After you find out an ex is playing with your heart or acting like a whore. Do you speak your mind in a text or message or do you let it go and forget about them?
really want to call her out.
2007-09-17 08:20:39 · 23 answers · asked by bhackle2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do it any way than in person??? you a coward???
2007-09-17 08:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are and say what you feel
Because those that matters, don't mind
And those that mind, don't matter
-Quoted by Theous (yikes...I forgot).
But yes...like the quote stated above. Speaking your mind doesn't have to be a hard question. If you know what is right, than say it. If they don't appreciate your advice, let them live their life the way they want, but you can too....make a decision whether or not to tell them what is right and what is wrong. Although other people may have different perspective, only the open minded ones will listen. But the rest....doesn't matter to you. If you feel obligated to tell her and as you quoted "call her out", than let her know that YOU know what she is doing. Let her know if it bothers you to the point where you write about it even on Y!A
2007-09-17 15:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say FORGET ABOUT IT! Its not worht the stress. Keep drama out of ur life as much as possible and u will be so much happier in the long run, life goes on. Getting back or even is not justice. remember what goes around, comes around. Who knows she might end up with an std or something,lol. Let it be. You saying anything will not change her as a person. She is who she is for a reason. Remember, silence is golden. Move on!!!
2007-09-17 15:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by louise23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point? She's an ex, so why drag yourself back into her personal life like that?? Just be content in the fact that you don't have to deal with that behavior anymore...sounds like you're better off anyway!! Besides, she's probably doing it just to get a reaction out of you and the best revenge for that is simply not reacting!
2007-09-17 15:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckygurl284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the situation play itself out. You will get an opportunity to get your say one of these days. Texting is not it, she will delete it and probably won't bother her anyway! Letting it go is much more mature and healthy for you! Believe me, honey, she will continue to act her self and everyone will see her for what she is. You can move on and be happy and not give her another thought. That, my dear, is the best revenge. Nothing is worse than trying to get the last word on a skank! Nana
2007-09-17 15:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right time, dont do it over text.... wait til you see her with a bunch of friends or a new guy then call her out on it. Make sure you dont get all crazy and mean about it cuz then it looks like you give a crap, you gotta be slick about it and pretend you dont care but your just mentioning that you know what she did while you were together. If you wait for the right time it will feel WAY better!!! :)
2007-09-17 15:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No! No! You kids just don't get it! Do it in person! I can delete a freaking text or message. You show up in public and call me out, that is embarrassing. Make sure he doesn't have any dirt on you. This tends to suck and can often give them the upper hand. Know your opponent.
2007-09-17 15:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you want to do that, but think - why. What do you want to achieve by that. If it is your ex, than just let it go. Your ex can play with your heart as long as you allow that by responding. Just LET IT GO!
2007-09-17 15:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lola I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its an ex, what is the issue. people break up for all kinds of reasons, if you still care about the person,yes you should speak your mind, don't ever let anyone know its ok b/c you're not speaking out.it relieves tension and stress. you'll feel better after you've confronted her.
2007-09-17 15:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... I think you should speak up and tell her exactly how you feel. Don't let that go cuz then she'll think it's the right thing to do! If she keeps acting like a ***** then drop her and move on.
2007-09-17 15:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Nia GonzaLez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a person isnt even worth your time. It sounds like this chick is one of them. I think she will be hurt alot more if you ignored her. She seems to be crying out for some kind of attention. I wouldn't give her the satisfaction.
2007-09-17 15:27:58 · answer #11 · answered by Sasami Masaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋