I have a friend and she has started seeing this man.... He tells her how much he likes her and wants to see her. But then never calls her. Do you think he is trying to give her the brush off or what?
2007-09-17 07:59:08 · 25 answers · asked by funnybird34 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he already got what he wanted from her & moving on to the next one.
2007-09-17 08:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... maybe he just isn't the type of guy to take initiative or maybe he just doesn't want to see her as bad as he says. Have her call him and have a nice long conversation. Let him hang up first and make sure he says, "I'll call you back". Give him a few days-a week to call back. If he doesn't then call him. Ask him why he didn't call back (in a casual way... not a nagging way) and hear his excuse. Whatever the excuse is... dismiss it. This time, let him say he'll call you back again after a long conversation (one he wont forget) and then if he doesn't call back, then he just is not interested. Hope this helps!
2007-09-17 08:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nia GonzaLez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's going through a stressful time with something else. Guys have feelings too, you know. Like a family illness, or huge work project, or lack of trust in his cell phone network.
In fact, maybe that Verizon dude is following him around & he's questioning if maybe he has a gay vibe.
Also, like Dr. Phil says, maybe he's just not that into your friend. But I doubt it. Cause then he wouldn't say he wants to see her all the time.
Most likely: he's looking for a return signal. Maybe she hasn't really responded to his comments in the same way & so he's not sure if his approaches are welcome.
2007-09-17 08:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by redfelipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump to conclusions just yet. Most men dont like talking on the phone or even making a lot of calls because they say its girly.
So slow down so that she doesnt lose a man in haste!
2007-09-17 08:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by antswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to see her as much as he says, then he would pursue her more aggressively. Sounds like he has other interests, but wants to keep her on the side as a backup plan. How sad for your friend. She deserves someone who wants to REALLY pursue her.
2007-09-17 08:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like a true player. SOmeone who cares about you does not treat you like that . You want someone who cares,calls back and gives you the respect you deserve.
2007-09-17 08:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by elkamatuka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. This is the kind of Guy who expects to be called. I would tell her to call him, If SHE really cares about him. If not, move on. It already seems like this guy has underlying issues.
2007-09-17 08:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sasami Masaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that plays that kind of game isn't worth bothering with. Tell her to dump him and find someone that really appreciates her.
2007-09-17 08:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by jo-jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just want's one thing, a three letter word starting with s
2007-09-17 08:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probobally waiting for her to call him. Or maybe some easy sex. If thats true then he is a waste of time.
2007-09-17 08:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋