OK so my boyfriend and i have been 2gether for 1 year but I still have feelings for the guy I lost my virginity to. I am pretty sure he still has feelings for me to! But I love my boyfriend so much and he has proposed! What should I do?
2007-12-01 15:43:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thas only because you lost your virginity to him.....every girl feels like this.....you will get over him in time...believe me!!
2007-12-01 15:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst question how old are you? If your under the age of 18 no one should be proposing. okay well if you have unresolved feelings you should be able to be mature and talk to your boyfriend about it especially because you guys have been going out for a year.
2007-12-01 15:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say follow your heart! If you are unsure of who you love more maybe you should wait to get married later. When your ready to commit you should commit to a man that makes you blind from other man. Please just don't get married with your boyfriend if you still have feelings for your ex. Marry a man that takes your breath away and that you cannot sleep because you think so much about the wedding day.
2007-12-01 15:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by kittie_galore2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up on the brake. Ask for more time, and try to make some contact with or sort your feelings out for the other guy. Its not fair to the guy you have to enter the thing half hearted. Good Luck
2007-12-01 15:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't accept his purposal. For the simple reason, if you still have feeling for someone else then it won't work for you and it will sooner or later break you two up. So I would suggest that you think long and hard about getting married. You have to resolve your feelings for that other person. Good Luck
2007-12-01 15:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Believer In God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHM if you're having second feelings about someone who wants to spend the rest of their life with you there's something wrong. Tell your boyfriend before you break his heart. Don't do anything stupid like cheat. You owe it to your boyfriend and yourself. Make sure your not chasing some fantasy either and loose the love of your life.
2007-12-01 15:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people never get over their first loves. Better decide before you answer the proposal, and don't string the two guys along.
2007-12-01 15:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-01 15:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jake K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you i would not get married if you don't think you really love this guy ! You better really think hard cuz anyone can get married for all the wrong reasons. But to get a divorce it cost alot more just think about it before you do it !
2007-12-01 15:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u're always gonna have the special place for the person u lost ur virginity too. its biological! no joke! it happens to the best of us..unfortunately. if this new guy is all u have ever wanted and respects and cherishes u--- dont let biology get in the way of u and ur new guy.
u probably dont love ur 1st...just fatuation
2007-12-01 15:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to like someone a bit, even when you're with someone you love, but unless you want to lose the guy you're with, just leave it at that and focus on the guy you're with.
2007-12-01 15:47:26 · answer #11 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋