Should I tell him how I feel ?

Question

I'm from Switzerland, but moved to southern France four years ago to go to college. 2 years ago, i met this guy in Geneva by mutual friends, and we got along instantly.
All of our friends said we were meant for each other, and i knew he had feelings for me, but i was kind of seeing somebody and didn't like too much the idea of a long-distance relationship as i was in france for most part of the year.
A few months ago, i've begun to have feelings for him that got really strong, but i didnt know if he was still interested, and i'm way too shy to say anything anyway.
The problem is that he's leaving in 2 days to spend 9 months in australia.. we planned to have coffee at his place tomorrow. Do you think i should tell him what i feel ? or would it be useless now that he's leaving ?
How should I tell him ?

Answer 1

Take a sec, and reflect on that time you spent with him, do you "feel" that theres "no way" that man didn't feel something intense for you? It wasn't just happy fun times was it? Did you guys get down and dirting, and talk deep? Or was it small talk with flirtin in the mix? Its important because if it was deep, you can be assured you left an impression, one of those, you never forget kind of things. It actually happens, its possible, and with that said, if you can believe it (the experience) had some impact not only with you, but him. Then talk to him, tell him honestly IN YOUR OWN STYLE! Thats the real catch no one can give you the fool proof speech to get that man you need, but YOU can come up with the truth from that heart and at the least, unburden yourself, and at the most change your life....... lives began like this, and some people just have another day.....