This guy I really liked and he really liked me asked me out. When we were going out, he made me feel so special, unlike anything any other guy had. He wrote me songs and poetry and the like. But then one day he said while sometimes he felt I was like a gf to him, other times I acted more like a best friend. So we broke it off and I acted like I didn't care but really I do and none of my friends understand and they can't help me. That was only a week ago. So last night he was telling me about this really amazing girl he found and everything, and he was talking to me about her the way he used to talk about me and it really hurt so I started yelling at him. And he apologized but I just couldn't stop myself. Because he had been doing it a lot lately. And now he won't talk to me and I feel really really bad because not only have I lost a bf, but a best friend too. And there's this guy that I like but I messed things up with him too because I was mad at my ex. What should I do now?
2007-12-01 04:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Afton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friendship with the guy is over, you crossed the boundary and it's never going to be the same. Trust me when you cross the line that's it. Their's nothing you could have done to fix it and trying to repair it, or mulling over it will not help. Forgive yourself and just move on.
2007-12-01 04:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Peter P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend and think of him as a friend instead of these feeling for him, also wouldn't do any harm if you starting dating other guys, hey you could mention that to him in passing, as your friends now! ;O)
2007-12-01 12:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by MSMajor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you took his love for granted he moved on knowing you did not love him so would not be hurt.
now he has found someone who loves him you want him.
see if you can get his friendship back it would be a shame to lose that as he sounds a nice man
2007-12-01 12:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up first >Your wanting something you don't know what to do with>
2007-12-01 12:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a life!
2007-12-01 12:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by wendy301 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋