how come i cant seem to let go...?

Question

i broke up with this guy because he never talked to me no matter how much he tried to change he still was the same...its been a month now and i miss him like crazy still...every night i cry.

1)whats the deal with me?
2)what can i do to see how he feels(he's a guy who doesnt like to show emotion)?
3)His best friend started liking me immediately after we stopped goin out and my ex knows...could that have made him completely forget about me.
4)he doesnt talk to me at all!he always has to talk to the person "NEXT" to me no matter who it is!
5)HELP!!!


ANSWER ALL!

Answer 1

You won't like my answer, but you asked:

You can't seem to let go because you don't let go. He is not going to change, and your romanticizing it is only making you feel worse. You should give yourself a break, get away from him, and find someone who is willing to share their lives (not just saliva) with you. You are a smart girl who deserves better than this guy is willing to give. Respect yourself and hold out for someone who knows how great you are and will open up. There are a lot of nice guys out there, you just have to avoid the jerks until one shows up.

Dr.G

Answer 2

(1)Almost anyone who ends a love relationship will be as happy as they ever were within 3 months. Wait 2 more months.
(2) Why do u care if u broke it off? Forget it. No guy likes to show emotion...they are guys.
(3) No
(4) You broke it off, why do you care?
(5) Stay away from him.

Answer 3

1) you're still in love w/ him and can't get over it
2) talk 2 him, e-mail him, keep on trying to talk to him until he talks to you
3)maybe
4) he's probably mad about something
5)send him letters, talk to the people that are most closest to him to find out

Answer 4

It hurts cause you liked him...but I think its time to move on...he sounds like a complete asshole!!!