2007-12-01 04:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Triple Hearts:
Date 4-6 years to establish a Firm
Foundation of Communication!
Marrige?
What have I Learned?
My TOP 10 LIST! :
1) Date 4-6 years to really get to know
a person effectively.
2) Never enter into a Marriage Contract
until one is OVER 25 yrs. old & mature.
(Brains are NOT developed until then)
This is a Business Contract~
NOT a Fantasy!
3) Possess "Emotional-Intelligence"!
4) Have a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!
This ensures a firm financial foundation!
5) Seek out Pre-Marital Counseling to est.
a Firm Foundation of Communication.
What do each of you EXPECT from
each other? Who does what & when?
Why PAYS for the Wedding?
6) Seek out counsel from your Clergy.
7) Meet with an Attorney for a Pre-Nup.
Have a Will & Life Insurance on File!
8) Utilize BC Methods! NO Babies until
you are over 30 & have Money Banked~
& OWN a House & new car!
9) NEVER live with a Lover!
Establish Independence! Live Separate.
10) Never "Live in Disney-Love" !
Live in REALITY & be Mature!
Does this answer your question~
Effectively?
If you do NOT do the above?
You might end up like many friends!
They are Miserable! Collecting checks
from Family Support Services & ALONE
as single Mom's ~on Food Stamps!
Good Luck~
2007-12-01 04:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is often called an alpha chaser. An " alpha" man cheats on his girlfriend/ partner when you consider that that so little guys are alpha's pleasant about 20% of the complete male population they need to actively search them out and swap down the adequate guys. She likes him beacuse she desires to be with the person who one-of-a-kind ladies sleep with. It manner she has no self manipulate. But alpha chasing girl's can discontinue their chasing of dishonest guys and gain knowledge of to love a great man within the occasion that they admit they've got a concern that they are the chaser's and now not the victim's. If they didn't like the guy's who cheated they'd be with a guy who didn't cheat on the grounds that most guys don't cheat. She loves the drama and the sympathy of " he cheated all over again" if she failed to adore it she would go away. When woman's don't love some thing they go away they do not stick round. She sticks round beacuse she likes it. Except she admits she has an dependancy she are usually not ready to stop it and be interested by a high-quality man. She's going to treat a person who is not going to cheat as if he is defective ( when real it's her) she's going to feel he isn't a real man beacuse he would now not cheat. When he's extra of a person beacuse he would not cheat. But if the alpha chasing women admit they've a essential hassle and discontinue it they are competent to are dwelling a excellent joyful. Once they admit they like the very fact he cheats then they are capable to confront the problem and get higher. It is a bit like an alcoholic. Discontinue the ingesting solve the situation.
2016-08-06 09:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least a yr-2 yrs.
Why?
Because when 2 people are physically and sexually attracted to one another, they hide their bad points and faults.It takes a yr of dating no sex no fantasizing and eyes wide open to see a person as they REALLY are and not how we "WANT" to see them.A lot of people jump in bed and get pregnant first and THEN find out the guy/girl they made the baby with is trash,then theyre lives are changed forever.
2007-12-01 04:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After living with each other for at least a year. See if you can handle that kind of drama and arrangement in your life.
2007-12-01 04:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by tinybubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 yrs at least>Then think about it>If you have to ask than your not ready> Keep reading these sites at the drama with marrying young>
2007-12-01 04:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if they feel like that the one for them i say get married but to me i say 2 or 3 years
2007-12-01 04:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mama J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how well you guys are together, how much you see each other--and if you think you are ready to be married then go for it!
2007-12-01 04:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need at least a year to get to know someone well enough to know if you want to spend the rest of your lives together.
2007-12-01 04:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on when and if you decide you want to get married. if you keep thinking about it like that, you'll have many disappointments in life.
2007-12-01 04:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamy™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple years for my parents it was 2
2007-12-01 04:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋