Do guys just go out straight away and pull other girls to try and get over their exes or does it just mean that they never though much of their ex in the first place, especially when they've been together for ages and she's had a miscarriage
2007-09-17 05:11:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all. It is just his way of dealing with the breakup. It truly does not mean he never cared about his ex.
2007-09-17 05:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't really mean anything. It could be because he want to forget you and use it as a rebound girl, or never care about you,or he really stop loving you that's why you 2 broke up or he wanted to prove if he can get over you, or was lucky enought to find great girl after 1 day. It can mean so many things that only he can tell.
But, to be honest, a relationship usually ends a long time after love really does. So Just because he move over quickly it doesn't mean that never love you.
It only means that the love he felt ended and only you two can know when, probably after the miscarriage the relationship fall apart, (the pain of a lost can hurt a relationship and more if one of the parts can't get over it while the other want to forget it), and love ended. Just try to move over too, there's a lot of better things that can be waiting for you, and you are probably missing them because you still have feeling on the past. Try to be happy and never cry over a guy, cry over the baby you lost and then forget it and live, life still have plenty of things for you.
Good luck!
2007-09-17 05:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by California 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think that if a guy goes and kisses a girl a day after he breaks up with you it means that he didn't like you. He may be using that girl to make him feel better about losing you. We often look for the affection of another person after a break up because it's something that helps keep our mind off of our last boy/girlfriend. It doesn't always mean that we did not love the person were just with, it just may be a means to try to get over the last person we were with. In some cases, if a person does that then they might not care for their last boy/girlfriend but not every case is like that. Just move on with your life and don't let the things he is doing now affect you. Your relationship with him is over so don't let him stress you out any longer.
2007-09-17 05:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was trying to make you jealous because he still loves you. Sometimes men have really weird ways of trying to win a woman back. You say you had been together for a long time, so I think he does care about you. No one on here can give you a definite answer about his feelings though. You can only find out from himself.
I'm sorry about your miscarriage and hope you are ok.
All the best, Eudora
2007-09-17 05:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eudora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many guys are insecure and do go right out and get a new girl, but chances are this other girl was in the picture a while back only u did not know it. i don't know if they loved the person when the relationship was new, they must have, but they are selfish and immature and many do leave whenever problems come and they can't handle it. they do seem to get over the past alot easier than a woman does, or could it be that men hide their emotions, because men are taught from an early age to be strong and not to show any emotion.
2007-09-17 05:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it probably means the other girl is glad you're finally out of the picture. Some if not most guys don't get as emotionally attached over their girlfriends as girls do for boys. You're an EX and he's moving on. You should do the same and stop worrying about what he's doing with other girls. That's sad.
2007-09-17 05:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nessasarily, he could have been going through a lot of pain because of the breakup and didn't know how to deal with it. He may have been looking for some sort of compassion from someone and got carried away. How do you know he kissed someone else? Did some girl tell you that or did he? Maybe he was trying to get you jelous. Love is weird. Men are weird. Good luck.
2007-09-17 05:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the break up ended in a bad way then the guy was probably just emotional and taking out his anger on you by trying to do something to hurt you the only way he knows how, by being with someone else. Or if he was upset he maybe subconsciously wanted to uplift his ego by showing himself that he can still get a girl....then on the other hand he could have just been playing you, since i don't know the guy i could never say for sure
2007-09-17 05:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, are you reliving my life? ha were very much so alike in this case
i was with my boyfriend for 4 years.
we grew up togther. ive known him all my life
since i was 9 months old
liked him since i was 7 and finally
started dating him when i was 13
now im 17 and a senior.
and lets jusst say you leanr alot on the road to growing up
we dated for 4 years
but it wasnt anything like a little kid relationship
we were together day and night
with each other all the time
we had sex, we went out, we both knew each others families.
all that good stuff..ends up he lied to me about something stupid. promised me on everything over the last 4 years he was telling me the truth. and he wasnt..
so i broke it off
one of the hardest things iver ever done.
but it needed to be done
if the guy your talking about moved on
dont go back to him
let him keep walking away
and kissing who he wants
you dont need him
as much as u might think and tell your self you do
you dont..i did the same thing
and now 9 months later im dating an amazing guy
with much better qualitys and wouldnt trade it for anything
just give it time...you gotta let go of stuff thats not right
to get something that is...
-Nikky
2007-09-17 05:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A miscarriage has nothing to do with him kissing someone else. It's very possible that since you were together for ages that the magic stopped a long time ago. Are you married to this guy? No--it does not mean that he 'never' cared about you--but it could indicate that he is relieved to be done with this relationship--OR it could be that he is already rebounding.
2007-09-17 05:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-17 03:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋