Singles & Dating - 1 December 2007

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-01 17:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and obviuosly i want to marry him but he always tell me he is not ready for kinds and to have the responsability of a family so i told him we could wait to have babies. we are both in college but we are almost done, he works in the airport so he earns enough money and so do i and we're saving money too. my mom tells me that maybe i am just wasting time with him. sometimes i feel that after all this time together he is insecure about this realitionship why should i do? should i wait even more time? help me!!!

2007-12-01 17:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by miriam 2

just a curious question.
and have you ever used it in a prank?!

2007-12-01 17:25:42 · 24 answers · asked by french fry 2

Is it silly to be a hopeless romantic? I'm a girl who grew up surrounded by guys and still to this day, they think I expect too much from men.
"We can't all match up to your standards." is what my friend said. Is it really that silly to want a guy to hold you in his arms and say that he loves you? Or for him to do random romantic gestures that shows that you're still right for him? I'm still waiting for that guy...am I stupid for it?

2007-12-01 17:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I really like each other and we're sophomores in high school, but neither of us have ever kissed any1 and I don't want it to be awkward. WHere are girls supposed to put their hands, and pretty much, what are the good and bad things to do?

2007-12-01 17:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by Alexia S 1

Theres this girl in my homeroom. She's very mature and single. We're both seniors this year and I like her a lot. Well sometimes we'll write notes and text each other. But like I've asked her what she's doing this weekend and she'll write me and tell me then she'll ask me why did I ask? But I'm too scared to say I want to hang out with you this weekend. I'm not that mature but I have a way at making her laugh. So how could I approach a girl with that much self-control and maturity?

2007-12-01 17:04:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's not that much older than me and single...like, what if I put my hand on his back or something? I know he kind of likes me. But would that be too foward? I just want to grab him!

2007-12-01 17:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by lovebird 3

Here are a couple of pictures I rounded up in the past 5 minutes so sorry if there not everything you were expecting but this is what I got. And here is a description of my self for these pictures. Weight: 133, Height 5'9, Brownish hair, Greenish blue eyes. 15 years old, Male. I am nice, very shy, love football, very athletic.

This one is me on a casual day http://i215.photobucket.com/albums/cc299/K1NG117/DCFN0010.jpg

This one is me on a just plain day http://i215.photobucket.com/albums/cc299/K1NG117/DCFN0011.jpg

And this one is me flexing just for the heck of it http://i215.photobucket.com/albums/cc299/K1NG117/DCFN0012.jpg

2007-12-01 16:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, there's this guy that I like and me and him made out one night. he knows i ilike him btw. anyways, every time I see him like at a game or something he is always staring at me...i dunno why. i went to see my friend play intramurals and he was there, when i entered the gym he stopped doin what he was doing and just stared at me....but i didnt make eye contact...my friend said he was just lookin at me.....it's awkward.....i dunno. why is he staring soo much at me??

2007-12-01 16:42:37 · 10 answers · asked by unsure 1

i broke up with this guy because he never talked to me no matter how much he tried to change he still was the same...its been a month now and i miss him like crazy still...every night i cry.

1)whats the deal with me?
2)what can i do to see how he feels(he's a guy who doesnt like to show emotion)?
3)His best friend started liking me immediately after we stopped goin out and my ex knows...could that have made him completely forget about me.
4)he doesnt talk to me at all!he always has to talk to the person "NEXT" to me no matter who it is!
5)HELP!!!


ANSWER ALL!

2007-12-01 16:33:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I drink, even get drunk, I don't act crazy like I used to and like most girls my age do (I'm 19, almost 20). I started drinking this past march. I used to be CRAZY and do wild things with my girls, but even when I'm DRUNK nowadays I'm so calm. I don't lose my cool, I'm more chill. My friends ask me why I'm not drunk.. I am but I never get crazy anymore. What's going on? Is this norml for a 19 yr old girl?

2007-12-01 16:25:17 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

..i think im fated to be alone, im not depress or anything..eh..just gone through too many bad experiences...i always end up doing the work while they never return the same feelings....

2007-12-01 16:23:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

am in eighth grade. I recently broke up with my girlfriend who was in seventh grade. Their is a girl who is in sixth grade who I know would like to go out with me. She is very pretty and smart. Could I go out with her or date even though she is in sixth grade and i am in eighth grade? And were not too young to be dating. I cant date any girls in my grade because all the popular girls in my grade are mad at me for breaking p with one of their friends.

2007-12-01 16:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by J0hn Doe 1

It`s been almost 6 months since we broke up but we still chill at his house and sleep together.The only things that have changed ,since we broke up,are we don`t go out anymore but he`ll still occasionally offer to buy me stuff. Also we don`t call each other everyday but we do email each other almost everyday.

2007-12-01 16:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by rollie 2

I was out tonight shopping for my boyfriend's birthday present. I wanted to get his family picture framed as they live far and he loves them so much. As I am walking out of the store with his gift, he texted me and broke up with me. He didn't say why, but he got pretty upset the other night when I mentioned that I think we should wait a bit longer before having sex (we have been going out for only a month.) Now I feel stupid... and hurt too. I'm 27, he's 33.
What did I do wrong?

2007-12-01 16:10:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here it is, I've been dating this guy fro like 2 years naw and i am maddle in love with him. The problem with it is that my family dont like him. Its gottin so bad that i cant say his name in my houes without pissing somebody off. I've been hanging out with him behinde there backs, like i'll tell then im going to take a test after school but hange out with him insted. because if they new they woul freak!!! What do i do?

2007-12-01 16:08:55 · 18 answers · asked by this is bull shit 1

This is something that is weighing on my mind...

I've always been extremely careful and have used condoms 100% of the time with previous boyfriends. Now I've fallen in love with someone new.

He hates condoms because he will lose his excitement in the time it takes to put one on. Unfortunately, because I let us try without a few times I don't think he'll be willing or understanding about my wanting to use them again.

I am normally a very cautious person and a worrier! We are supposed to be in a monogamous relationship and he calls me his girlfriend but I worry...if he did cheat on me (and that sort of thing happens all of the time in this crazy world, right?) he could put me at risk for a serious STD...this makes me so nervous!! How do I build the trust to not worry about him cheating and exposing me to something scary?

2007-12-01 16:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

__my best friend who tells me he likes me because he told her
__his 1st oldest sister who tells me he was lying because he talked to her about it
__his 2nd oldest sister who tells me he likes me because he told her

help! srry i cant give more info,, its way complicated. :[

2007-12-01 16:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by mercedes♥ 6

Me and this one girl are "dating" this one guy.
and he keeps telling us the opposite stuff.
Like he tells the girl that he doesnt like me, but tells me he loves me. and so forth.
How can I tell who he lies to?

2007-12-01 16:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kiwi 1

What should a teenage couple (13 y/o ) do on a first date together at the mall?

Kissing on the first date..whats your opinion?
Holding hands on first date...your opinion?
Hugging when meeting each other at the mall?
Bring anything like a small gift?

Thanks

2007-12-01 15:59:42 · 9 answers · asked by A 2

In your opinion, what is the difference, if any?

2007-12-01 15:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has been talking to this guy who is 26 years old and she is 19 years old for about five months now long distance, because he is in georgia traning to be borader portrol, and she is in college in Texas where he really lives. He still doesn't call her his girlfriend, and he never introduces her as his g/f even though they have been talking exclusively. Recently over thanksgiving break, they were intimate for the first time. Since then he barely calls her, or even picks up the phone when she calls him, and he doesn't asnwer he e-mails. I'm thinking that he might be the "hit it" and "quit it" type, So what do you all think of the situation??

2007-12-01 15:48:38 · 2 answers · asked by sb41288 2

or do they take advantage of all the women throwing themselves at them. Also, if they do chase...what kinds of women do they tend to chase?

2007-12-01 15:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by gorgonamedousa 2

over the summer ive meet this girl who is 16 and over time ive grown a liking for her. thing is im graduating in 2 weeks and im coming home (go to school outa state). im questioning whether or not i should give it a shot. dont get me wrong i do like her i just have a few friends of mine saying i can do a lot better and that i may be desperate. on top of that the age thing gets to me mostly b/c last year i went out with a 17 y/o and lets just say my mom freaked about it. any advice would be appreciated

2007-12-01 15:45:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so my boyfriend and i have been 2gether for 1 year but I still have feelings for the guy I lost my virginity to. I am pretty sure he still has feelings for me to! But I love my boyfriend so much and he has proposed! What should I do?

2007-12-01 15:43:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

WE WERE IN CLASS AND OUR TEACHER WAS HAVING US VOTE FOR OUR FAVORITE TEACHER AND BEST DRESSED ( PRETTY LAME FOR HIGH SCHOOL HUH) ANYWAY THERE IS A GUY IN OUR CLASS WITH THE LAST NAME OF JOHNSON..THERE IS NOT ANY TEACHER WITH THAT LAST NAME AT OUR SCHOOL. HE SAYS I VOTE FOR MR. JOHNSON....OUR TEACHER SAID "WHO IS THIS MR. JOHNSON? I HAVE NEVER MET HIM WHO IS HE." THE BOY SAYS "OH YOU KNOW HIM HE IS SHORT AND HANDSOME AND ON THE FOOTBALL TEAM." THEN HE SAYS I DON'T KNOW HIM. THEN THE BOY SAYS OH YOU KNOW HIM VERY WELL..." THE TEACHER THEN PUTS MR. JOHNSON ON THE LIST FOR BEST DRESSED. BEST TEACHER ETC.

2007-12-01 15:41:57 · 47 answers · asked by hi whats up? 2

,he's emo and cuts him self when he makes me cry and he hates the whole world and wants to kill everyone excepte me

2007-12-01 15:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by titthangel 1

I think that is the younger person is mature enough the age balances out. There are many examples of this that has worked. Hell Hugh Hefner and all his girls lol. What do you guys think?

2007-12-01 15:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by cutiesarah0909 2

My crush's b-day is coming up. And idk if i should buy him something. I mean on of my friends but i think they were kidding of giving him a kiss under the mistleo. But his b-day is in December and idk if i should give him anything. Should i? Oh yea, he knows i like him and i'm not sure if he's expecting me to give him anything... And he might like me back... but idk... should i give him anything?

2007-12-01 15:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Sami 3

i like long hair on guys. that's my favorite thing. i really like big, brown eyes, too. really white smiles. and he has to be tall. you?

2007-12-01 15:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous