Singles & Dating - 17 July 2007

2007-07-17 04:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by swon2647 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years (since I was 18) and I have been thinking alot lately about leaving him. He is not a bad guy, he is really sweet and funny, and he is my best friend in the whole world. I really do love him , but I feel like we just don't connect on the level that true love is supposed to . He is not romantic at all. He never wants to have sex, and when we do it is good, but not passionate. He never holds me or touches or caress me. I am the kind of person that needs passion and romance, I just feel like we are good friends. We have been through so much together, and he has never been anything but good to me. Does true passionate love exist? Should I be grateful that I have a man that loves me, won't cheat on me, has a job, and all the basics, or Do you really truely deeply "connect" with your true love? I have been trying to communicate this to him for 6 years, but whenever I bring it up he says "Lets talk about it later" or just acts like I am nagging him.

2007-07-17 04:17:00 · 23 answers · asked by sugarplums 1

i have a bf and i didnt tell my parents becuz they are WAY too overprotective and its weird around them.how can i see him without them knowing.yes,i kno him from school so dont think i met him on the internet.plus,how can i feel less ackward around my parents with a boy.my sister has a bf around them and she acts like its no big deal but to me its embarrasing and weird.plz help with both question.

2007-07-17 04:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie </3 3

need friends that know me

2007-07-17 04:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

...if a friend who is a guy writes you a long note about how much he loves you, and all of the things that he loves about you, but he was really nervous and almost didnt even give it to you because he was so scared of the reaction. But I convinced him to give the note to me, so now what should my reaction be? Does he want me to go to him and tell him what I thought about it or would that just make an awkward situation for him? Should I keep going on like he never wrote it? Thank him? The note didnt lead as to what expectations he had, so Im not sure if it was just a nice note, or him wanting to take it further. So I dont want to embarrass him or myself, what should I do?

2007-07-17 04:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl that lives below me, and the other day i ran into her and i introduce myself to her, she was smiling and happy and she showed me where her apt was downstairs. does that mean she is single or has a bf? does she like me? what should my next move be? thanks J

2007-07-17 04:07:39 · 30 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

do you remember my question about the boy who i totally messed up with and you said stay friendly and you might win hime back- well i was friendly and now he is ignoring me what's worse is that his best mate likes me tooo...what a to do!!!!

help any advice helpful

2007-07-17 04:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by choco_lover 1

i know that married men talk on emails all the time to women and female work colleges but why do these emails cross the line and divert on to a personnel level what posesses someone who they dont really know to spill out all their problems or seek advice on a personel point

2007-07-17 03:55:47 · 29 answers · asked by JANET W 1

so i have known this guy for about 8 months. we met at work and drank together a couple times outside of work at his home.

ever since the first day i started working at my job he has been trying to have sex with me, and i kept saying no. he has a shady past that includes injection drug abuse, time in prison, and the sale of drugs.

he has since found a new job, but continued to stay in contact with me. he would call me at least once a week.

a month ago, i gave in and had sex with him. anal sex to be exact. the condom broke but he replaced it within 30 seconds with a new one before he came.

he hasn't called me since.

what do you make of this?

2007-07-17 03:55:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHAT DO THE RICH NEED
THE POOR HAVE
AND THE DEAD EAT???

2007-07-17 03:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wonder if anyone will be able to answer this...

2007-07-17 03:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by LoveMeForMe211 1

I was dating a guy for about 3 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and he is now tryng to get back with me, sweet talking me and beein nice. I miss him and love him as a friend and nothing more. I started seein someone new its nothing serious yet we are just dating but i like him. The ex has the assumption that i am seein someone and is worried and bothersome about it. If i tell him i am seein someone he will freak out probably cry and be hurt. I dont want to hurt him but I feel like keeping it from him isnt helping either. Should i tell him im seein someone now, or wait untill its more serious? I dont want to hurt his feelings and im afraid he will go crazy. But i dont want to lie to him either when he asks if im seein anybody?

2007-07-17 03:51:37 · 8 answers · asked by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6

ok so my friend has a REALLY negative self-image and i tell her she looks fine but she wont let any boys she likes see her in a bathing suit....this is her basically:
tall....VERY VERY thin (she has a butt though, and curvy hips), small breasts (she's paranoid about them), and she's VERY VERY white, she doesn't tan, but other than that she's pretty with nice hair....and she's not allowed to wear a bikini (reddish/blondish hair with some freckles and green eyes)
so she compares herself with the blonde...tan... woman with big boobs and thinks that guys dont hit on her....
as a guy, WHAT DO YOU THINK??? and if she had a REALLLY great personality, would that make up for everything???
ANSWER PLEASE!!!

2007-07-17 03:50:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

*I mean just not do what you know she wants you to do.
*If she's trying to show you how to be her hero why REBEL??

2007-07-17 03:49:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been very stressed lately and over the last week or so I've realised that I don't love my bf anymore. We've had problems but they're being sorted but I looked at him the other day and realised I felt nothing for him. I said I love you and still nothing. When he said I love you back to me all i felt was guilt.

Do I talk to him?
What can I say?

2007-07-17 03:47:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this guy for over 2 years and I have a child from a one night stand (that happended before me & my b/f started dating) My b/f was there when my child was born & has been like a father figure ever since. But he has an alcohol problem & I just found out that he went to a strip club 2 times last week when he was on a trip with his buddies. I think strip clubs are discusting and I was pissed when I found out he went, but now I am irrate to find out that he had one lap dance on one night while he was drunk and on the other night he was totally sober and still had a lap dance...and this was in Canada and they are pretty skanky there. I just feel like I am not satisfying enough or something. I can't stop imagining some nasty stipper rubbing herself by him. I don't know if i can forgive him and I think i have lost all trust in him....I love him & so does my daughter, but when do you say enough is enough???

2007-07-17 03:46:49 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer B 2

My friend/colleague lives with her bf and they have an interesting system for dividing household costs. It seems to work for them and I'm about to move in with my bf so I was wondering what other people think? I don't know if this would work for everyone.

He makes 60% of the household income and she makes 40%. So in turn, he pays 60% of the bills and she pays 40% - this means he pays 60% of the rent, hydro, cable, etc.

I think it's a good idea - she said "we aren't roommates so we don't need to split everything right down the middle." Both of them make good money.

My bf and I are looking for a way to work our finances together and this seems like a good idea (our income split is 45/55). Does anyone else here do something like this? Or, do you have other suggestions?

Thanks!

2007-07-17 03:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok every body keeps telling me this boy just wants me for s3x he is 4 years older than me but i think he is sweet to me. my friends say that thats the only reson he wants me for people on here say it. so why would he want me for just s3x we r both under 18 plz help

2007-07-17 03:42:38 · 35 answers · asked by caylee d 2

How long do you and your boyfriend/girlfriend go without talking? Not because you are mad or because your apart, but...well you see heres the story...My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months. We've already established that we are not phone people, meaning that we dont have to talk on the phone for hours everynight...we both agree that because we live so close its pointless. Yesterday, I didn't hear from him at all, not even an e-mail. Maybe this is just me looking for the perfect guy that doesn't exist, but would you be concerned if you didn't hear from him? we go from spending all day together one day and then I hear nothing from him the next...what is this? One night he called at midnight to tell me he got home safe...but then some days he wont call at all. Oh, and another thing...one day he told me I looked nice. I don't know what to think of that. Nice is something you would say to your mother on her birthday. Men are so hard to read.

2007-07-17 03:37:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating a cute guy for about 2 months. He offered me his key yesterday and I moved in. I almost fall in him, however, I think he does not feel the same way. The reason I am saying this because he can never be so passionate/wild in the bedroom which I consider a way to show your love to your loved one. Guys in earlier 20s should have a very strong sex drive, however, he is different. He never gave me two organisms one night. However, I was used to have three or at least two with my ex every time when we spent time together. I always felt unsatisfied and frustrated because sometimes I want to make love, he likes to say-it is time for bed. I understand that he needs to get up early (6:30am) and he works a lot(14 a day I-banking usually ) but my ex-boyfriends were also I-bankers and they acted very aggressive and never kept me sweaty in the bedroom. I felt so ignored and doubt my current bf's feelings towards me. He does not drink/party much, works hard, I love him! What should I do?

2007-07-17 03:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by Lla 1

2007-07-17 03:30:18 · 32 answers · asked by marc g 1

I'm 12 Almost 13 I'm going to be in november23

2007-07-17 03:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 03:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by Market Magician 3

well i just want to know how many people would date me

I am 16 have blond hair, green eyes, i am 6'7, 108 pounds, i like hanging out with my freinds and rock music(like ac/dc)
(and for boys who like looks not personality i am a size D dra)

I WILL PICK BEST ANSWERS AND FEAL FREE TO ADD ME AS A CONTACT

thanks =p

K.P.

2007-07-17 03:28:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, im not 100% sure if this girl likes me.. We talk to eachother... and she tells me some funny stories too. Well one night we walk with eachother around the center. Our conversation are okay, but she tells me on the date saying "Its pretty boring tonight"... Going on, we walk around and I want to play with her softly behind a store, but she doesnt seem to want to be touched...?? We know eachother for 3 months.. and i think she can trust me no?? In the begging of the date is was okay, but at the end it was a little wierd. She said bye and went on her phone with no hug or kiss??? I dont get her, because she still calls me and talks to me online??? is she just using me? Is this worth my time or should i find someone else?? (thx for responses)

2007-07-17 03:24:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've only had sex twice and with tsame person.
And sex isn't really a big deal for me but I want to with my boyfreidn now but I'm still tight.
Like real..tight

2007-07-17 03:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is always saying he is going to make me fall in love with him we are seeing each other but we said we don't want a relationship so then why would he want that?

2007-07-17 03:17:26 · 14 answers · asked by hcj25 2

My question is would you date a stripper? now most guys say they would but i am being serious would you actually have a realationship with one take her to meet your family stripping is just a job it doesnt make the person and if you say yes would you try to get her to stop stripping after a while of dateing please honest answers

2007-07-17 03:16:38 · 27 answers · asked by sara24 2

I won my GF back from the Hoopla but as I type I'm eyeing up a new car and they will taking 'ANYTHING' as a deposit... should I...???? You decide

2007-07-17 03:12:35 · 2 answers · asked by Tiger01204 5

2007-07-17 03:11:28 · 24 answers · asked by 1919 3