficult to do it in the first place. When I get off the bus and I say bye, she says bye as well but on her face is a look of either disappointment or something else, I can’t tell. Keep in mind though; I have still been talking to her on aim with little difficulty pretty much every day. Now I have no idea what she feels about me. What’s going on in her? Now, I know that the only way for sure that I can find out would be to tell her what I feel about her. I am seriously contemplating doing this but I am worried that in the case that she does not feel the same way, our friendship will be ruined and that there will be no way to recover from it. Another small issue is that I’ve never hung out with her in a more social environment outside of school, with or without friends. What should I do here and would telling her what I feel about her possibly ruin the friendship?

2007-12-01 04:28:38 · 12 answers · asked by patton 1

2007-12-01 04:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) when other people are around, and they're all included in the conversation, he'll say something funny, and look at only me
2) he always looks straight into my eyes when he speaks to me
3) he smiles and quickly puts his head down when we're walking towards eeach other and i say hello
4) he looks worried and gives a kind of nervous, hasty smile when i'm with my mom and she's looking at him

2007-12-01 04:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by anonymous 2

Ewww....how should I get him back?
I'm 14.
He asked me to the dance last year and I said no. My mom wanted me to go out with him because his dad had recently died. But I said he was a jerk. My mom wouldnt believe me.

But now he sends me text messages like:
"I want to dual you."
"What are you doin this weekend."
"You have big boobs."
"Your hot and sexy."

I have classes with him. But...its not awkward. I'm used to it. But the texts are getting anoying. How do I get back at him??

2007-12-01 04:23:49 · 24 answers · asked by Joey Crawford is love 6

You know the type--long hair,3 week beard and a fondness for Coldplay.Is it because they want a boyfriend but not one who is threatening,a "man" in the broadest sense of the word who can provide the minimum requirements but is to all intents and purposes a girl.Would these girls even know a real man if they met one?

2007-12-01 04:23:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.'I'll get credit just because I wanna make you smile'
2.'I'm never too busy for you'
3.'The biggest mistake I ever made was loosing you'
4.'I've been excited abut talking to you all day because you make a bad day better'
5. 'Id do anyfing to be able to just kiss u agen'
6.'I could never ever of forgotten you'
7.'Being with someone else made me see how perfect you are'
8.' I think about you constantly'
9. 'Your one of a kind'
10.'Im so happy you called'
THANKYOUU
<3

2007-12-01 04:21:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-01 04:20:57 · 6 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5

At 25 I find myself diffrent from my mates. They are in long term relationships, some have married and so on. Those that haven't desperately wish for it.

Thay are all mature and no fun.

I want to buy a motorbike and live great adventures. Make no mistake, I am an independent and otherwise accomplished woman.

Do you think this chidish side of me will still be there once I have sex?

2007-12-01 04:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if there is such thing .. it must be free also ....so ... is there some ideal website ?

2007-12-01 04:15:45 · 4 answers · asked by undone_samurai 1

I try to be the nicest guy possible, even saving my virginity until marriage, and i try to find nice girls however they abandon me and go for guys that end up taking their virginity and abandon them. I really dont get this at all, it seems the assholes get all the girls and ruin them while all guys like me can do is just sit and watch. is there anyone left anymore ?

2007-12-01 04:12:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my neighbor and i were going out for a while. then a whole lot of bad things happen and we were always mad, sad, whatever. my parents don't like him anymore because they think i spend way too much time with him so they don't want me seeing him at all! is there a way to really show my parents i like him? what are some good arguments or points or any advice? tips? :( it hurts a lot when you can't be with someone you love

2007-12-01 04:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has some serious issues with alcohol. She used to come back to her dorm completely wasted about 3 times a week, vomiting everywhere, and then would black out. She wouldn't remember anything the next morning.

She recently has admitted that she has a problem. I think this is a good first step.

However,

Although she has been trying to quit, last night she had a few shots with some friends. Thankfully she was able to stop at 5, but I'm still not happy about it.

We've talked this morning and she apologized for a long time. I can tell she actually meant it and I know that she really does want to get control of this, but she's having a lot of trouble with it.

So my question is, what can I do to help her? What should I say to her or what should I do? I feel like I've tried so many things and now I'm running out of ideas on how to make this easier for her...

It's also worth mentioning that we got to different colleges and only see each other over breaks.

2007-12-01 04:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Take the short bus!!!!!! or something like that!!!! Thanks!!!

xoxoxoxoxoxox

2007-12-01 04:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle 2

2007-12-01 04:00:06 · 5 answers · asked by tommy j 1

i am a skater chick and a skater boi likes me, we have so much in comon what sholud i do? he wants me to ditch school to go hang at the mall. helppppp plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-12-01 03:59:42 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

She works at a grocery store and her shifts typically end around 11pm. Lately shes been coming home at around 1 or 2 saying that she has to stay later to restock and do inventory. I drove by the store last night to see if her car was there after 11 and it wasn't there. When I asked her about it she said that last night was the only night she didn't have to stay later, but decided to go to a friends house for a beer afterwards. I asked her what friend. She said her friend Meghan.
So today, I thought I would call up Meghan's husband who is my friend too, and ask him if he wants to come over and to bring Meghan and watch the game. He said ok.
So when my wife asked who I called, I said I called up Jim and Meghan and they're coming over tonight to watch the game. I told her I know you just saw her yesterday, but I thought it would be nice to all hang out. She turned red and looked like she was guilty of something. My guess is that she is cheating on me with Jim. Do you agree?

2007-12-01 03:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by Billy 1

what should i change bout my look to be sexier??:D

2007-12-01 03:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by Kiki P 1

2007-12-01 03:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-01 03:53:24 · 9 answers · asked by YOCRAPSMAN 1

alright so i have this neighbor and hes really sweet respectful and outgoing hes a great friend, but hes been in love with since the day i moved in (nearly 3 yrs ago) and i just never thought of him that way, well now he has a "girlfriend" (finally) but its still weird, like his mom was really sweet to me when i saw them, now she wont even look at me, and hes still looks up at my window sometimes and seems nervous around me, so am i causing problems in his relationships? also im worried that im being disrespected, like his family was only nice to me when they thought i might give him a chance. i dont know how to go about this, they always told me id be a heart breaker, and now im afraid its coming true.

2007-12-01 03:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by The Gypsy 5

First of all i dont care if she has a boyfriend 2nd of all i dont care if shes a coworker if i cant live on the edge, why live at all? So keep those opinions to yourself ladies thank you :)

So basically a girl i have known for 2-3 weeks as she is a co-worker shes 19 im 20, we flirted couple of times while working, but nothing serious, anyways the other day she told me she going to be out the next day because of her "College Entrance Exam" so i texted her the very next day "You'll do good dont sweat it! Good luck!, she replied in less than 4 minutes with a "thank you hehe" I instantly remember her telling me she doesnt reply to text messages really fast.. couples weeks ago..like i said i could be overanazlying that lol...Anyways, so i went on with my merrily way working at the store, suddenly i get a phone call i check my phone and whadda you know its her.. I pick up saying whats up? She said i jsut got out of the test. and i asked if she did well she said yes i did! *awkard silence*

2007-12-01 03:45:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im kinda shy and don't really talk to boys that often. Last week my crush started talking to me online through bebo), we had never really talked to each other before. We had quite a good convo on line and he said he thought I was pretty and put xoxo when he had to go. The next day at school I wanted to talk to him again because I felt we had built a bit of a friendship. That didn't really happen though, every time we caught each other's eye we would look away right away, or else we would ignore each other altogether. By the end of the week I was trying smile at him as I walked by but it seemed so awkward. I find it weird because he is very popular and has had a few girlfriends, and he doesn't really strike me as a shy person......It's as though he's not interested in me anymore. I've tried commenting on his bebo again but everytime he sees Im onine he logs off...

Does anyone have an idea what he's thinking?....it's almost as if hes scared of me.

PLEASE HELP ME

2007-12-01 03:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i first met my boyfriend he was slender,(he wasn't my boyfriend at the time)looked really awsome, very gorgeous baby face, then he started working out n doing steroids, he had gotten so big. He had stoped for a while after we started datin n got really nice lookin again his baby face came back, but now he says he's too small and want to go back on steroids again. I don't really want him too... What should i do?

2007-12-01 03:43:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy i like, and he's rather

1. playing mind games with me
2. or letting me walk all over him

how do i tell wich one he's doing?

2007-12-01 03:42:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even when he is just kissing me, or feeling me up, is this normal?
were both 16

2007-12-01 03:41:25 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have shared my opinions on old men hitting on younger women. This man was different, very well off, asked me out for a coffee and he was really quite interesting and had a sense of humor. I'd rather he be my age but he's not ... we gave eachother our emails and he's sent me an email everyday and even sent flowers and chocolate to my office (receptionist) What to do?

2007-12-01 03:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i like this guy hes really great..but hesshy when it comes 2 girls..my friends asked him out 4 me without me knowing, and he sed no...they said he looked really nervous...now he keeps lookin at me and checkin me out..and hes lke gettin REALLY close to me like stickin his cheek on mine when hes talkin 2 some1 else...duz he like me or not???

2007-12-01 03:40:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am soo depressed and i don't want to like see a shrink or n e thing but i am gay and not out of the closet and i REALLY like this guy at my school and he is straight and i cannot come out of the closet because of where i live soo i dunno what to do the guy is currently mad at me because of something some girls did that i had nuttin to do with and i am practically in love with him and i am having other problems and i am soo depressed

2007-12-01 03:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous