Singles & Dating - 17 September 2007

i am almost 6 months pregnant and i have been with my baby father for 4 years and it seems like everything is goin wrong but he is happy about the baby but it doesn't seem like he is ready to give the streets up. like he doesn't really call me anymore like to see if i am ok but he be with his friends more than he be with me and it wasn't like that before i am 18 and i know the responsibilities of raising a child but i am just tires of feelin like i am alone so over the weekend i went to his house and packed all of my stuff that i had over in his house and took it to my mother's house. i am thinkin of movin to florida before i give birth because i feel like when i have the baby it is all going to be the same. im not the person that likes to be treated one way and then another. he says that he wants to be around when the baby is born. i just need some advice on wat to do. i tried talkin to some many times n it is to the point that im tired of talkin thats y i packed my stuff and left.

2007-09-17 09:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by janet h 1

This girls name is Lindsay. Her and I have been friends for about, I would say a year. Not best friends, but her locker is right next to mine, and we talk some in gym and other places if we want to. The thing is, I am super shy when it comes to talking to pretty girls, and I get shy around her. Another thing is she talks to alot of guys, so I dont know if she is after somebody else, and if she is, I dont want to intrued on it. I know if I want to start dating somebody, I should talk to them alot, but I feel weird talking to her, since she talks to so many guys. After school today, she was sitting next to a pillar and nobody else was there, I was going to walk to there, but she got up and playfully tapped my leg with her foot and said "Hey". I striked up a conversation about what time she got on the suddle run in gym class. Another thing I notice about her, is that she always looks at me at lunch and at gym, I dont know if that would mean anything special. Please help, thanks in advance

2007-09-17 09:47:45 · 1 answers · asked by Spike 2

the guy i like is always staring at me.

we're both sophomores, im shy and hes extremely shy. im pretty sure he knows i like him cause my friends blabbed it out to his friend, haha soooooo yeahh anyways....

today in class when i was going back to my seat from throwing something away, he was staring at me while i was walking back to my seat. AND he was staring at me when i was going back to my seat after coming back form the bathroom.


ALSO, we had a dance on friday and he was there and so was i and he kept staring at me all night and kept walking past me. idk do you think he likes me or what?

what should i do, i know i should talk to him but its not that easy idk what he thinks, guys are just REALLY hard to read espcially him cause shy.................. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-17 09:45:28 · 27 answers · asked by umm hey 1

im 13 and ive been attracted to boys basically my whole life.
well for a few months now, ive been worrying constantly about this answer i saw on here. It said " sometimes you force yourself to like boys when you dont" and thats when it started me thinking "have i been covering up for liking girls?" or " am i hiding the fact i like girls just because i care what others think?" I really do NOT wanna be a lesbian. .and like i dont like see myself looking for guys anymore. I used to be like "wow hes cute" ( and yes i still do but it feels like im lieing to myself ) i do say shes pretty. but not really in a attracted sort of way.i wish i could just go back to when i didnt worry about this or think about it. because i really dont want to be a lesbian.
anything to help me go back to normal? or is this like a phase?and i think like worrying about will actualyl make it worse. and make me like girls.like when i used to talk to guys id be all nervous. and now its like im not so excited anymore

2007-09-17 09:44:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive never seen an asian male and a black female ever date before. Of course Ive seen black males date asian women before. But never have I seen asian male date black women. I wonder why is that. I know other races date but never this race why is that u suppose

2007-09-17 09:38:54 · 22 answers · asked by veg4life 3

or would you make the sure assumption she's mad and avoid at all costs,do you admire slightly off centre and bizarre women?

2007-09-17 09:33:59 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a freshman in high school, and my girlfriend got voted to be a representative for the homecoming court by popular vote.

This means she has to be escorted to a pep rally, and onto the football field by a freshman football player.

This really makes me mad, because I really dont want her being escorted by any other guys, because I trust her, but I dont trust other guys with her.

I dont think that shes asked if she can be escorted by me instead, because I really dont think they would force her to be escorted by a football player and Im just wondering if I should have a right to be mad.

Get back to me.

2007-09-17 09:30:33 · 20 answers · asked by - The Aber Cadaver 1

My boyfriend has jsut admitted he likes other girls and keeps flirting with a freshman at my school just last year he cheated on me in the same manner with a freshman and i don't want to go through the same thing should i let him continue flirting b/c he won't stop or break it off wtih him

2007-09-17 09:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky 1

My boyfriend and I hooked up a month and some days ago before he went back to college, but my period for this month still hasnt came yet...I was wondering if you still had the chance of being pregnant if your period came the day after intercoarse, but was late the next time around??..

2007-09-17 09:20:14 · 20 answers · asked by alwayz_smilin_8012 2

I am currently talking to my bestfriend's brother. I know that it won't be anything serious, but I enjoy spending time with him. He may have alterior motives, but he's been pretty genuine so far. The problem my friends all judge me because it's supposedly wrong for me to be talking to him. My question is, is it really wrong to hook up with your friend's brother even though you share an attraction, or is it just a personal thing where some people say its a NO NO and others its OKay?

2007-09-17 09:16:19 · 38 answers · asked by sw3etns3xy 1

because i find that when i crush on ppl i find it hard 2 flow the way i normally do and its so weird for me cos im such a socalite. i love making friends and acquaintances so its weird. Help any ideas how to keep my cool?

2007-09-17 09:10:43 · 1 answers · asked by *PYT* 2

I broke up with my boyfriend cuz we had a lot of problem and we used to argue a lot.So I told him that everything was over I expected at least from that he would tell me to try to fix the relationship and he didnt he said that he does not have to ask for love to no body.hes extremely hard when it comes to demostrate his feelingd so I wanted to come back with him and he does not want to so Now he knew that am talking with someone else and hes really mad.I just dont understand he does not want to be with me anymore and Not even let me to move on?help me to understand this?

2007-09-17 09:08:50 · 1 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2

Do you like Asian girls to be submissive and let you do all the talking and asking? Or do you like it when Asian girls make the first move?

2007-09-17 09:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica B 1

I'm from Switzerland, but moved to southern France four years ago to go to college. 2 years ago, i met this guy in Geneva by mutual friends, and we got along instantly.
All of our friends said we were meant for each other, and i knew he had feelings for me, but i was kind of seeing somebody and didn't like too much the idea of a long-distance relationship as i was in france for most part of the year.
A few months ago, i've begun to have feelings for him that got really strong, but i didnt know if he was still interested, and i'm way too shy to say anything anyway.
The problem is that he's leaving in 2 days to spend 9 months in australia.. we planned to have coffee at his place tomorrow. Do you think i should tell him what i feel ? or would it be useless now that he's leaving ?
How should I tell him ?

2007-09-17 09:03:38 · 1 answers · asked by sandrynn 1

I dont understand, I mean, even sometimes when around my freinds ( girlfreinds just freinds ) its like sometimes I can't help but imagine sometimes what it would be like to... you know...with them.. Well, I heard that there are some that do that too. But its like I try to block it out and think of something else. But the thing is I love the naked female body, its like I lust it, but not in a perverted way, though some women would put it that way, I mean, it'd make my day to just to run my hands on one from time to time. I have a girlfreind and she's aware of it. I even told her that its ok that she fantisizes of being with certain men she is attracted to. I love her and care for her very much but its like I just can't help feel this way. She isnt a very sensual person though and I am, kinda weird coming from a guy though. Its like if being with a different women is almost an energizing or refreshing event for me. I know it has to be wrong and I feel guilty about it though.

2007-09-17 09:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by Beefcake 2

Okay so me and my girls have this big issue going on right now with let's just say "a man's private part"!!LOL!! One of my friends dated a guy who had an "ant eater"!! you guys know what this right? not snipped!!.... and we all disagree about it being disgusting. I think personally it's disgusting and the "army helmets" are way better and cleaner. So now we have caused another one of our friends to not date this great guy because he has an "ant eater"!! she says she can't because we have all put this gross image in her head....I'm trying to convince her that it's not that big of a deal....but ladies is it???LOL!!!

2007-09-17 09:01:14 · 19 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2

So there's this guy.
I don't know him very well, but I often catch him staring at me... Like, sometimes I'll turn around to do something and briefly meet his gaze. At one point, I thought he had stopped, but the next day I "caught" him again. He's nice to me and has started a conversation with me before... However, he has a SO...
Does it sound like this guy likes me?
(and don't think I'm going to go after him or anything, I don't like him like that. I'm not going to steal him away. haha I just wanted opinions)

2007-09-17 09:01:11 · 3 answers · asked by No O 3

I am 21 years old, I have been with my g/f for almost 2 years now and about a month ago I gave her a promise ring. Well a couple days ago she gave me one too. I was very shocked mostly because I didn't even know they made them for men. Actually I am still not sure because it just looks like a wedding ring to me. Anyways I love this girl with all my heart but I feel very uncomfortable wearing it. I can't put my finger on the exact reason but I’m sure it has a little to do with my masculinity. When I gave her, her ring she showed everybody right away and I have hid mine from all my friends because I feel embarrassed to wear it. I have always been 100% honest with this girl but I am just so afraid that it will make her feel bad if I tell her the truth. The last thing i want to do is hurt her feelings. Can someone please give me some advice?

2007-09-17 08:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by stretch 2

this astrologer predicts well...but the thing is that up to now never had a single boyfriend in my life...then how is this possible. I am 21 yrs old

2007-09-17 08:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica R 1

Do guys like it when girls tease them??

2007-09-17 08:37:51 · 19 answers · asked by sogie 1

when you 1st see a girl what do you look at first.
and what would class as attractive for a girl.

2007-09-17 08:28:25 · 48 answers · asked by Chantelle T 1

Today my guy friend & I were about to go bike riding when his little brother asked if he could come to. My guy friend looked annoyed and when his mom came outside he made a really lame exuse for why his little brother shouldn't come: "he's gonna get hit by a car", although he already almost did & he explained that to his mom. but still, to me, that exuse just seemed a little lame. His brother ended up not going cuz his mom didn't want him to anyway. My friend usually looks kind of tense around me & is rather quiet, until we start laughing or after a while when he gets more comfortable I guess. He'll talk. He even asked me how being a freshman was. A lot of times, he'll say "let's go to your room". When we do, he sits on my bed and asks what I wanna do usually, or sometimes just walks around and looks at random stuff in my room. He never flirts or asks personal questions tho. by the way, he's 13. I'm 14.

2007-09-17 08:20:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

After you find out an ex is playing with your heart or acting like a whore. Do you speak your mind in a text or message or do you let it go and forget about them?

really want to call her out.

2007-09-17 08:20:39 · 23 answers · asked by bhackle2 3

ok,
i really really likED this guy but today in gym he basicelly through a hissy fit b/c the teacher wasn't paying attention so he gave me another hit (we were playing softball) well i was smiling b/c it was 2 outs and i got another try well b/c of that he starting saying that there's no way i'll get a run now and i've playted softball and track for 5 years so i could have easily got a homerun but i let them win b/c it really was cheating but know i apousoultelly hate this guy b/c he's so stucked up when we play sports in gym.

what do i do?
thanks!

2007-09-17 08:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, there is no one that I really like or think is cute anymore. Like, any guys I think of just don't seem cute. Is that normal, I know I should like boys at my age, (13) but I just can't think of any cute guys, and I just don't like boys anymore. I don't like girls either, I'm not lesbian, but what does it mean?

2007-09-17 08:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think she looks bad, but she claims it's uncomfrtable. Does anyone think a 34DD cup is too big?

2007-09-17 08:17:48 · 7 answers · asked by delina_m 6

Any suggestions will be welcome and will help me a lot. Anything at all.

2007-09-17 07:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Storm6996 1

I have a friend and she has started seeing this man.... He tells her how much he likes her and wants to see her. But then never calls her. Do you think he is trying to give her the brush off or what?

2007-09-17 07:59:08 · 25 answers · asked by funnybird34 2

2007-09-17 07:55:40 · 1 answers · asked by kb772003 1

We're in our twenties, but wanna keep it clean until the wedding. Anyway, he works overseas, so it's not really a problem. But he's visiting me in a couple of days and I wanna surprise him. So how do I show him how much I love him WITHOUT having sex? I do wanna arouse him, anyway.

2007-09-17 07:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous