I'm 22yrs old and my b/f and I have been together, as an actual couple, for a few months...and have known each other for over a year. He wants to move in with me because he "wants structure in his life." I don't feel like he's in love with me, because he doesn't seem to make me a priority in his life. We both lead busy lives, but he always just seems he rather being doing something else, then be with me. He says that i'm "insecure, and just used to guys giving me a lot of attention." I don't think that's completely true, I just don't think he likes me all that much! He's definitely not in love with me, and I don't think I am with him either. I'm not sure what we're doing. I really like him, I care for him, and I GIVE a lot to give in regards to our relationship. He always just dissapoints me and leaves me hanging. I hate feeling this way. I've had many other...BETTER boyfriends than him. We don't even go on dates together. He'd rather get high. Help! What should I do?!
2007-09-17 06:16:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know the answer... dumpity dump dump dump...
No need to tolerate someone who is passive, lazy and not investing an ounce (except the wrong kind) into the relationship.
2007-09-17 06:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please get rid of him. He's no good. you're young you can find someone else better and that will live up to your standards!
2007-09-17 13:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by ashcan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋