It seems I meet some very interesting men and it turns out they are married. I met a very handsome man when I was out with my girlfriends this weekend. We had some drinks together and a few dances. He was just absolutely beautiful, I mean just beautiful. He treated me with respect and everything. I was really ready to go out with him on a date, except for one huge thing.......he is married. He is from Puerto Rico and married. Did I mention he was married. I mean why does this happen. He won't be going back home for 6 months, and now that I think about it he was probably just looking for some fun since he was so far from home. I mean I live in the US so he is like 2000 miles from home. Just need some imput. Thanks guys.
2007-09-17 05:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens to you because you are attracted to bad situations. Figure yourself out and the pieces will fall into place.
2007-09-17 05:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by pinchhazard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but men think only about a good time. I dont know how you would really prevent this because you cant make them tell you the truth. Why dont you try to date local or have your gal pals find you a date that's not married. The bad thing is that we think all the good ones are taken. Good luck and I hope you find someone
2007-09-17 12:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by brandy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just let it go. I know what you mean and how you feel. That happens to me all the time. Just wait because the men of your dreams might be around the corner. I know it hurts but just think about it- if he was ready to cheat on you on his wife, then he might cheat on you with somebody else as well. Just let it go and go out there and have fun. You are better than that. or honestly think about it this way: he's NOT good enough for you.
2007-09-17 12:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Guesswho? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks. Been there. If he is playing around like that here, he is probably like that back home. Doesn't say much about the type of person he is. Like you mentioned....he is married. Sounds like he is pretty good at impressing women....maybe he has had a lot of practice....
2007-09-17 12:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married! Why would you want to be with a cheater? That what he will be if he dated you. Everyone deserves a faithful person in their life. Try to find someone single. I'm sorry.
2007-09-17 12:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but i would find someone else if anything go to a smaller farm town ussualy there is some guys who are sweet and single
2007-09-17 12:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by cold skiing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you looking to have some fun or are you looking to take the moral high ground. i dont think we can answer that for you but who knows mabye the next comment will claim to know whats best for you
2007-09-17 12:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww , its like he just used u . but on the other hand , if u like spending time with him , then carry on . If You are looking at something long term , say no right NOW .
2007-09-17 12:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are dogs. Ok... SOME guys. If the opportunity is there for them to mess around they will. It's not your fault. They should be ashamed of themselves.
2007-09-17 12:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you and need your company
2007-09-17 12:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋