Singles & Dating - 17 September 2007

I was hanging out in Walmart with my sister and two of her friends, and one of her friends kept walking up and standing so close that our sides were touching. I did not pull away and neither did she. It happened twice. What does it mean?

2007-09-17 07:43:30 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

What type of conversations should you have witha guy you've been dating for three months? Not that we don't talk about a lot of things. Just wanted to know is this a point where we should be discussing future needs and wants or just keeping it casual. Although the relationship is more than casual.

2007-09-17 07:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by Heaven26 3

I'm 25, he's 28. My EX broke up with me 3 months ago after being boyfriend+boyfriend for 2 years.
I told him he had good timing because I was so busy starting up my business, I had too many things on my head to think about it that much.
We broke up, but we still see each everyday. He's been dating someone, I've been dating someone, we have friendly-sex from time to time. But I have too many things on my mind to worry what's the deal between us.
My business is going well, but I'm still 3 months away from recovering from my investment.
My EX makes good money, and he offered to loan me money last week, so I took it.
I will be able to pay him back in 1 month, but I'm going through a hard time.
My birthday is next week, my EX told me to take the loan as gift for my birthday.

I told him NO, because it's too much money to be a birthday gift.

He told me to think about it, I know that's not too much money for him, but still:

Should I take the loan as a gift?

2007-09-17 07:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

No music (since many of you told me you can't live w/o music) or no sex.

For 2 weeks.....

2007-09-17 07:40:13 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6

about 7 months ago he dated this girl for about a month and a half but they were friends for 1 1/2 years before they dated,he loved her to death and he never got over her (he told me this before we started going out) he lost his virginity to this girl. well after 7 months of them not talking or coming in contact. they started talking two days ago. now all he ever talks about is her (he talked about her before but not as much and i didnt care then because they didnt talk at all) well he went over her house for the last two days, he ever DITCHED me for her yesterday. she is single. she broke up with him back in january because she was moving but now she came back after 7 months of living 2 hours away. now she lives here again. i asked him if he was cheating on me with her he said ''no'' and when i tried to kiss him or hug him ever since he started talking to her he wont do anything with me at all. he just pulls away. he just totally changed since she came back...

2007-09-17 07:37:43 · 46 answers · asked by Erikka 2

Ok, so I am a 20 year old american phillipino girl. Im not trying to sound vain or conceded here but only to help with my case but Im not an ugly girl. I am very athletic and have been told I have very pretty eyes and a smile. For the past year I have had to worst luck with guys! For instance I was introduced to this guy from a good friend of my parents. We hit it off exchanged numbers and later hung out that night. Nothing happened we kissed but that was it BUT I tried to talk to him 2 days ago and no reply? I have a feeling I wont hear from him again. I DONT UNDERSTAND! I dont come on too strong I know that but im not a dud or really shy. This has happened with the past 3 or 4 guys I have been introduced to!? Why do guys do this!?

2007-09-17 07:29:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this male friend who is so sweet,I think if I wasn't in a realatesionship I would be interested in him,I'm so stuck cause I really like him, Or maybe it's a setup just to leave my man. What should I do.

2007-09-17 07:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK now I have a different problem and you are probably thinking I am crazy but well I am not that old and have not really had a girlfriend so ya

Anyway

She texted me back just before saying she didnt reply because she was having her tea (i in the UK, dinner for those of you in the US) and I went

Didnt know you like footie that rocks

and she replied

I am watching it with my dad, my sister and 2 bros but if you want ....... um

so what is that supposed to mean

PS:
I know I am asking lots of questions about this girl but well dont have a lot of experiance and I dont want to mess this up cos it seems we like each other

2007-09-17 07:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

in college the black guys walk right up to all the lightskin girls who are skinny.

where does that leave a black woman like me who is darkskin with a curvy body? i feel inferior and i can't get a date

2007-09-17 07:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it's chivalrous for the guy to pay every single time. However, shouldn't the female at least offer every once in a while?

What if the guy doesn't have money to spend like THAT all the time?

I read this chain letter once on myspace that said girls use the money they don't spend on dates for presents for the guy. Is this true?

-more questions added as they come up.

2007-09-17 06:59:15 · 22 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

Ok this is really random I kno! But just wonderin if anyone else likes really rough sex? I kno people are into all sorts of random **** but sometimes I wonder that its not quite right for me to like being scratched and bitten etc whilst having sex. The other day i was in the park wiv my new fella and he put his hands on my throat wiv quite a hard force but i strangly liked it.....

Now im worried that im sum kinda freak! I like to be spanked and love role play etc....I'm always the submissive one...I guess I like to be dominated....thats not totally abnoamal is it??

Also just wondering...why is it that i like it? Where do sexual fantasies come from? Psychologically speaking....

2007-09-17 06:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by xjuicyxfruityx 2

crush on someone and they have no idea that you like them?
for the record, i do♥

2007-09-17 06:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Charmed One♥ 7

There is a small resturant /pub that I go to once a week with my friends. Everytime we are there, there is an older guy there that stares at me CONSTANTLY! I have chosen to simply ignore it. He then started talking to me as I pass by to the restroom. All of which is comments that show he is watching me while i'm there. Now, this past weekend, he took my picture on his cell phone. I told him that was illegal and he stated "not in Illinois". The fact that he even knows that is frightening to me. I asked him to delete it, he refused and said he was going to post it on his company website!! I then made it a point for him to see my boyfriend and I together and being affectionate. Although, i'm sure he knows exactly who he is. My boyfriend even pointed out that he thinks this guy is obsessed with me. He may be harmless, but makes me VERY uncomfortable. What course of action can I take without causing additional problems? Taking my picture was the last straw for me!

2007-09-17 06:36:26 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa O 1

If he likes me but doesn't know I have a boyfriend?

He's in my college classes and he's very nice and kind of flirty, there's never been a time that i could just come out and say "i have a boyfriend" because he's never hit on me, but if he finds out i do have a boyfriend will he still be cool around me? Or will it be strange for him... guys are not like girls so i have no idea.

2007-09-17 06:22:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22yrs old and my b/f and I have been together, as an actual couple, for a few months...and have known each other for over a year. He wants to move in with me because he "wants structure in his life." I don't feel like he's in love with me, because he doesn't seem to make me a priority in his life. We both lead busy lives, but he always just seems he rather being doing something else, then be with me. He says that i'm "insecure, and just used to guys giving me a lot of attention." I don't think that's completely true, I just don't think he likes me all that much! He's definitely not in love with me, and I don't think I am with him either. I'm not sure what we're doing. I really like him, I care for him, and I GIVE a lot to give in regards to our relationship. He always just dissapoints me and leaves me hanging. I hate feeling this way. I've had many other...BETTER boyfriends than him. We don't even go on dates together. He'd rather get high. Help! What should I do?!

2007-09-17 06:16:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna know were to touch a boy to get them turned on. like wat turns them on at a body part. like,arm,neck...and were can u touch them at. not there penis okay!!!but what????

2007-09-17 06:09:54 · 21 answers · asked by CuteLeo 3

he broke up with me and just wants to be friends what dose that mean ?

2007-09-17 06:03:32 · 3 answers · asked by girlsatmansfieldhigh07 1

what the heck does that mean? it was used in a conversation about how guys dont always say what they're feeling, but that doesnt mean they dont feel it...

so what does "the most imporant thing with guys is what they DONT say" mean?

2007-09-17 05:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by lilmamaOH 3

I'm single, so basically I'm looking for a scent thats hot among single ladies. No offence to all the wives out there... but my thinking is that you would all prefer a more reserved scent for your man, and one that isn't going to excite other ladies too much... or, maybe its quite the opposite?... in which case feel free... Oh and any links to the results of a poll for 'women's favourite men's scents', perhaps in a women's mag, would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-17 05:52:17 · 25 answers · asked by leon 3

2007-09-17 05:47:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 05:46:24 · 18 answers · asked by rakesh s 1

2007-09-17 05:36:49 · 29 answers · asked by kb772003 1

I mean we guys get so extremely sick of this. For one it's a dream and desire and second, it's only a question. If you are so greedy that you can't even share me with another woman than maybe I need to find other women. Right?

2007-09-17 05:29:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many ladies are in the house
How many ladies are in the house
Without a spouse
Something in your blouse
Has got me feeling so aroused!

What do you think?

2007-09-17 05:22:37 · 49 answers · asked by Stu 1

It seems I meet some very interesting men and it turns out they are married. I met a very handsome man when I was out with my girlfriends this weekend. We had some drinks together and a few dances. He was just absolutely beautiful, I mean just beautiful. He treated me with respect and everything. I was really ready to go out with him on a date, except for one huge thing.......he is married. He is from Puerto Rico and married. Did I mention he was married. I mean why does this happen. He won't be going back home for 6 months, and now that I think about it he was probably just looking for some fun since he was so far from home. I mean I live in the US so he is like 2000 miles from home. Just need some imput. Thanks guys.

2007-09-17 05:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looks or personality?

I say personality wins every time

2007-09-17 05:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 05:15:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

the pill! I would see her take it on a daily basis, until i seen her get her refill at the liquor store... They were Tic Tacs! i feel betrayed so today i am going to put laxatives in her chocolate cake to play a nasty trick on her......... any other suggestions?

2007-09-17 05:15:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF has been acting distant the last few days I asked him if something was wrong and he said as he told me all along he doesnt think he is ready for a relationship yet and this is all he has for now and he knows he is hurting me. He has been honest with me from the beginning he got out of a 2yr relationship not too long ago and she hurt him pretty bad and now he is scared to go down that road again. We have been together about 3 months now, I love him and he tells me he loves me but its just hard for him. Should I be selfless and let him go as much is hurts? I guess if its meant to be it will be or should i stay in the background hoping one day he will want something serious with me? I know if I continue to speak to him I will never get over him.

2007-09-17 05:14:48 · 3 answers · asked by stillhot28 2

Do guys just go out straight away and pull other girls to try and get over their exes or does it just mean that they never though much of their ex in the first place, especially when they've been together for ages and she's had a miscarriage

2007-09-17 05:11:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous