Singles & Dating - 16 November 2007

I'm 23 & when I moved in with my bf I found out some stuff about him that was... interesting?. I found out he was looking at porn (vids&photos) everyday on mulitple websites. I confronted him about it and he said that he didn't have a problem but he would tone it down a bit for me. I understand he's a guy and is going to do guy things, but I thought every single day was a bit much! It stopped for a bit, then started back up & i just let it go.

Recently, I started a new job and it's been very demanding. I told him last month that I really didn't want to have sex all that much - I'm not on the pill, and I really am not ready to get pregnant right now. We still are intimate in other ways. Well, he is still looking at porn everyday, but i also found websites for strip clubs in our city. He admitted to going to a strip club by himself while i was sleeping- and was planning on doing it again. This isn't the first time he's gone to a strip club by himself. I'm kinda freaked out!

2007-11-16 14:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 14:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What makes the difference between a "keeper" and a loser?

2007-11-16 14:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Silva 6

ok so theres this guy i have liked for a looooooooooong time and he likes me back. but as soon as i figured out he liked me i stoped likeing him i think..... im not sure does anyone have a logical explanation like oh this is normal your just blah blah blah please help im sooooo confused........

2007-11-16 14:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by jkgirl<3 2

Ok so i like this guy who i used to sit next to last year he was really sweet and nice but he was kinda punk i am not like puttin us in different social groups but i am kinda preppy well this year he doen't talk to me anymore and i can't tell if he liks me or not he does some little thigs that makes me think he likes me but than he just blcks me out !!! i am not the type of girl who gets asked out or asks someboby out but i really like this guy he can sing, he is smart , and really cute !! HELP !!

2007-11-16 14:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by Alejandra C 2

It seems to me that younger girls, usually around the ages of 14-17 are more attracted to older guys around the ages of 18-24. Is there a certain reason for this, or is it a fluke?

2007-11-16 14:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by Casey Pieper 2

Their self image is so distorted, they can only see themselves as a monster.

Also, if a woman does show any kind of interest in me, I immediately think either she is lying or there is something wrong with her.

2007-11-16 14:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by Zardoz 3

He said "maybe" with a "=]" in a flirtatious manner and has been flirting with me some?

what are the chances of him liking me?

2007-11-16 14:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by ceecee 1

2007-11-16 14:05:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 14:03:06 · 11 answers · asked by samantha 5

i think this guy is flirting with me, but im not sure.

2007-11-16 14:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 13:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by anonyn55 2

What are some good chatrooms for ppl in new zealand? besides yahoo!

2007-11-16 13:54:20 · 4 answers · asked by music_junkie_nz 1

I had been drink one night and I decided to call this girl up that I have started to have feelings for. I know that she has a bf but she flirts with me and even others can tell by the way we are around eachother that we like eachother. But that night we started to talk and in the middle of the conversation she tells me this friend of hers and then gave me his last name and continued on with the conversation. The friend she was talking about was her bf. Why would she call him a friend and use his last name? Was it because I had been drinking and she didn't want me to get mad about her talking about her boyfriend or does she have something else on her mind?

2007-11-16 13:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by myfav1 5

what gives people confidence to approach girls and make them know they are going to get with those girls?

2007-11-16 13:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by Obama's GF's BF 1

i need some emotional help!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 13:51:26 · 16 answers · asked by Ronnie♥ 2

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. Very much in love although we have both done unnecessary things that shouldn't have been done. He's been acting like our relationship doesn't matter here lately. I want to leave him alone but we have a child together and I'm so in love. But he has just been getting to me lately and it just kinda makes it easier for me to say we're over...but he always comes back and tries to make it better and he does for a while. I truly believe that it'll take another, better man coming along for me to get over him. Should I leave him or should I work it out?

2007-11-16 13:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm breaking out of isolation tonight. I need the best advice. Ok playas welcomed too.

2007-11-16 13:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by William Z 4

Without an official opinion.

2007-11-16 13:45:41 · 18 answers · asked by Dirt E. Deeds 3

2007-11-16 13:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by WTF !!!!!!! 4

2007-11-16 13:40:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 13:39:13 · 32 answers · asked by kiaira r 1

OKAY. SO THERE IS THIS BOY AND IVE LIKED HIM FOR ABOUT 3 WEEKS.....AND I TOLD HIM I LIKE HIM AND HE SAID HE HAD BEEN PUT IN THIS POSITION ALOT....AND HE SAID HE DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELASHIONSHIP....AND WE CAN STILL TALK ON THE PHONE AND HE WOULD CALL ME TOMORROW....WHATS NEXT????

2007-11-16 13:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

but if a man has a normal jaw normal lips and nose but a long head you hate if he comes anywhere close to you

2007-11-16 13:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by mrellis08 1

I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much younger. Yet we agreed to go on and there was just something about him, we went out two more days and I really liked him as he was so real with me. He wasn't trying to impress me or anything like that. That week I didn't call him though he did giving him time to miss me so we were to go out the weekend but other plans came up and we didnt make it, well It's over a week now and I haven't heard from him. The last time was when I called him about 5days ago and he was in a meeting, he said he would call me back but I haven't heard from him. The truth is that I am a very attractive young lady so many men approach me everyday but he is the one on my mind. I am so sad and worried why he hasn't called me. What could be wrong?

2007-11-16 13:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by Val 1

The child was unplanned due to irresponsibility and being intimate a few times. They were never intimate after her getting pregnant. They now very rarely speak (communication is done through child's grandmother) and visitation was done separately after child was born. He provides for his child and spends as much quality time as he can with her. Child just turned 4. Is it possible that he could be lying about not being in a relationship with her? Keep in mind that I have been with this man for 8yrs. split once for 3yrs. I was in another serious relationship. I know it happens but I'm not sure if two people can have a child together and not have feelings for each other like he says. Maybe it's my gullibility. He has stated countless times that he was clear and concise with her since it was a mistake and that they were never in a relationship. What do you think?

2007-11-16 13:32:24 · 2 answers · asked by ksolis5 3

Why is that on msn and facebook all these guys can talk to me and flurt .. but in person they act like they never said the things they said .. ??

2007-11-16 13:31:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it they think they look cute? Would they look nicer in more conservative clothes? Why do they feel they have to keep up with younger competitors?

2007-11-16 13:27:39 · 78 answers · asked by Janina 1

2007-11-16 13:22:33 · 8 answers · asked by sweetcynthiansc 2

Theres a guy that i know that likes me.....But i already have a boyfriend....And i LOVE him too.....And idk what to do.....

2007-11-16 13:16:10 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous