what the heck does that mean? it was used in a conversation about how guys dont always say what they're feeling, but that doesnt mean they dont feel it...
so what does "the most imporant thing with guys is what they DONT say" mean?
2007-09-17 05:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by lilmamaOH 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i'd never heard of that theory...i see both sides
2007-09-17 06:05:58 · update #1
It means "listen between the lines" (much like reading between the lines).
Most guys will not come right out and tell you something - because we have this "need to take care of it myself" attitude - but if you are close enough to know the guy, he won't need to say what he needs - you'll be able to tell.
It is no different than when asked, a woman responds "Nothing's wrong"...when you know that there is.
2007-09-17 06:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironically enough for being the least emotional of the two genders men have a tendency to put out the majority of the unspoken hints in a relationship no matter how subtle they may be. Look into how a guy acts and what signals he throws out instead of what he says.
2007-09-17 06:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jeebus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought that it was just girls who always drop hints instead of saying what they really mean, not guys.
Just because guy are constantly obsessing about, and over analyzing like girls do, every trivial detail of what they are feeling at every single moment doesn't mean that we don't have feelings.
2007-09-17 06:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys hold in feelings, some don't
I can see it meaning you need to read a guys body language
2007-09-17 06:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's garabge...real men handle their business and aren't afraid to express themselves...it might take a little time to figure it out, but a real man never leaves anything unsaid if it's worth saying...but a caution...most of the world doesn't work this way...so don't expect everyone to agree with this
2007-09-17 06:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like it whilst a woman smiles at me, and to be a ability gf she might desire to comprehend me and be supportive, easy and would not be afraid to coach her emotion and share her innovations with me... additionally having something in easy could help because of the fact we could have what to "hook on" meaning we could have something to chat approximately as an beginning verbal substitute
2017-01-02 07:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by bremme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont agree with that
listen to what we say and ask us if you want to know. were pretty straight forward if we have genuine feeling for you. if your dealing with a player you may have to ask someone else though
2007-09-17 06:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by a s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋